₦airaland Forum

AuntRose:
Are you talking about the ideology of speaking up against the maltreatment of women?, the ideology of trying to equate the right of both sex is the best ideology any woman could have. You probably have a comfortable home where you must have been beclouded by the artificial love being shown towards you by the other gender. My dear, don't get drown in that artificial love as when it's time the beast in him would surface and I pray it won't be too late.

There's need to educate we ladies to see how we've been reduced by the other sex, they consider us as sex objects, deprive us of our rights, profess love but bring along hatred and shame. If truly you are sympathetic and patriotic you'll realise the importance of this movement. Free yourself my dear, Free yourself.

I refer to you as 'dear' because you're like me; a female. We need your support in freeing womanhood.

thebosstrevor1:
This is impossible.

Nowadays, women prepare food for the whole week and store it in the freezer.

Check which laundry...the invention of washing machine and driers have made it easy to organise your marriage life.

Homework-employ a lesson teacher.

For bedroom satisfaction, when 2 couples are working, they hardly think about sex except on freedays

lightpurple:
If her husband can make filth, he must clean up after himself. He is not a goat or a baby.
Can’t you see how disgusting the thought of being with a Nigerian man is now? You don’t think they are being selfish?

EaglesEyes1:
Guys beware of Nigeria ladies who try to imitate the characters of those American white ladies, if you all have noticed, the divorce rate especially in USA is alarming. In America a woman can just wake one morning and tell the husband that I m not feeling the love between us anymore and file for a divorce. The divorce lawyers are cashing out big time. How can a marriage last when both partners think that they are equal to each. In marriage a man is meant to be the head no two captains on ship nor even in a plane, so the marriage is not balanced and when something is not balanced, it will fall. If you want to practice feminism, practice it outside of the marriage but don't bring inside the marriage. Anyway, if u are miserable lucky to get married to Simp husband who will tolerate your feminism attitude, then get ready cuz u will be tired of him and cuz of the Nigeria system u might not get to divorce for no jus cause reasons, instead u will start cheating on him with som1 who is not a simp because you aren't wired to be attracted to a simp.

trilacos:
are you blind to the extent you cant read nigga?

Psych412:
start from page 1, you will see it.

BadBitch:
First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

Truthteller2020:
Pure sensible lady,if you're not married I fit marry you.. Meanwhile, it's "their" not "thier"...pls acept my correction in good fate, nobody is perfect.

wisdomiskey:
You're wishing death on someone because of a post on Nairaland?
You are rotten to the core and definitely hell-bound. There is no salvation for a wicked and possessed soul like you.

For assuming you have such audacity to utter such words, you will live, my dear you will live to watch everything you've ever worked for crumble before your eyes, nothing you touch will ever prosper, you will face hatred and dejection everywhere you go. Men will run from you, women will betray you, children will curse and mock you.

The same way Mstick lost a child after cursing someone on Nairaland, so shall you lose your children one after the other if you have any. But if you have none, may you remain barren for the rest of your miserable life.
May evil and darkness torment you all the days of your life. You will beg for death and it will not answer you until your appointed time to leave earth and burn in the flames of hell for eternity.

So shall it be. Amen.

CHoccolaTE:
everything you wrote to me or will ever write to me will come to pass in my destiny.
I will lose my children one by one and I will be barren if I have no kids, I will lose everything I ever worked for and I will not get anything I hope for, men will run from me, women will betray me, children will curse and mock me.
I will lose my children for cursing someone online the way that lady you mentioned lost her child. I'M A FOOL.
Are you the Op or why are you so pained?

Any curse I have ever written to anyone now or in future will return back to me and fall on my destiny.

So be it.

AuntRose:
Are you talking about the ideology of speaking up against the maltreatment of women?, the ideology of trying to equate the right of both sex is the best ideology any woman could have. You probably have a comfortable home where you must have been beclouded by the artificial love being shown towards you by the other gender. My dear, don't get drown in that artificial love as when it's time the beast in him would surface and I pray it won't be too late.

There's need to educate we ladies to see how we've been reduced by the other sex, they consider us as sex objects, deprive us of our rights, profess love but bring along hatred and shame. If truly you are sympathetic and patriotic you'll realise the importance of this movement. Free yourself my dear, Free yourself.

I refer to you as 'dear' because you're like me; a female. We need your support in freeing womanhood.

JovialJune:
So because men owns or head most of what you mentioned, means they contribute 100% to the family? Are you living in a cave? Or you don't know the stupid life most of these men live because they feel cos they have money, they have arrived? Do you even know what it means to be a bread winner?

AuntRose:
You just ended up saying nothing, it's this same mindset that makes you men bash women all the time. Superiority complex I must say is a common disease found in all men.

JovialJune:
So I should come and tell you all the things I've bought for my husband, because you are who exactly?

DMerciful:
Did she say nen are 100% responsible for the home financially? Why are you being dramatic to push a foolish narrative?

She was countering someone that said women are 80% breadwinners. Why not read to understand rather than reading to react?

DMerciful:
After marrying you come here to discourage younger ladies by teaching them to be misandrist under the guise of feminism. Are you happy in your marriage so?

AuntRose:
History have shown if given the chance women perform better in those aforementioned field. Ask yourself this first, have we been given the chance to proof if truly we have what it takes to be the 'superior'??

AuntRose:
You just ended up saying nothing, it's this same mindset that makes you men bash women all the time. Superiority complex I must say is a common disease found in all men.

JovialJune:
You lots are the dramatic ones pushing a foolish narrative, for her to name all jobs and companies men own and head, isn't she indirectly saying those men automatically provides or are 100% breadwinners of their home? Are you dumb?

danilmo:
common nobody is demeaning women here. we are all leaving fine , dad not complaining of being d finance backbone neither is mum feeling demeaning and mum too don't boast of her income anyday..

just stating the obvious for the ladies who won't let us hear word with the chicken change they contribute..

young ladies should learn from their working mother's who earns and won't still put it to their men's face..

CHoccolaTE:
What I wrote still stands, I am not retracting it


Op, if you are a man pretending to be a woman and you started this thread to make women objects of ridicule you will die before the end of next year, slow and painful death.

If you are actually a stupid and attention seeking female then I have no words for you.

Make I mention you so that you will see the post
@leshurr


Any idiot that used alt account to start thread for woman bashing and woman ridicule should prepare himself

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mrblessed:
[s]The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.[/s]

stanech:
I think my point is very clear.
As for bashing of women, I think you are wrong about that because i do not engage in such.
My point is that there are very vast differences between men and women which explains why there is no equality.

For instance, Men are physically stronger than women that is a fact.. That is why society frowns more at a man fighting a woman than two men fighting. Believe it or not these differences are the real reasons men seems to be dominant and all that shit

wisdomiskey:
It's too late. Nigeria is already headed in that direction I see a lot of single cat'ladies in their 40s in the nearest future

DMerciful:
Did she say men are 100% breadwinners? Your application of syllogism is pedestrian and grossly foolish. Its because you have a preconceived position that is why you failed to understand a simple comment

DMerciful:
Its actually women that portray themselves as sex objects that why dressing sexy and revealing is what they celebrate

EsomahJD:
If you are a female please disregard this comment I quoted.

I repeat, disregard it in totality.

There should still be saner people in the midst of confused lots.