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Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody:
Long post alert!

Please bear.

During the lockdown ( around May), I saw the news about FG grant on nairaland here. so I called the HM of one of my schools that we are very close ( she's just like a mother to me) and told her about it. she said she's not heard or seen anything like that. I then told her to be on the lookout and just in case, she should remember me. She said ok.

Around September, towards resumption, she called and said she and the husband discovered the FG fund and asked me to come around let's talk. I got to school and she said we are going to have an agreement that for each month I get the grant I'm going to give her 5k, to which I agreed. So she took my details and got me registered. She also did same to all the other teachers both visiting and full-timers.

so last month, immediately I got the alert, I called her to send her account so I can send the 5k for that month, she said to hold on. That we'll discuss when we see. I got to school and she told me since she's still owing me 15k Bal from my salary ( she already paid most part of it during mid-term) that I should use her own cut (15k) to cover my balance so she won't be paying me again till next year. I said ok. So i didn't get my bal as she made me pay it at once but I didn't feel it because i have other schools.

Unfortunately, of all the people she registered, she was the only one who didn't get the grant. I wasn't happy. sincerely I felt for her.

She called me last night and asked if I got a message from FG., I said no.
So this morning, after church, I received an alert for November and called her immediately that I've received the stuff. She now said she's going to send her account that I should send 15k. Huh?? I asked what of the one I paid you with my salary bal? This woman changed and started yelling over the phone that what we agreed was 50-50 bla bla bla that I should send it.

I told her we never agreed 50-50 and I've paid my own part from my balance with her. She started bringing up another issue that she told me to remove 5k for her from what she's paying me initially because of the lockdown and all that. That I have to pay that. I said ok.

This night she texted me and said I should send her the 50-50 agreement. I called her she picked but didn't allow me to talk as she kept on talking and later cut the call. I tried calling her back but she didn't pick so I texted her that what I'm owing her is only 5k . As for the grant, I've done my part.

Am I being insensitive? I mean the other teachers complained that they were not going to give her anything. That she's a greedy woman but I was even calming them down that they should give her since it's an agreement. They didn't give her. she had to forcefully deduct it from their lesson money.

Since morning, I've not been happy. Even when I went out to give myself a treat, I didn't really have fun.

Human beings are amazing. Mehnn...
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by ipobarethieves:
,why not open single thread and let us discuss it here
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Righteousness2(m): 9:57pm On Dec 25, 2020
You Don't need to let anyone kill your Joy.

If you Had an agreement with her, keep to it.
Once that is done , you Have no issues..

In Life you can't Please Everyone. Don't even try to. Free your Conscience by doing what you said you will do.
Once that is done, carry on with your Life
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Dec 25, 2020
Righteousness2:
You Don't need to let anyone kill your Joy.

If you Had an agreement with her, keep to it.
Once that is done , you Have no issues..

In Life you can't Please Everyone. Don't even try to. Free your Conscience by doing what you said you will do.
Once that is done, carry on with your Life
Ok.

Thanks bro.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by shamsin6300(m): 10:06pm On Dec 25, 2020
I will comment back later, possibly around 8am, let me take a long hour of sleep.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by ServanTheG(m): 10:07pm On Dec 25, 2020
That woman is greedy,selfish and self centered. Why must she demand some sort of compensation on the money initially? It serves her right that she is not getting anything from those she registered. Ignore her behaviour
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 25, 2020
ServanTheG:
That woman is greedy,selfish and self centered. Why must she demand some sort of compensation on the money initially? It serves her right that she is not getting anything from those she registered. Ignore her behaviour
She didn't even get the grant. I was even advising the other teachers that we should please try and give her the one she made us agree to pay her when they start paying especially since she didn't get anything from the govt.

The other teachers abandoned her. it was me who took her phone and dialed the FG line until a customer care representative picked it and gave her another number to keep trying.

Even After my exams, I stayed back and was waiting on the phone with her until she told me to go home that I shouldn't bother.it was later I saw one of the teachers who told me she forfully removed 5k each from their lesson fees cos they were not ready to give her.

I wonder why she now wants to change it for me.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by ServanTheG(m): 10:27pm On Dec 25, 2020
CalliDora1:
She didn't even get the grant. I was even advising the other teachers that we should please try and give her the one she made us agree to pay her when they start paying especially since she didn't get anything from the govt.

The other teachers abandoned her. it was me who took her phone and dialed the FG line until a customer care representative picked it and gave her another number to keep trying.

Even After my exams, I stayed back and was waiting on the phone with her until she told me to go home that I shouldn't bother.it was later I saw one of the teachers who told me she forfully removed 5k each from their lesson fees cos they were not ready to give her.

I wonder why she now wants to change it for me.
That's karma at work,for not getting the grant. If she had a good heart she won't ask for returns on the grant meant for other people. One of the reasons naija is so messed up
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by ILoveeyouall(f): 10:33pm On Dec 25, 2020
Lol
That woman dey greedy die
Wtf mehn some women get stone for heart very wicked people
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Dec 25, 2020
ILoveeyouall:
Lol

That woman dey greedy die

Wtf
mehn some women get stone for heart very wicked people
I'm really surprised at her behavior.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Dliquidmetal(m): 12:15am On Dec 26, 2020
Nigerians are amazing people,same woman go wear clothe every Sunday enter church to go listen to the routine gospels without making use of any. You are a very nice person that's why she's tryna manipulate you cause she knows you are weak(nice)please no give am face yall already had an agreement leave her to go Bleep her self,greedy piece of turd angry
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 12:36am On Dec 26, 2020
Dliquidmetal:
Nigerians are amazing people,same woman go wear clothe every Sunday enter church to go listen to the routine gospels without making use of any. You are a very nice person that's why she's tryna manipulate you cause she knows you are weak(nice)please no give am face yall already had an agreement leave her to go Bleep her self,greedy piece of turd angry
My dear. She really want to take my niceness for stupidity but it won't work.

Thanks. I'm not giving her anything.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:47am On Dec 26, 2020
CalliDora1:
My dear. She really want to take my niceness for stupidity but it won't work.

Thanks. I'm not giving her anything.
Lols, but you have a good heart from what I can see.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 2:03am On Dec 26, 2020
Yusufisraelj:
Lols, but you have a good heart from what I can see.
Thanks. smiley
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by obonujoker(m): 2:20am On Dec 26, 2020
Lol.... In my own school, I registered my staff and they all got the grant, I didn't collect one naira from them...(10 of my staff)... That's how it should be!

Well not everyone has the heart of a child of God
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody:
obonujoker:
Lol.... In my own school, I registered my staff and they all got the grant, I didn't collect one naira from them...(10 of my staff)... That's how it should be!

Well not everyone has the heart of a child of God
You see?That's good of you Sir. Even with the fact that I gave her the cut she requested, she still wants to continue collecting from me.


God is your only reward.

How far Sir? you didn't get back to me again as pe our discussion.

I'm anticipating your call, Sir.

Thank you.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by tit(f): 6:01am On Dec 26, 2020
keep her 5k for her.
dont give it to her immediately
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by obonujoker(m): 7:38am On Dec 26, 2020
CalliDora1:
You see?That's a good of you Sir. Even with the fact that I gave her the cut she requested, she still wants to continue collecting from me.


God is your only reward.

How far Sir? you didn't get back to me again as pe our discussion.

I'm anticipating your call, Sir.

Thank you.
Yes, I'm still discussing. If we are interested, we'd get back
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 8:24am On Dec 26, 2020
tit:
keep her 5k for her.
dont give it to her immediately
Ok.

Thanks.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by olagoke29970: 8:25am On Dec 26, 2020
keep her 5k for her.dont give it to her immediately
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by yellowgarri2(m): 3:59pm On Dec 26, 2020
CalliDora1:
Long post alert!

Please bear.

Dring the lockdown ( around May), I saw the news about FG grant on nairaland here. so I called the HM of one of my schools that we are very close ( she's just like a mother to me) and told her about it. she said she's not heard or seen anything like that. I then told her to be on the lookout and just in case, she should remember me. She said ok.

Around September, towards resumption, she called and said she and the husband discovered the FG fund and asked me to come around let's talk. I got to school and she said we are going to have an agreement that for each month I get the grant I'm going to give her 5k, to which I agreed. So she took my details and got me registered. She also did same to all the other teachers both visiting and full-timers.

so last month, immediately I got the alert, I called her to send her account so I can send the 5k for that month, she said to hold on. That we'll discuss when we see. I got to school and she told me since she's still owing me 15k Bal from my salary ( she already paid most part of it during mid-term) that I should use her own cut (15k) to cover my balance so she won't be paying me again till next year. I said ok. So i didn't get my bal as she made me pay it at once but I didn't feel it because i have other schools.

Unfortunately, of all the people she registered, she was the only one who didn't get the grant. I wasn't happy. sincerely I felt for her.

She called me last night and asked if I got a message from FG., I said no.
So this morning, after church, I received an alert for November and called her immediately that I've received the stuff. She now said she's going to send her account that I should send 15k. Huh?? I asked what of the one I paid you with my salary bal? This woman changed and started yelling over the phone that what we agreed was 50-50 bla bla bla that I should send it.

I told her we never agreed 50-50 and I've paid my own part from my balance with her. She started bringing up another issue that she told me to remove 5k for her from what she's paying me initially because of the lockdown and all that. That I have to pay that. I said ok.

This night she texted me and said I should send her the 50-50 agreement. I called her she picked but didn't allow me to talk as she kept on talking and later cut the call. I tried calling her back but she didn't pick so I texted her that what I'm owing her is only 5k . As for the grant, I've done my part.

Am I being insensitive? I mean the other teachers complained that they were not going to give her anything. That she's a greedy woman but I was even calming them down that they should give her since it's an agreement. They didn't give her. she had to forcefully deduct it from their lesson money.

Since morning, I've not been happy. Even when I went out to give myself a treat, I didn't really have fun.

Human beings are amazing. Mehnn...
do giveaway
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by bigpicture001: 5:37pm On Dec 27, 2020
That woman is greedy so with every Nigerian......

Find another school after all your salary no big
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 27, 2020
bigpicture001:
That woman is greedy so with every Nigerian......

Find another school after all your salary no big
I'm a part-time Teacher and only teach there once a week. The school is also not that big that's why their money is small. Other big schools I teach pay better. So, it depends on the strength of the school.

Even if I lose her school, I have more than enough schools to get busy with.

Thanks.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by bigpicture001: 6:45pm On Dec 27, 2020
CalliDora1:
I'm a part-time Teacher and only teach there once a week. The school is also not that big that's why their money is small. Other big schools I teach pay better. So, it depends on the strength of the school.

Even if I lose her school, I have more than enough schools to get busy with.

Thanks.
I like ur huzle...keep it up..God will us all: we legit huzlers.....

My friend dt own a school too wanted to dupe his employees...I pleaded with him and he would force dem to giv him half
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 27, 2020
author=bigpicture001 post=97476457]


I like ur huzle...keep it up..God will us all: we legit huzlers.....
Amen.

My friend dt own a school too wanted to dupe his employees...I pleaded with him and he would force dem to giv him half
Hm. This is serious.
This woman too has been going on about the 15k. So today, I texted her that I will send her 10k out my own volition but she didn't reply. I called her, she didn't pick and later barred my calls.

I won't call her again. Her own is just too much. The thing there is how to retrieve the remaining text books I supplied her at resumption because I don't want to even set foot there again. Let her son not go and remove my teeth for me heheheheee grin. E be like say na the publisher go go collect him book o.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by americaninja1: 10:34pm On Dec 27, 2020
CalliDora1:
author=bigpicture001 post=97476457]



Amen.


Hm. This is serious.
This woman too has been going on about the 15k. So today, I texted her that I will send her 10k out my own volition but she didn't reply. I called her, she didn't pick and later barred my calls.

I won't call her again. Her own is just too much. The thing there is how to retrieve the remaining text books I supplied her at resumption because I don't want to even set foot there again. Let her son not go and remove my teeth for me heheheheee grin. E be like say na the publisher go go collect him book o.
they can’t do nothing, u are a great person, keep on being good. my mum own a school too, I told her about the grant but nt sure she applied, abeg is the application still on.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 27, 2020
americaninja1:
they can’t do nothing, u are a great person, keep on being good. my mum own a school too, I told her about the grant but nt sure she applied, abeg is the application still on.
Amen.
Thank you.

Oh.. no. The application exercise ended in October. So what they are doing now is payment.
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by americaninja1: 10:41pm On Dec 27, 2020
CalliDora1:
Amen.
Thank you.

Oh.. no. The application exercise ended in October. So what they are doing now is payment.
Thank you
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by kingsavage: 10:43pm On Dec 27, 2020
Is she an igbo woman?
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by Nobody: 2:55am On Dec 28, 2020
kingsavage:
Is she an igbo woman?
grin
Re: Somebody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Please Guys Is This Fair? by kingsavage: 6:42am On Dec 28, 2020
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