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Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Leshurr(f): 6:27pm On Dec 06, 2020
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Davash222(m): 6:28pm On Dec 06, 2020
Finally, a sensible female Nairalander surfaces, The world is ending soon, brace up people.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ojun50(m): 6:38pm On Dec 06, 2020
Davash222:
Finally, a sensible female Nairalander surfaces, The world is ending soon, brace up people.
The world is not ending soon..... Stop deceiving ur self....

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Cutehector(m): 6:39pm On Dec 06, 2020
We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.


Cute

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by TarOrfeeek: 6:50pm On Dec 06, 2020
TRP is resetting brains and recovering destinies.


Oh lord, be praised.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by crackhaus: 6:55pm On Dec 06, 2020
A woman who enjoys deceiving herself wittingly or unwittingly, is usually the easiest to outsmart and run circles around.

I don't think a lot of them know this.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by JovialJune(f): 7:09pm On Dec 06, 2020
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Kuns84(m): 7:18pm On Dec 06, 2020
JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.


Uh oh, looks like this struck a nerve cheesy

Although I didn't expect any less from your ilks. Once a fellow woman refuses to tow your destructive lane of toxic feminism, embittered souls like you will come out spewing hate and misery.

Karashika lipsrsealed

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Kuns84(m): 7:19pm On Dec 06, 2020
Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.


Ride on jare. Smart woman.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by JovialJune(f): 7:24pm On Dec 06, 2020
Kuns84:



Uh oh, looks like this struck a nerve cheesy

Although I didn't expect any less from your ilks. Once a fellow woman refuses to tow your destructive lane of toxic feminism, embittered souls like you will come out spewing hate and misery.

Karashika lipsrsealed


And they have arrived, I don't do senseless banters just to stroke whatever is left of your manliness, nope, so look further to someone else,

May you find peace.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Kuns84(m): 7:28pm On Dec 06, 2020
JovialJune:



And they have arrived, I don't do senseless banters just to stroke whatever is left of your manliness, nope, so look further to someone else,

May you find peace.

You don't do "senseless banters" but yet you responded. Ode.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by skinny419(m): 8:11pm On Dec 06, 2020
Zzzor come learn from ur elder sista

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2020
we?

don't use your personal experience as a means to categorize all women.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Kuns84(m): 8:34pm On Dec 06, 2020
Nuyokoi:
we ?

don't use your personal experience as a means to categorize all women.

Lol.
Coming from the same dolt who said this:
Nuyokoi:
1. get money
2. marry her

Nigerian girls must surely disgrace themselves

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by LadySarah: 8:36pm On Dec 06, 2020
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by JovialJune(f): 10:00pm On Dec 06, 2020
Kuns84:


You don't do "senseless banters" but yet you responded. Ode.


I responded so that you'll know my stand, do you expect me to stay mute so you'd continue yapping about like a dog on heat?

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by mrblessed(m): 10:01pm On Dec 06, 2020
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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by mrblessed(m): 10:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by gideon66045: 10:22pm On Dec 06, 2020
TRP is resetting brains and recovering destinies.Oh lord, be praised.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Karleb(m): 11:46pm On Dec 06, 2020
I'm waiting for those that'll say OP is a man.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 12:25am On Dec 07, 2020
Its when you don't know your God given purpose on earth that you whole life will be centered on marriage.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by tobechi74: 2:04am On Dec 07, 2020
I hope she is not licking ass of men to buy into his good books.
.I hope she does not desire make PM

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Mindlog: 2:10am On Dec 07, 2020
Generalization is a dangerous mindset.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ednut1(m): 2:32am On Dec 07, 2020
I don't take ladies who join Facebook groups serious all those fake feminists them

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 3:08am On Dec 07, 2020
How many ladies truly have you seen doing those things you mentioned? Or you're just trying to get the cheap attention of the men here? I hope you get it though but mind you, it won't get you into the their good books because they are habitual female bashers and will still bash you anyways. So??

Lastly, respect yourself!

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by DukeJoe17: 7:32am On Dec 07, 2020
Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.


Pls avoid zzor and virginprincess, they don't have your reasoning kind of your.

Stay safe brainy.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by mosdii(m): 7:50am On Dec 07, 2020
CalliDora1:
How many ladies truely have you seen doing those things you mentioned? Or you're just trying to get the cheap attention of the men here? I hope you get it though but mind you, it won't get you into the their good books because they are habitual female bashers and will still bash you anyways. So??

Lastly, respect yourself!


E pain you.... ntoor

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Kuns84(m): 9:53am On Dec 07, 2020
This guy has said it all..

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 07, 2020
mosdii:



E pain you.... ntoor

Grow up. Don't fall for the massage. It's all a bait.

Her type, after they enter, will turn into a lion. We know them. So don't be deceived.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by mosdii(m): 10:01am On Dec 07, 2020
CalliDora1:


Grow up. Don't fall for the massage. It's all a bait.

Her type, after they enter, they into a lion. We know them. So don't be deceived.

Deceived by who?
in case you don't know AWALT including you and her.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 07, 2020
mosdii:


Deceived by who?
in case you don't know AWALT including you and her.

Gibberish.

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