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MISSCONGENIALITY:
They exist everywhere. They make you depend on them, stop your from doing anything to help yourself. Break you so bad you begin to feel worthless.

I woman was telling me how she has never given her mother a dime for the passed 5yrs of her marriage.. ordinary call she can't make. Her husband who stopped her from working has never given her money for pant since they got married. He writes list of what she will buy and gives her exactly the money and sometimes less. And she looked really worn out for her age. With 3kids

DEMZEE:
I rather teach my daughters to b feminine and motherly women than teach them to b pseudo masculine hybrid beast women

DEMZEE:
Why did she settle down with that type of man??

It's her choice and she will bear the consequences

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't now if you guys are okay..no one should be a beast woman. You guys are not being logical here. What's wrong with balancing work and family? What's wrong with being a career woman and a mother to your kids if your career will give them the comfort they need. There are beast men who go to work every morning but provide nothing for their family? Don't forget that.
If we know what's right, let's do it. Be you a career woman, man, mother or father. Don't try to demean women just to feel manly or make a point.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't now if you guys are okay..no one should be a beast woman. You guys are not being logical here. What's wrong with balancing work and family? What's wrong with being a career woman and a mother to your kids if your career will give them the comfort they need. There are beast men who go to work every morning but provide nothing for their family? Don't forget that.
If we know what's right, let's do it. Be you a career woman, man, mother or father. Don't try to demean women just to feel manly or make a point.

BLOODYSPERM:
Women are filled with estrogen, men are filled with testerones hormones

Estrogen needs comfort
Testerones needs challenge

Women taking up masculine careers and task is going to affect them, it's a big NO for me

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Her brother got a job for her and shetold her husband o, he told her that she should chose between the job and the marriage.
And she will come out and talk when married women are talking. As far a marriage is concerned, she not married..
That's why it good to be sure what you want in life. If you know what you one, People won't push you around. They will instead say you are stubborn when they are not able to push you around.

budaatum:
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DEMZEE:
Lol

Why should women want to feel manly

Why should women prioritize being pseudo masculine hybrid beasts and being a career sluts to their bosses at work over motherhood, marriage and family uhn??

My dear u can't balance the two, women can't have it all. Young women should focus on getting married and having children and staying married in their own early 20s and then switch to career or business wen the kids are old enough to be on their own.

Women must embrace their femininity rather choose to be pseudo masculine hybrid beasts

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Just get your choice. That's all.

DEMZEE:
She made her choice and she will bear the consequences

It's her life mbok

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Same thing with you guys here..make a cjoi e you can live with. Not every woman like her will not fight back to avoid that go for what you want and not go for A and later expect to change her to B.

DEMZEE:
And if women settle for less men, they shouldn't complain and They should bear the consequences of their actions and choices simple

Cheers!!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
True.
I don't feel bad when someone desperate to marry comes complaining about something they would have avoided from the beginning. It's will be waste of empathy and emotions.

DEMZEE:
U will rather suck dick than accept the truth

Fool!

budaatum:
Yesterday we explained to you man how you get your understanding about women from your fellow men. Today we will be educating you about Feminism, which is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes, though I advise you click on this link. We know you will misinterpret!

Of course you will advise we shun Feminism. You obviously know it is asking us to organise and fight for equal treatment and rights so you can not continue to oppress us as you have done for eons, so why would you stand by and allow us empower ourselves and bring you down to the level you deserve to be at, which is beneath our high heels? For you man know you are not the equal of woman. We are superior to you. Or do you think you have become like God and can create lifeforms as we can?

Of course, you will say, you have sperm. Oh and indeed you have sperm. But if I take my toto down the road would you know it is not your sperm that bakes in my womb? Woe you stupid man! I really pity your demand. But I have no time for your scam. I will call the sisters to arms.

We are strong, sisters, We are strong. They claim different, but I repeat, we are strong. You may be just a girl now but I repeat it again, we are strong. And the men know that we are strong. Which is why they weaken us least we rise up and show them our strenght! Just see how for centuries they ensured we are weakened by depriving us of knowledge and education so they can lord they willy over us!

They marry and own lots of us. And their Gods say we must shut up. While they rule us with their priks! But look at the state they have made nations be with their wars and pandemics.
Or do tell, are they not rotten fruit?

They call us their mere rib. As if we do not know that while they slept their Lord God took them from between our legs and we fed them the tits on our chest. I mean, can it be made more obvious to you that the man came out of the wo[b]man[/b]? O how they have fed us lies!

They write a book with their hands. They lie that we are responsible for death! I mean, how much more evil can pigs who can't keep their eyes of our tits be, to claim woman who brings forth life from between our legs caused the death they accuse us of sin?

Well, Feminism says you must rise up. Just as we did when it was pleasant to the eyes, we must desire to make ourselves wise. And instead of letting them ruin the world, it is time for us to take charge. For men, we know, they live for the day while we live for the faith of our life. A life worth our living. So do consider our plight, and know that feminism is simply saying we are stronger when we unite!

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I have purposely left this shortish because long word is unnecessary for the wise woman. I will call on my mod sister Ishilove (she says I am tit obsessed, lol), to put this where it will be seen so pigs know where they belong. Just know that if it is left to me we will be Feminisuperiorwomen!

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content208:
You are an atheist

You are a lesbian

You are hateful

You are a disgruntled (self-deceiving) human on a revenge mission, which will leave a bitter taste in your mouth at the end.

You are not seeking to correct the ills of gender discrimination; you are only an embittered human trying to replace one injustice with another injustice.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnn


My own be say I will not marry in this life but if I am to marry then she must be a virgin and from a wealthy family.

budaatum:
And you don't sound bitter at all, lol.
Did someone take your toy?

Mikester:
This is a sequel to my previous thread @ https://www.nairaland.com/6427941/things-every-guy-should-know for the ladies in the house.

Disclaimer : This isn't to bash women neither is it meant to surface gender war. I'm no expert on women affairs but quite well-informed. Thanks. Love from Mikester.

10 things ladies should know before 30.

1. Set your priorities straight

Women are more likely to view things from an emotional perspective than a logical one which in most cases make them to stick to some wrong choices consistently.

That's why every sensible and wise lady should know how to chase her needs before her wants and to ensure to stick to that decision. Know thy needs young woman. The woman who knows how to set her priorities straight gets her heart desires.

2. Don't be materialistic

Especially when you're broke. A materialistic broke lady will not be able to prioritise wisely thus she's bound to fall.

If you're a materialistic lady, you will always want to have a lot which you don't really need. You won't think twice before buying expensive things (bone straight hair, 60k dress, e.t.c.) but will find it very difficult to invest in yourself.

It is only a while before you eventually turn your head towards prostitution or other illegal means to sustain your extravagant lifestyle. If you want to be materialistic, then be rich.

3. Don't put your looks forward and your hygiene behind

Though some women prioritise their looks and hygiene, we still have some who do not really care because they somehow tend to believe that they will get admirers no matter what. They are the "take me as I am" crew but they fail to realise that for a lady, her body shape, quality and looks equates her self worth and will also determine the kind of men that will approach and cherish her.

Women, your body is your money, high value men prefer better looking and clean women. Don't neglect that.

4. Be busy with something

Though you're beautiful and have an attractive shape, you still need to engage in something. Don't be idle. Don't be a queen waiting on a king. Be a queen busy with her kingdom until her king arrives. Work and earn money and quit prostitution and idle living.

5. Do not depend on your man for everything

It's disgusting when a woman tends to rely on her man for everything even her basic needs. Women like this won't be kept around for long.

6. Shun feminism

Don't be a feminist in your home if you want to have a healthy marriage, that will be lying to yourself and anyone who wants to be happy and successful shouldn't lie to his or herself.

If you yearn for a successful and peaceful marriage, shun feminism as it is against it. Let feminism be for women who choose to be single.

Hate feminism till your last blood drops and you will enjoy a better marriage.

7. Hug feminity

Feminity is the power a woman have to get what she wants. Women who imitate men tend to be unhappy and ridiculed by society. Feminity aids a woman far beyond marriage as well.

A feminine woman is nice, humble and caring. The traits men love most in women. A man would rather fall for a feminine woman than a masculine woman because she makes him feel like a man the most and he'll be eager to give in to her desires more than the other.

Moreover, a woman can't change a man to favour her but her feminity can be a reason for him to change. Thus, she becomes happy and other women will see her as an inspiration.

8. Close your legs

Your body value determines the class of men that will approach you, the more you lose your value through sex, the more serious high value men will despise you. Men study women. Men are watching you and most men will rather choose a virgin whether primary or secondary over a slut. You know that. Deal with it.

Besides the fastest way for men to loose interest in you is by sleeping with you. When you give it to me today, Xenry tommorow, Slawormiir the day after and BadRadio the next week, you're just giving the impression that you have less or no value which lowers your chance of getting or keeping better men.

9. Stop chasing bad boys and scornful men

For God sake, chasing people will always put you at a loss. Consider a man who sells yam at the road and sees Uncle Lalasticlala driving by and chases after him with a tuber of yam, begging him on arrival to purchase the yam.

If the yam's original price was #1, 200, Uncle Lalasticlala will be at power to reduce the price to his own choice, perhaps as low as #500 which will make the man out of desperation to tender it to him leading to his sad loss BUT peradventure the man had opened a nice yam shop with an attractive display that lures people to it, he would sell at a much better price and may even find a better buyer.

Therefore my point is this, chasing people especially bad people will put you at a huge loss. You'll have to follow their own terms to be accepted and what do most guys require from ladies? You'll answer that yourself.

Besides studies have shown that being a bad boy is no longer perceived as cool. Chase a bad boy if you love to be taken advantage of.

As I said to the guys in my previous thread, so I'll say, Don't chase people man or woman, rather be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you.

10. Invest in yourself

It will do you good and no evil. People who invest in themselves increase their value and are revered by society. Read more books than people's statuses. Look more attractive, engage in something, add to your cooking skills, be hygienic as though no one has ever be hygiene before. Invest in yourself today.

Hope I'm making sense


Courtsey - Mikester

PrimadonnaO:
Who even cares for bad boys? Little girls maybe.

content208:
You can't even deduce a thing as simple as the meaning of bitterness. No wonder you've lost your bearing in life

awulio:
Firstly I don’t need a man telling me how to live.... goodness gracious Nigerian men are really thrash. It’s because of rubbish write ups like this that I refuse to marry a Nigerian. Firstly my self worth is not based on my shape or my looks this is why y’all get tricked by girls because that’s what you focused on.... 2ndly I’m a proud feminist and will continue to be that, luckily the white guys i know love feminists it’s just Nigerian men that have issues with it. I don’t need to act feminine to get a man. I was raised to be strong and I can do things on my own. I pay my own bills, I do things for my self. Finishing up my masters in America. I’m not going to reduce myself and my achievements to please a man

CHoccolaTE:
See why you men dont have sense?

Everything has to be about sex for you males, always thinking sex and sexual thoughts.

Foolish perverts.

awulio:
Firstly I don’t need a man telling me how to live.... goodness gracious Nigerian men are really thrash. It’s because of rubbish write ups like this that I refuse to marry a Nigerian. Firstly my self worth is not based on my shape or my looks this is why y’all get tricked by girls because that’s what you focused on.... 2ndly I’m a proud feminist and will continue to be that, luckily the white guys i know love feminists it’s just Nigerian men that have issues with it. I don’t need to act feminine to get a man. I was raised to be strong and I can do things on my own. I pay my own bills, I do things for my self. Finishing up my masters in America. I’m not going to reduce myself and my achievements to please a man

Ishilove:
Dear buda my sister in arms, I am straight, but with you I may just consider swinging

Mikester:
This is a sequel to my previous thread @ https://www.nairaland.com/6427941/things-every-guy-should-know for the ladies in the house.

Disclaimer : This isn't to bash women neither is it meant to surface gender war. I'm no expert on women affairs but quite well-informed. Thanks. Love from Mikester.

10 things ladies should know before 30.

1. Set your priorities straight

Women are more likely to view things from an emotional perspective than a logical one which in most cases make them to stick to some wrong choices consistently.

That's why every sensible and wise lady should know how to chase her needs before her wants and to ensure to stick to that decision. Know thy needs young woman. The woman who knows how to set her priorities straight gets her heart desires.

2. Don't be materialistic

Especially when you're broke. A materialistic broke lady will not be able to prioritise wisely thus she's bound to fall.

If you're a materialistic lady, you will always want to have a lot which you don't really need. You won't think twice before buying expensive things (bone straight hair, 60k dress, e.t.c.) but will find it very difficult to invest in yourself.

It is only a while before you eventually turn your head towards prostitution or other illegal means to sustain your extravagant lifestyle. If you want to be materialistic, then be rich.

3. Don't put your looks forward and your hygiene behind

Though some women prioritise their looks and hygiene, we still have some who do not really care because they somehow tend to believe that they will get admirers no matter what. They are the "take me as I am" crew but they fail to realise that for a lady, her body shape, quality and looks equates her self worth and will also determine the kind of men that will approach and cherish her.

Women, your body is your money, high value men prefer better looking and clean women. Don't neglect that.

4. Be busy with something

Though you're beautiful and have an attractive shape, you still need to engage in something. Don't be idle. Don't be a queen waiting on a king. Be a queen busy with her kingdom until her king arrives. Work and earn money and quit prostitution and idle living.

5. Do not depend on your man for everything

It's disgusting when a woman tends to rely on her man for everything even her basic needs. Women like this won't be kept around for long.

6. Shun feminism

Don't be a feminist in your home if you want to have a healthy marriage, that will be lying to yourself and anyone who wants to be happy and successful shouldn't lie to his or herself.

If you yearn for a successful and peaceful marriage, shun feminism as it is against it. Let feminism be for women who choose to be single.

Hate feminism till your last blood drops and you will enjoy a better marriage.

7. Hug feminity

Feminity is the power a woman have to get what she wants. Women who imitate men tend to be unhappy and ridiculed by society. Feminity aids a woman far beyond marriage as well.

A feminine woman is nice, humble and caring. The traits men love most in women. A man would rather fall for a feminine woman than a masculine woman because she makes him feel like a man the most and he'll be eager to give in to her desires more than the other.

Moreover, a woman can't change a man to favour her but her feminity can be a reason for him to change. Thus, she becomes happy and other women will see her as an inspiration.

8. Close your legs

Your body value determines the class of men that will approach you, the more you lose your value through sex, the more serious high value men will despise you. Men study women. Men are watching you and most men will rather choose a virgin whether primary or secondary over a slut. You know that. Deal with it.

Besides the fastest way for men to loose interest in you is by sleeping with you. When you give it to me today, Xenry tommorow, Slawormiir the day after and BadRadio the next week, you're just giving the impression that you have less or no value which lowers your chance of getting or keeping better men.

9. Stop chasing bad boys and scornful men

For God sake, chasing people will always put you at a loss. Consider a man who sells yam at the road and sees Uncle Lalasticlala driving by and chases after him with a tuber of yam, begging him on arrival to purchase the yam.

If the yam's original price was #1, 200, Uncle Lalasticlala will be at power to reduce the price to his own choice, perhaps as low as #500 which will make the man out of desperation to tender it to him leading to his sad loss BUT peradventure the man had opened a nice yam shop with an attractive display that lures people to it, he would sell at a much better price and may even find a better buyer.

Therefore my point is this, chasing people especially bad people will put you at a huge loss. You'll have to follow their own terms to be accepted and what do most guys require from ladies? You'll answer that yourself.

Besides studies have shown that being a bad boy is no longer perceived as cool. Chase a bad boy if you love to be taken advantage of.

As I said to the guys in my previous thread, so I'll say, Don't chase people man or woman, rather be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you.

10. Invest in yourself

It will do you good and no evil. People who invest in themselves increase their value and are revered by society. Read more books than people's statuses. Look more attractive, engage in something, add to your cooking skills, be hygienic as though no one has ever be hygiene before. Invest in yourself today.

Hope I'm making sense


Courtsey - Mikester

DEMZEE:
Women pussy is their agency

So u saying all this is not possible because u are trying to fight ur innate nature and agency.

Women are sexual objects and surely love the bad boys especially in their hoe phase (20-25)

DEMZEE:
That's why western women are lonely, misery and unhappy. They have replaced children with dogs and cats SMH!

They will rather be career sluts to their bosses than submit to their husbands!!!

awulio:
Western women are happy. We prefer prefer animals to humans in general. Western men are better than Nigerian men. They not scared of successful women. When I say western men I mean white men and asian men. You black men are scared of successful women. I’m happy not being with a Nigerian man.