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Martinez39s:
Keep showing her more love bro, even if it means compromising your self-respect like you have already done. Make her the centre of your world and overvalue her and keep on chasing what doesn't desire you. Also, act like you can't do without her even though she is just human like the rest. You have my blessings bro.

Supreme145:
Nne......ole way??

Raalsalghul:
Be careful bro, he might "literally" take your advice.

chali01:
i got his message, i am not stupid. thanks sir

Richy4:
She's just not into you brother...this is 2021, you don't need early rejection already... the date is just only one digit.. move on..

sisisioge:
Squatters shouldnt ever try to colonize properties of the house owners . How could they give you accommodation and you're still looking at their daughter? Biko move out first then attempt to speak about the matter with her again. Good luck.

cassyrooy:
Op, just look how these women take gather dey laugh you.

But regardless, my advice is that you find new distractions and focus your time there, if na covid-19 hold you, try avoid her until you hurry up and leave their house. She don see you finish na why.

She's seen how many boxers you change in a week and how many days you wear a particular singlet, no wahala.

Just give her time or tell your friend say you wan marry him sister (be frank about it), if him beat you to death, fine, if he loves the idea because you can handle the sister, also fine.

But please, don't over do this wooing thing, that girl fit give you food one day without meat o.

zedegit:
kaziblake It seems you like putting yourself in awkward situation. Why want to cook for a bachelor as job? After the food, I'm sure he wouldn't mind the real food in you.

kaziblake:
I have been doing it and no problem sir.

zedegit:
Do you cook it in their house or cook at home and get it delivered?

kaziblake:
Anyone that is convenient for them.

chali01:
Permit to bother you with my long post. Pardon my grammatical errors.
Early last year i came to stay with my friend's family. He has a younger sister, she is 22 years while i am 28years. I fell so much in love with her. It happens that we had romance together, without sex. I told her about the feelings i have been nursing towards her through a WhatsApp chat, she did not reply me. To cut the long story short, we had romance several times (she wanted it) without sex because i don't want to have it with her due to my love for her. Any time we romance, we might not relate with each other well for like a week or more. I planned to stop the romance with her until she will say yes to me because i truly love her. She went back to school and whenever i chatted with her reminding her of my feelings she don't usually reply my messages.
When she came back from school, we played, joke but no romance. I sent her message on whatsapp that i love her, the next day she started behaving somehow. I had to send her a message back that i am sorry for the previous message i sent. Where the problem lies is this, the next morning i found out that she has blocked me on whatsapp. She totally changed towards me. I called her one on one to ask why, she didn't give me audience.
I called her on 31st of December, last year to apologize and beg her in the name of God to forgive me if i ever offended her. She said okay but she didn't mend things with me. We only greet each other when the family members are there.
Please help a brother, i am confused. I truly love her. I have never felt this way for a lady before. I want our friendship back. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE?
Note; i never planned to use and dump her. I always pray and fast for her even without her knowing.

I ACCEPTED THE FACT THAT I SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT. I AM A BETRAYER. BUT HOW CAN I MEND THINGS PLEASE?

zedegit:
Just add security measures or buffers to guarantee your safety. It's a crazy world.

Ishilove:
How are you a betrayer?

Kenneth4u205:
99% hate when a guy gets them sexually aroused without actual penetration taking place .that's why she suddenly changed towards you .you are a good guy .leave her .you will find someone that will really appreciate your true love .