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Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by ImmaculateJOE(m): 7:00pm On Jan 01, 2021
Ehya..
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by daniwise(m): 8:08pm On Jan 01, 2021
Ishilove:
This is so sad and tragic.

Seek the face of God before marrying o. A word is enough for the wise.
My sister. it's not easy
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by bsalawu: 9:25pm On Jan 01, 2021
I knew Mr Tunde! I remembered in 2013 there about he was telling me Never to allow a woman (wife) pay for the family house rent...

This issue started a long time ago... he comes to our office then...

Most time he forgets he’s in the office and smokes... we all understand because we knew he was facing a lot!


Rest on sir.... He was a good man.

May we be far from evil women (wife)...
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by Harry00(m): 9:50pm On Jan 01, 2021
Omo see tragedy
2kids women why
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by eyinjuege: 11:33pm On Jan 01, 2021
neonly:
The fear of women's is the being of wisdom
Trust dem not or else you die a miserable death ask Adam in garden
Thk God my children resemble me like mad if not I for don go for DNA test since
D guy sef for shine his eyes say the children didn't resemble me all at
I know he was carried away by love and d income the brought home
RIP
Feminist you see una handwork after na man own una go dey shout
What has feminism got to do with this?
Please, lets hear word.
It's not today men have been raising bastards and neither is it today men have been having 2nd families without the knowledge of their wives till their deaths.
M.K.O Abiola knew he had bastards among his numerous children from different women and he ensured all had a DNA test after his death, before they had a share of his properties. Those were his wishes.
Go and do DNA on your children, because genetics doesn't work like that, and it's very possible to have people who are not your children look like you, and also possible to have children who don't look like you either.
People see what they want to see...
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by Nobody:
dominique:
I feel for the guy sha, he should not have taken his life. Those kids look mixed race and nothing like him, I'm sure he knows they're not his. He probably couldn't live with the shame of being exposed of not being able to father a child.
Are you dumb? How you managed to reach these WRONG assumptions suggests that you are!
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by Psych412(f): 9:54am On Jan 02, 2021
dominique:
I feel for the guy sha, he should not have taken his life. Those kids look mixed race and nothing like him, I'm sure he knows they're not his. He probably couldn't live with the shame of being exposed of not being able to father a child.
so you're saying that he can't Father a child (impotent).


then how did he get his fiancee pregnant.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by faithfull18(f): 10:11am On Jan 02, 2021
Hmmn, things are happening.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by RedPhoenix: 10:15am On Jan 02, 2021
Psych412:
so you're saying that he can't Father a child (impotent).


then how did he get his fiancee pregnant.
Are you minding the bitter evil Feminist domi. Look at how she twisted the entire story
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by RedPhoenix: 10:16am On Jan 02, 2021
ModelX:
Are you dumb? How you managed to reach these WRONG assumptions suggests that you are!
She's an athiest bitter Feminist. So anything to make it look like a gender based issue downplaying women wrongs is her thing.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by Fiscus105(m): 10:33am On Jan 02, 2021
For every husband that do boast ......you are less concerned about what is happening on ur wife social media, or phone, that you rather focus on getting money, I think this will serve as eye opener, if ur own will worse than this


Any lady that let u have access to her phone, .......run with ur 7 legs
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by comfokon: 12:03pm On Jan 02, 2021
dominique:
I feel for the guy sha, he should not have taken his life. Those kids look mixed race and nothing like him, I'm sure he knows they're not his. He probably couldn't live with the shame of being exposed of not being able to father a child.
I'm wondering same too, maybe the lady was the bread winner and dude had to be relegated to the back water. But even at that, his mother would have known, they don't need DNA tests to detect that.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by maisams01(m): 12:11pm On Jan 02, 2021
comfokon:
I'm wondering same too, maybe the lady was the bread winner and dude had to be relegated to the back water. But even at that, his mother would have known, they don't need DNA tests to detect that.
his mother? how?
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by comfokon: 12:11pm On Jan 02, 2021
bsalawu:
I knew Mr Tunde! I remembered in 2013 there about he was telling me Never to allow a woman (wife) pay for the family house rent...

This issue started a long time ago... he comes to our office then...

Most time he forgets he’s in the office and smokes... we all understand because we knew he was facing a lot!


Rest on sir.... He was a good man.

May we be far from evil women (wife)...
so bad, depression.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by comfokon: 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2021
fineboynl:
the MD is already attached and too rooted in her before the Young married the babe. he was only an option for the girl to cover status as she cannot marry the MD. the girl was not into him in whatever kind, it was just a side guy. and I doubt if the girl is willingly giving me sex. I believe they must fight and quarry, and the guy might thought he wife doesn't like say and was choke from shock that was sleeping around with the MD. what an heartbreak.


they guy should be ashamed for a man to impregnate your wife you sleep in the same bed with twice and you are there playing around her.

she is probably seeing the man in an hotel maybe twice or once a week. yet he milk everything in there more than the so called husband.

an old man for that matter give a Young Man wife Belle. the man most really got it big and do well with it. it happens everyday but most guys are too shy to speak out. the shame and humiliation they just change location and run away from people.
you couldn't have said it better. that man must have been pounding the girl right from her Uni days and she has gotten so attached to him, it's a huge slap having a man impregnate your wife two times..
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by Saintmary(f): 12:42pm On Jan 02, 2021
dominique:
I feel for the guy sha, he should not have taken his life. Those kids look mixed race and nothing like him, I'm sure he knows they're not his. He probably couldn't live with the shame of being exposed of not being able to father a child.
He died of heart failure
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by fineboynl(m): 1:11pm On Jan 02, 2021
bsalawu:
I knew Mr Tunde! I remembered in 2013 there about he was telling me Never to allow a woman (wife) pay for the family house rent...

This issue started a long time ago... he comes to our office then...

Most time he forgets he’s in the office and smokes... we all understand because we knew he was facing a lot!


Rest on sir.... He was a good man.

May we be far from evil women (wife)...
the wife was probably paying the bills
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by RedPhoenix: 1:48pm On Jan 02, 2021
fineboynl:
the wife was probably paying the bills
Contributive since both were workers
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by bsalawu: 1:53pm On Jan 02, 2021
I can’t say! Anything is possible.


It’s not beyond what could happen in a marriage


fineboynl:
the wife was probably paying the bills
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by mosdii(m): 7:18pm On Jan 02, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by comfokon: 11:11am On Jan 03, 2021
maisams01:
his mother? how?
Omo na try mothers for that way oooo. they have that divine eye.
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by zoedew: 11:31am On Jan 05
Alhajijesus:
Seen on TD Cole Esq. @BolanleCole Twitter account.

Tunde Thomas (alias Tunde Gentle), 45, died about two weeks ago from heartbreak. The two kids from his marriage were indeed fathered by a man without scruples or conscience, the current MD of FCMB, Adam Nuru who was his wife’s boss (MD) in FCMB. Tunde’s wife, Moyo Thomas (Nee Ojo), a useless an unconscionable adulterer was engaged in an office romance with her MD, a relationship that was well known throughout the organization as the lack of shame and decorum in both lovebirds made them to get carried away and to throw caution to the wind.
FCMB, an organization without proper rules or governance looked the other way while the open and unprofessional romance was going on between the MD and a subordinate staff of the same organization, a married woman.

The MD, Adam Nuru, who was supposed to be the chief Governance Officer and Chief Image Maker of FCMB spared no thought for the husband of this lady who was bringing up his (Nuru’s) two children while thinking they were his. He also did not think of the organization he was leading while engaging in this foul conduct, the scandal with which no ethical organization would want to be associated.
Tunde was so in love with & attached to his wife & children that he spent most of his resources on them. He took them to London & Dubai on holidays. He also spared no penny in putting them in the best schools At the height of the shameful relationship and when the older child was about eight (cool years old, the lady suddenly resigned from FCMB and travelled to the US with the two children, ostensibly on holiday. It was when the school session started in Nigeria and the children were not returned that Tunde started asking questions and the lady finally summoned the shameless courage to tell him the children were not his own.

She then went to the extent of filing for asylum in the US on the ground of marital violence in Nigeria, against a man known to all men by his gentle and easygoing disposition. Her aim was to get the Green Card and to also get Tunde to be barred from entering the US, so she would not have to confront him to look him in the eye and tell him to his face the evil that she had done to him.
Within a few months of hearing this news, Tunde suffered a stroke at about the age of 42. He recovered from the stroke but became a shadow of his former self. He would often shed tears from the blues.

Recently, he tried to pick up the pieces of his life and started another relationship with a lawyer lady. Tunde had invited some friends to accompany him to visit the lady’s parents on 26th December. They were planning the materials to take along for the visit but alas, it was not to be. Tunde got home from work in the night of 15th December only to collapse by his staircase and die immediately. Autopsy report puts the cause of death as heart failure.

The wicked souls, Adam Nuru and Moyo Ojo (later Moyo Thomas) have done their worst, the death of an innocent man, and their hands are dripping with his blood.

God will demand it of them.

In the meantime, the family and friends of Tunde Thomas (alias Tunde Gentle) hereby wish to bring this shameful conduct to the knowledge of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), the board and management of FCMB and to members of the public.
We use this medium to call on FCMB to separate and detach its brand from this evil man, Adam Nuru, immediately. If this notice is ignored and Adam Nuru is at his desk in another two weeks from 30th December 2020, we will be left with no option than to vehemently call the attention of the public to the abysmal lack of ethics in the organization and to advise the members of the public to withdraw their funds and banking business from FCMB.
A word is enough for the wise.

N:B Tunde Gentle was buried 30th December 2020.
He had worked in Oceanic Bank back in the days. He was one of the most gentle and yet, most friendly of all individuals, as many would testify of him.

He died as an Executive Director in an asset management company, GDL Asset Management Company Ltd.

He was survived by an aged mother and siblings.

May his truly gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Credit Rita Ebiuwa
Years after I am still left wondering how he never suspected that the supposed children of the marriage were not his. They do not look an inch like him or his wife as they do Adam Nuru. They look every inch like Adam Nuru. Very sordid!
Re: Paternity Fraud Led A Married Banker To Early Grave. by zoedew: 1:09pm On Jan 05
lummy247:
From the pictures, the children looks so much like the fat FCMB guy and nothing like the poor man. The man is very dark, and the children are very fair in complexion. Guess he assumed they got their color from their mother. Or a grandma or someone in the family.

It is advisable to start doing a DNA test immediately the children are born to avoid stories like this.

In all , fear women.
Great idea for a law to be made making DNA test compulsory at birth.
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