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Shortyy:
Hmm. You're still too young for this kind of pressure on yourself. And judging from your replies, you are introverted and haven't been with lots of women. Enjoy yourself for now, have a fulfilled youth. Don't be In a rush, as you're obviously not financially ready to be buying diapers, baby's food and paying school fees.

Take your time, in the next 3 or 4 years, you'd be ready.

Zabiboy:

Some guys sef...
OP, have you toured round the world??, have you gone on holidays or vacation outside the country, have you made investments enough to hold you when you retire??, do you have a house of your own so you can stop paying rent??, Have you really spoiled yourself with fun??....
I can bet you havent done all these but here you are thinking about marriage...
No working class lady with sense Would go for a man that earn 50k per month..
Anyways, i'm not one to discourage a fellow nigga from getting married o...All i can say is "Make sure you enjoy yourself...This life, Na only you waka come"
GL

zedegit:
Say what you know.

If it were that easy, who would even opt for 50k job?

Zabiboy:

That's the point bro..
Someone earning 50k should not be thinking of marriage...
Even if you're earning 1M sef....ypu suppose flex yourself well b4 reasoning marriage

zedegit:
In essence, you are discriminatory. You can advise them to get a working class lady who is supportive and understanding and have few children.

..young guys keep making the same mistake over and over again...
Ok let's say he find the so called supportive and working class lady...definitely, she'll be earning lower than him because it should not be a surprise that working class ladies can't marry someone earning lower than them...
Now, what if after giving birth to a few children ( i'm trying to use the exact words you used ) , things get rough for him and it takes more than 2 years for him to find his feet...
Would the wife's salary be enough for them and the kids??
Would she gladly be the bread winner without nagging??
Would the so called "love" still be there??
Wont she come and litter Nairaland's family section with " My husband is useless and all sorts of ruubish"?? ...
Seriously ehn, na we men dey give all dis Ladies the morale to dey misbehave...
Anyways that's the OP's business...
GL bro

engrgd:
Thanks a lot dear. I appreciate your comment and it's encouraging. Please if you know a friend or relative you could link me to I would really appreciate. Compliments of the season.

engrgd:
That's not a kind word to say to a lady. You obviously don't know her. Compliments of the season.