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Hello nairalanders,
I am really sorry to disturb you all,I have been a ghost member for the past 2years and half,but cause of a decision trembling my minds,please don't mind my typographical or grammatical errors,here is my story..


I am 22years old boy still living with his parent,actually my dad died 2years ago,before his death he was small scale bossiness ma,buying things in bulk and later resell it,I am the last of the family having 2 brothers as elder before he died,he was running the business with my mother,but for the last 5years the business wasn't going normal, many debt to pay,I am sure the thought of the heavy debt may be the sudden cause of the death of dad,my two brother are still in school still struggling to pay fees,but my owns education is badly affected I wish to become a medical doctor,I was a brilliant kid while still at school as I did my WAEC 5years ago,but before dad died,he had always promise to send me also to school but I should wait first for my elder siblings,now they're done,dad no more,business keeps on crashing all days,mum getting old,but my elder ones are still studying (masters)though on their own struggle,j wasn't happy,the business wasn't going well...no hope for my future,a friend advice me to do jamb if possible there will be jamb I should follow my dream course,if I get there I can also hustle for money,but I should leave home,another said I should be patience and rebuild back the business....


Nairalanders,please I am depress and confused right now...I need your advice,please save a soul..

Guru235:
Hello nairalanders,
I am really sorry to disturb you all,I have been a ghost member for the past 2years and half,but cause of a decision trembling my minds,please don't mind my typographical or grammatical errors,here is my story..


I am 22years old boy still living with his parent,actually my dad died 2years ago,before his death he was small scale bossiness ma,buying things in bulk and later resell it,I am the last of the family having 2 brothers as elder before he died,he was running the business with my mother,but for the last 5years the business wasn't going normal, many debt to pay,I am sure the thought of the heavy debt may be the sudden cause of the death of dad,my two brother are still in school still struggling to pay fees,but my owns education is badly affected I wish to become a medical doctor,I was a brilliant kid while still at school as I did my WAEC 5years ago,but before dad died,he had always promise to send me also to school but I should wait first for my elder siblings,now they're done,dad no more,business keeps on crashing all days,mum getting old,but my elder ones are still studying (masters)though on their own struggle,j wasn't happy,the business wasn't going well...no hope for my future,a friend advice me to do jamb if possible there will be jamb I should follow my dream course,if I get there I can also hustle for money,but I should leave home,another said I should be patience and rebuild back the business....


Nairalanders,please I am depress and confused right now...I need your advice,please save a soul..

Do not be confused. Since the business is not doing well,pls kindly follow your dreams. Education is not everything but it can get you to somewhere meaningful in life.

[quote author=dawnomike post=98360352]Do not be confused. Since the business is not doing well,pls kindly follow your dreams. Education is not everything but it can get you to somewhere meaningful in life. [/thank you so much,I am really grateful with this your reply]