₦airaland Forum

AuntRose:
[s]You have any evidence to proof the op is a female? If yes, mention me with one.[/s]

She said it herself, you are the one that refused to believe her gender because you are beclouded with hatred and pained, because the op stated the fact.

LadySarah:
Quality sex comes from a relaxed mind. The woman who has been busy with house chores after work will not give you quality sex and will not also enjoy it cos her body is yelling 'rest'.while the man has taken time to relax and is looking forward to the final enjoyment.

Our fathers who you compare to us had several wives. In case of sickness or childbirth or whatever, another wife filled the gap.

My husband isn't insensitive to these. Most he's home before me and already does some while I do the rest. It gives me ample time to relax and increase our bonding.

Unless your mum isn't truthful, ask her how she feels those times.I doubt if you are a mother. You will understand later

So men don't get stressed too after work and traffic??...stop being biased

Beverlyjean:
Really...did u just say that @ bolded ?? ...so he doesn't satisfy u or What?? I don't get ...isnt it enjoyed by both ??..or u see it as a favour or what?? Its confusing

Don't mind her.
Only sexually frustrated women talk like that. LadySarah will soon claim she's "happily married" just to justify her stupid point - again reinforcing what OP has stated about how most of y'all see marriage as the end all be all of your existence
She is bitter and miserable asf.
Happy women rush home to receive good lurvving from their sexy husbands

In how many homes do women not contribute in financial responsibilities, no matter how small? I haven't seen such a home, unless the woman is a nursing mother, or lost her job. Even wives who don't have jobs settle for businesses.........the writer is just another NL peekmeshia.....a ma*le ass lic*ker.

As for the reason why some ladies pressure their guys for marriage, it is because a woman's biological build up is different from a man's own, I am speaking from the reproduction angle. it is also because it is natural for a female to wish to marry, be loved and procreate, though the tales of woes associated with marriages of today can kill such natural feelings.

Who are the married ladies who shame singles? In my life as a single girl, I never got shamed by a married woman, so shutt up and stop generalizing. As for single girls joining prayer groups to pray for husband's, haven't you seen them pray for financial breakthroughs, pray for a car, houses, etc? Some write ups are a complete balderdash.

SweetCunt97:
You know me?

Kind of but though is thru NL.
There was a particular thread about 'Your happiest day,funny experience and sex experience(s)' about two years ago or so where you and some other Nairalanders killed the comment section with your crazy and funny vibe and that was where I got to know your moniker,and you know the name kind of sound funnily weird.

LadySarah:
Quality sex comes from a relaxed mind. The woman who has been busy with house chores after work will not give you quality sex and will not also enjoy it cos her body is yelling 'rest'.while the man has taken time to relax and is looking forward to the final enjoyment.

Our fathers who you compare to us had several wives. In case of sickness or childbirth or whatever, another wife filled the gap.

My husband isn't insensitive to these. Most he's home before me and already does some while I do the rest. It gives me ample time to relax and increase our bonding.

Unless your mum isn't truthful, ask her how she feels those times.I doubt if you are a mother. You will understand later

Many things are put together here.
First of all, my observation is that most female do not have minds of their own. Even in Churches, it will amaze you how the so-called Christian women come to discuss their homes. They discuss how their husbands need sex and do not assist them at home.
This and many other platforms like Facebook etc is where they learn ideas to frustrate their homes and act innocent.
It is absolutely wrong for a man not to assist the wife at home, he is stronger and it makes
it interesting
Women, too often give the excuse of tiredness for not having sex with their spouses. They consider it as a tool: particularly, when they feel the husband would not cheat.

Now, when a man assists his wife, it's either the woman relaxes, that's for the lazy ones or she gets uncomfortable for the competitive one: if the husband is such that does whatever he does meticulously. In which case, the woman still looks for another excuse for not having sex, looking attractive,tying rapper.

Let the matter of a new female secretary who's sincerely dutiful,polite and respectful comes in, then you hear the wife: "Why is she always greeting you?" "Good morning sir, weldone sir...yen yen yen sir" She's very fake o. Can't you get a male secretary? etc

To break the camel's back, the husband no longer demand for sex like before.

Shebi, you are tired and not always ready for sex. Let me leave you alone so that you can rest. Needless to mention that though both male and female enjoy sex, female enjoy it the most based on the fact that 15,000 neurons get fired in the female genital compared to 4,000 in male, coupled with the fact that the charges passed through a woman's body at orgasm, if passed through the male system, it will be fried.

So, whether a woman pretends not to enjoy sex or pulls back, I know better that it pleasures her more, and if anyone is supposed to make it a tool, it's the male.
This is not to encourage using it as a tool for any gender against the other.

My point:
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1. Female consult other female who will still tomorrow mock them and shame them for the advice that will ruin their marriages/relationship.
2. Female find excuses for not having sex with their husbands even when he assists, particularly, when they think he can not cheat until they realise he is done with them in his heart.
3. Sex is first will, though can be motivated by good-body condition otherwise, how do you explain the pleasure some women enjoyed from the expectedly traumatic experience of rape, that makes some not trust themselves asking:
Why did I enjoy being raped?

So, tell yourself you want to have sex with your husband and you want to enjoy it. Deliberately create the thought in your mind, your body will soon join. Husband help your wives and make it easy for her to WILL you into her mind.

humilitypays:
stop that!!!


White ladies face more pressure to get married than Nigerian ladies or why do you think Nigerian Internet romance scammers aka Yahoo Boys who target mostly white women make millions of $$ every year


The desire and pressure to get married is in all women of all race, it has nothing to do with race or nationality. Kim Kardashian flaunt her marriage more than when she was single. Same with Beyonce.


Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie the mother of Nigerian and African women feminists got married and she is very loyal to her husband but comes outside to tell gullible ladies this and that.


The day Linda Ikeji finally finds a hubby and gets married will be celebrated by her more than the day she bought her first car. Some years ago when she met Jeremy her babydaddy, she went underground and even reduced the rate she updated her blog, she was always at his place thinking her dream have come true and she open her vjay wide open and got pregnant even without marriage assurance before reality downed on her that she has been catfished yet she was busy deceiving many young girls with celibacy and the nonsense talk that marriage is not all that is to life for ladies, which she used to deceive so many ladies into believing that being single and chasing career growth without getting married is the right way to live life as a lady.


You ladies should stop deceiving yourselves like the op said, you can be successful in your career, business or handwork and still have a successful marriage, don't throw away one for another, carry the two along cheerfully and stop insulting men and looking down on men that you so much desire to feel complete.


Stop denying the truth that you so much desire to get married to a great man, that's self deceit and delusion if any lady denies that, especially a Nigerian lady. ....they only tow that line after several failed attempts to hook up a man for marriage and this failure to keep a successful, healthy relationship with a worthy man, which is mostly caused by them, out of their pride, arrogance, bad character and excessive love for money, material things and vane life. But instead of making a honest change to become better women, they rather turn to toxic women who use feminism as an excuse to be unruly, disrespectful, toxic, mannerless, stupidly materialistic and over ambitious

Oil plenty for ya head, Wise Man!

JovialJune:
So I should come and tell you all the things I've bought for my husband, because you are who exactly?

Husband?

You sound too inmature to be a married woman

Tueh!!

AuntRose:
History have shown if given the chance women perform better in those aforementioned field. Ask yourself this first, have we been given the chance to proof if truly we have what it takes to be the 'superior'??

which history?

Pls fill me in.

danilmo:
of course it's the standard.

an average home of 80-90% has men as the breadwinner , don't bring that stupid talk of jobless men who are fed by their wife's. it's like referring me to women who are mechanics. yes their are but u hardly see, same way their women who are breadwinner but u hardly see too...wen I say chasing clout I meant u children/ladies who won't let us hear word with the chicken change u earn that has beclouded u people's senses.

as per chore, ure on ur own o.. me as a man I ll ensure their is foodstuffs, cooking gadget, freezer, washing machine , if those thing aren't enough then, I no know again o..we find our redpill way.

See sense!

Beverlyjean:
If I share in the financial responsibilities department with my husband, it doesn't automatically mean he must share on the take care of the home department with me... if he wants to clean , then he does it out of his free will....its not a competition sister...the moment u turn it to a competition, thats the day ur marriage will start to go down the drain

It is called marital responsibilities which you share with your spouse in which taking care of the home fall into.

That's why there are so many bitter depressed married women out there that transfers accumulated aggressions to the wrong source all over Nigeria.

The lady never mentioned competition, u did.

If your husband don't help out, carry your cross. There are so many who help around the house and are still cherished and respected as the head of the house. What better way do husband bond and communicate if not doing family stuffs together or do u think it's by sex?

Wake up and grow up.

Emaprince:
OK, when the need arises, they dress well. But when its time to objectify themselves and get attention from opposite sex. They dress indecently ..

Lool

She is a Confused being!!

AuntRose:
You've lost it totally, how many men can take care of their home, children and work concurrently?, How many men can still stay unmarried when the wife passes on?, You're too blind to see the strength we have over them, what a shame. You bringing up those senseless issues as a proof shows you have no pride in womanhood. You've been brainwashed to even fail to realise all those stuffs you mentioned came as a result of the bias, over pompous and domineering attitude of the opposite gender.

Truly, you have no pride as a woman. A shame I must confess.

Majority of all you said just points to the fact that :

Women, my dear... Are created for the home and kids. Stop trying to rise above your station.

Good day.

AuntRose:
History have shown if given the chance women perform better in those aforementioned field. Ask yourself this first, have we been given the chance to proof if truly we have what it takes to be the 'superior'??

Would ideas would you as a person have if given the chance as relates to technology?

Emperor4tune:
a cheers to that bro,is just a mater of time,am planning a #redpill revolution.men must be saved from the shakels pussy has enslave & manipulated them for years,at times i weep for simps because i wish they could humble themselves and seek akanouche & be free like a bird in the air,when women see me they began to tremble in fear because they no my head is stored with their formula & logics,even if they want to manipulate equations from the moon,i emperor4tune will crack & solve them with ease and smile.

Welcome to the family of alfas

humilitypays:
No matter how you follow it, man can never be equal to women. Men out of compassion and empathy have done a lot to bring themselves at par with ladies to make ladies feel loved and great but the modern women are trying to take advantage of those priveleges and they need to be put to their place.


Religiously, man was created before woman.


Biologically, a man is created more physically rugged than a woman.


Psychologically, a man is more mature than a woman.


Check all the history of technology, science and engineering inventions from the beginning of the world, you can find no woman or very insignificant number of women, why


To enjoy this world as woman, be humble to a man that cherishes you and throw away every feminism or gender equality nonsense and don't even listen to ladies that do such or befriend any, just focus on your life and your man and be happy.


Men worship ladies who are loyal and respectful to them, but show that you are too wise and equal to your man and he will make life miserable for you.

Feminist will come for you oo

Hassanmaye:
Welcome to the family of alfas

i no dey hate us so much,but is ok by us..welcome to the team bro

Nuttella:
Its when you don't know your God given purpose on earth that you whole life will be centered on marriage.

And wen u knkw ur God-given purpose on earth, forget the marriage part ok??

Ode!!!

BadBitch:
First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

All fax no printers

Unbelievable

LilMissFavvy:
In how many homes do women not contribute in financial responsibilities, no matter how small? I haven't seen such a home, unless the woman is a nursing mother, or lost her job. Even wives who don't have jobs settle for businesses.........the writer is just another NL peekmeshia.....a ma*le ass lic*ker.

As for the reason why some ladies pressure their guys for marriage, it is because a woman's biological build up is different from a man's own, I am speaking from the reproduction angle. it is also because it is natural for a female to wish to marry, be loved and procreate, though the tales of woes associated with marriages of today can kings.

[b]Who are the married ladies who shame singles? In my life as a single girl, I never got shamed by a married woman, so shutt up and stop generalizing[/b]As for single girls joining prayer groups to

it can happen to anybody else. stop using your personal experiences to debunk harsh claims.

This thread is created by a male in disguise of a female sha

stanech:
The whole modern feminist thing is confusing, If you get close to them you will see they are just men haters and nothing more, Women are men are never and cannot be equal. There are incomparable differences between both genders and I actually think they were made to compliment each other. My thought though

So what makes them unequal? Going by your analogy, can we say that the black and white men are not equal?

Lucyspa:
So what makes them unequal? Going by your analogy, can we say that the black and white men are not equal?

What makes them unequal? Maybe you should ask sports organisers why we have separate events for men and women, or maybe you should ask why the cosmic gave women the super ability to bare children or let's ask why we have different reproductive organs, i can list 30 differences between men and women off the top of my head. And these differences are the reasons why we are not equal

stanech:
What makes them unequal? Maybe you should ask sports organisers why we have separate events for men and women, or maybe you should ask why the cosmic gave women the super ability to bare children or let's ask why we have different reproductive organs, i can list 30 differences between men and women off the top of my head. And these differences are the reasons why we are not equal

So their differences make them unequal?

Lucyspa:
So their differences make them unequal?

Of cos.
If you were asked to recruit a 20 special seal or commando team to take out a top terrorist, and you were given about 100men and 100 women to train and choose from, who do you think will make the buck of your team? No matter how much you try to introduce balance in such a team the men will always have the upper hand why the women may take up the not so combatant roles.

Try and visit the engineering dept of any school It is like 80 percent men, My school then was like 90 percent men... Women will not choose these fields for reasons best known to them, As such you will have more men practicing engineering in the future. Same thing applies to Computer programming and other highly technical areas of specialization. But when men dominate these fields in the future they cry patriarchy. Am sorry but you can not give what you do not have..

Lucyspa:
So their differences make them unequal?

Why do you think we have male and female categories of any sports? because if you group them together a woman will never become a champion in that sport\.

DMerciful:
Common! How many 'their' in her write up? Several! Just one mistake that's obviously typo, you're making stupid correction. Grow up!

You're so foolish.. Can't you see many "thier" on the write up?

Tell them.God knows why he created male and female. We need each other to survive.

MSGAMBLE9:
Husband?

You sound too inmature to be a married woman

Tueh!!

Buzz off!!!

JovialJune:
Buzz off!!!

how was Shiloh?

MSGAMBLE9:
how was Shiloh?

I'm watching from my home with my husband beside me, and we have been blessed so far

Go hug a transformer if it hurts your soul.