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SandraJane:
https://punchng.com/tricycle-rider-commits-suicide-on-lagos-football-pitch/

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

Gbagura:
Millions of people are going through a lot especially in Nigeria. Why many haven't killed themselves is because they care about their loved ones that would be thrown into greater depression when they are gone. What I've passed through and what I'm passing through, I should had committed suicide long time ago but I kept to myself and God has been guiding me also.

Ministry of Depression should be created cos many people would be drown in it very soon especially G-boys. When all the free money stop coming, many gonna have to take their lives to save them from resultant shame and agony. Many of them can't work #50k a month due to what they've exposed themselves into.

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

Seyzcham91:
i'm not saying there is a reason but lets pray we dont get frustrated to our breaking point

life can be tiring, i've been in and out of depression and frustration many times but suicide was never an option, not because i'm a superman but everyone has different Endurance and perseverance threshold

some people break way too easily

emmamajesty:
The reason why u said so is because u have not found urself in a such situation, my brother pray that u should not find urself in a situation that is beyond ur control because at the moment the only language u will be hearing is kill urself except someone intervene at that moment

GofuckYourself:
My friend it isn't about you

I am a counselor and I can tell you that what people are going through is something else

Some people you see everyday you assume all is good with them , it's all a camouflage some are battling depression

judgementyard:
You made valid points but let's be honest,I don't see any reason for one to take his or her life.

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

SandraJane:
https://punchng.com/tricycle-rider-commits-suicide-on-lagos-football-pitch/

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

judgementyard:
You made valid points but let's be honest,I don't see any reason for one to take his or her life.

PBeni:
Sad one. I keep saying this, suicide is never the way.

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

zedman1:
I've been depressed once in 2012 and nothing, I repeat, NOTHING ever made sense anymore in this world. Funny thing is I didn't and still don't know what caused it and just like this guy, I was never ready to tell anyone what I was going through. So if I had taken my life then people would have blamed someone? Since then, I don't judge people who commit suicide because what they go through before the act can not be explained by words. As for me, I started drinking small small, lol, funny and unbelievable, but that's how I saved myself.

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said

daddymummy:
Sometimes the wives are to blame for some men suicide.

Imagine a society where a woman does not offer any thing in marriage.

The children belong mainly to her because she gave birth to them.The man cannot say that the children are his own because it is not he that carried them in the womb and also another man could even be the father of the children.

But it is the man that will pay the bill, sustain the wife and her children, pay for children school fees, and pay for the house rent, etc.

The woman does not offer anything.

It is as if a man labour to make money just to take care of strangers.

The wife and children are actually strangers but the man is the one that labour to take care of them because the society believes that it should be so.

The man does not see that he has been exploited by the society.

Most men are often very angry and will resist you if you try to take away their rights.

But they do not see anything wrong with the situation whereby a man would labour just to feed a woman and her children who do not have anything to offer.

The society makes it so subtle that a man does not see that he has been exploited in marriage.

After sometime in the marriage, the man may come to his senses and began to realise that the woman does not love her but only married him because she was looking for who to feed her, where to live for free and give birth to children, who to take care of the children when it involves money.

The man is so ignorant initially that he thought that by marrying he has achieved something not knowing that marriage is an achievement to a woman and not to the man because he will not gain anything but will rather lose something.

It is an achievement to women because she has succeeded in finding someone who will labour to feed and cloth her.

If the man cannot provide all the needs of the woman and her children, the woman would begin to say that the man has failed as a man, that he should go out and labour hard, then come home and take proper care of her and her children.

Can you imagine such exploitation from women? She is telling the man to go out and suffer for her.

But what does she herself offer? Nothing.

Imagine going out every time to work,labour and suffer, just to feed a stranger.

Women believes men was created to labour for their safe keeping.

They believe they are the wiser gender because they have succeeded in making men to live only to satisfy and make women comfortable.

They see men as babies that could be exploited.

But men do not see anything wrong with such a setup.

But when the man finally realized the truth after marrying the woman for some years, and has come to his senses,........

daddymummy:
Sometimes the wives are to blame for some men suicide.

Imagine a society where a woman does not offer any thing in marriage.

The children belong mainly to her because she gave birth to them.The man cannot say that the children are his own because it is not he that carried them in the womb and also another man could even be the father of the children.

But it is the man that will pay the bill, sustain the wife and her children, pay for children school fees, and pay for the house rent, etc.

The woman does not offer anything.

It is as if a man labour to make money just to take care of strangers.

The wife and children are actually strangers but the man is the one that labour to take care of them because the society believes that it should be so.

The man does not see that he has been exploited by the society.

Most men are often very angry and will resist you if you try to take away their rights.

But they do not see anything wrong with the situation whereby a man would labour just to feed a woman and her children who do not have anything to offer.

The society makes it so subtle that a man does not see that he has been exploited in marriage.

After sometime in the marriage, the man may come to his senses and began to realise that the woman does not love her but only married him because she was looking for who to feed her, where to live for free and give birth to children, who to take care of the children when it involves money.

The man is so ignorant initially that he thought that by marrying he has achieved something not knowing that marriage is an achievement to a woman and not to the man because he will not gain anything but will rather lose something.

It is an achievement to women because she has succeeded in finding someone who will labour to feed and cloth her.

If the man cannot provide all the needs of the woman and her children, the woman would begin to say that the man has failed as a man, that he should go out and labour hard, then come home and take proper care of her and her children.

Can you imagine such exploitation from women? She is telling the man to go out and suffer for her.

But what does she herself offer? Nothing.

Imagine going out every time to work,labour and suffer, just to feed a stranger.

Women believes men was created to labour for their safe keeping.

They believe they are the wiser gender because they have succeeded in making men to live only to satisfy and make women comfortable.

They see men as babies that could be exploited.

But men do not see anything wrong with such a setup.

But when the man finally realized the truth after marrying the woman for some years, and has come to his senses,........

Map1:
I want you to be my friend,may God bless your knowledge

Map1:
when it comes to marriage women are the sole beneficiary of it and I asked myself is there anything men gain in marriage? Absolutely nothing the best favour a man can do him self is to reduce the work load on himself by marrying a woman who get work and don't give birth to many children.period

SexytorresE:
One should learn how to communicate and be close to people. People are going through alot deep inside but have no one to share with and some don't knw hiw to voice out . We should learn to give people room to communicate also ;

7lives:
Some people. are too arrogant to share their problems.
There's nothing anyone can do to help such people.

MejiLoyon:
I'll say this...if una like make una crucify me. If a married man commits suicide the wife should be held responsible and sentenced to death. I said what I said come and beat me.

You don vex finish? Now let me explain... The first point of contact for the deceased na the spouse. For goodness sake these women don't even give a fvuck. Once them dey husband house dem don achieve be that. Communication zero. Every burden on the man. Not financially now. I mean emotionally. Yes I've been there and its bullshit. You go dey with woman for house wey the only thing una go talk all day na good morning, goodnight,food is ready. That's all. Nothing again. Sometimes a man will be going through so many things but to talk to person no dey not even him wife. Them go dey form Arnold Schwarzenegger. No matter Wetin dey bother the man if he see person talk no he no go kill himself. No matter what.
I said what I said