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| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Johnnyplus01k(m): 8:03am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Seconded infact point eight it's very important tell them. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 8:04am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:[color=navy]I can see I'm shaking tables [/color] |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 8:06am On Feb 28, 2021 |
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| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 8:24am On Feb 28, 2021*. Modified: 8:51am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:[color=navy][b] They know not what's good for them, but they believe with all their hearts & souls they do. They want a say in the course of the trajectory of their own life, which is understandable, and yet given free rein they crash and burn. Women are not built for leadership or independence. So they battle bitterly to gain the rights and privileges of men, and then upon attaining them, become resentful of those very same men who awarded them. Counter intuitively, gender relations deteriorate rather than improve. "Why did you let me win" you can hear her soul cry. Look at western women, they have everything, and yet they continue to find things to want & demand with no end in sight, despite every basic right and privilege secured. And yet towards the men who've given them everything they show much scorn, almost as if they hate being free. Woman herself will always push for more freedoms, regardless of whether she can properly handle them or not, because insecurity is in her veins & chaos her nature, & so like a child, whether it is healthy for her or not, she will always want more, even if there's no more to have. Modern women make insane demands from men, but also rebel against what's demanded of them. Patriarchy nurtures women, emancipation harms them. No protection. No provision. Stressful careers and decision making. No guidance. Insecurity. Mental damage from promiscuity. A string of regrets. Women are family creatures. Hyper individualistic autonomy is damaging for them. Paternalism is God's love in man. You have daddy issues when you didn't receive enough paternal love. It's that simple. Independence isn't the answer to that, no matter how much you brand it as freedom or liberty and turn to degeneracy to cope. None of that will save you.[/b][/color] awulio: |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 8:42am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Mikester:Okonjo Iweala, Christine Lagarde, Malala Yousafzai, Serena Williams, Julia Gillard, Angela Merkel, my mother, me, your mother, all do not know what's good for us, but we bothered to have you? I guess you said the following too': Mikester:Wanna go back and see how wrong you are, Mike?
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| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 8:47am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:[color=navy]I thought you were in a bad mood earlier but it has been a while now so I guess you're just plain stupid[/color] |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 8:54am On Feb 28, 2021 |
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11172705_notablestrongwoman8_jpeg0ca50d88f527df11a09b2ec2edfea1be Mikester: |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 8:57am On Feb 28, 2021 |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Nobody: 9:30am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Mikester:Alright, I'm sorry. I think I misunderstood you. Everything you have mentioned may truly be the experience and realities of women such as your mother, daughters (if any), aunties, wife (if any), girlfriends, neighbours, female acquaintances, and their counterparts you've met on social media. You can't deny that beyond these female folks I've listed, you have not met any other woman in the world that is different (such as me), and yet there are billions of women in the world. So really, if everything you wrote stems from your previous experiences in life, I can't argue with you. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Dybala11(m): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:Your comment is filled with emotion laden words? Some of these so called points of yours are poorly conceived/thought out too, I doubt if you truly were not in a very deep emotional state while typing too. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Dybala11(m): 9:43am On Feb 28, 2021*. Modified: 9:59am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:You lots are just confused, equity and equality are different o. What you've been clamouring for is equity not equality ma. e.g Equality means having the same opportunity with men (different people utilize opportunities in different ways, it is the way you utilize an opportunity that will determine your outcome). Equity means being on the same level with men (different people requires different levels of opportunities to get to a certain level), meaning that some people may require several opportunities to get to the same level as someone that was given only one opportunity. I've even gone beyond the scope of your comment sef. You expressly talked about bringing men below your heels, is that what feminism is all about? Gender war right? Maybe very soon you'll start advocating for the world war 3 to come and for it to be between men and women. Truly you lots are just living a bitter life. Overcome your bitterness towards life and men, then you'll live a healthier and happier life than you're living right now. ![]() I for one don't have any issue with that though, but it's funny when you guys are always crying wolf when the responsibility of gender equality comes calling. e.g So called feminists clamouring for equality will still come to social media to bash men for not buying them lunch or paying for their meal at a fast food restaurant as if those men gave birth to them, it's silly and funny though. Anyway o, whatever works for you, so far you are not harming others then everything's okay. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 9:56am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:[color=navy]Ha, as expected. You couldn't handle the truth nor contradict me with facts, that's why you came up with conspiracy theories against me and people who don't even know you exist, you loser. Talk about a fool without understanding. If you're too idiotic to prove your points with facts like a sane person would, then throw yourself to the wolves and stop wasting my time. [/color] |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by content208: 10:10am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:Lolz. Strong women that fvck other women, right? Is fvcking other women a sign of strength....or weakness? What a life of shame! Thank goodness, the ratio of men to women is 1 to 5. So, if one bitter bitch gets too pompous, there about 4 other bitches waiting to take her place. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Nobody: 10:17am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Mikester:Truth is relative. Facts require provable references. And Assumptions are unfounded statements. But only an immature mind assumes Assumptions to be Facts when they makes a post without any provable reference. The females in your life don't need to know I exist. As long as you know your female folks (particularly your mother) are part of the women you described in your posts, that's sufficient for me. I hope she doesn't know you hold such deranged views about her.If I'm a loser, a fool, and idiotic, for standing up for your mother and the rest of the women around you, so be it. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 10:19am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:You are not alone. buda is standing up with you. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 10:34am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:[color=navy]I can see the pain behind those smileys. Sorry dear, it isn't your fault women can never be like men. It is just a man's world. Our world but don't be depressed. Here dry your tears. [/color]
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| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by victorix(m): 10:36am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:You write so well, but you ended up sounding like a meth addict. All what you wrote up there sounded like something I would hear in a beer parlour. Maybe it's probably PTSD. You must have had a rough life. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by pakisbriggs: 10:39am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:Hahahahahaha Darealbabe, you're really Da Real Babe! What a reply! Very intelligent! |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 10:42am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:[color=navy]Your lies will just make her more depressed. Women never support each other. [/color] |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by pakisbriggs: 10:45am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:His mother! But is his mother a woman? I doubt. No sane person with a mother will go shading women in general. Nope! Nope! He probably grew up with two Dads if you know what I mean... ![]() |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 10:45am On Feb 28, 2021 |
victorix:Thanks for the compliment doctor. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 10:48am On Feb 28, 2021 |
pakisbriggs:[color=navy]I think we have to recheck the meaning of intelligent in the dictionary as I don't see how someone who couldn't argue with facts but resorted to conspiracy theories is intelligent. Well one can't stop meeting stupid people. [/color]
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| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Nobody: 10:53am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Mikester:I hope you heal from whatever made you this emasculated. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by chinedumoooo: 10:55am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Feminist is the worst among all. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by tonyson010(m): 10:57am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:Beautifully written. I cannot hold back from asking, How can man be emotionally strong like a woman brought up by a mother? Even though it appears, I might have seen what Ur answer may be, borrowing from Ur opinion above but y should I conclude on assumption when you can free me from the entanglement of my thoughts. Can women be physically strong as men, naturally? Nature is beautiful if only we see it the way it is, for fire is good and water is good, darkness and light are there in goodness. How would we appreciate light without darkness.....the fireworks created by us can only be beautiful in darkness. Nature comes with contrasting characters and effect, full grasp of it is knowing that we are weak in different niches.....in Ur strongest place, I am weak and need Ur help to succeed. Just like a child needs parents at young stage to have slight chances of survival and same with old parents. That's the joy and beauty of nature. Men can not be strong emotionally as women neither can women be physically strong as men. There can't be equality in all....that's how nature made them to be. Once more, I admire the craft in Ur writing. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(op): 10:59am On Feb 28, 2021 |
darealbabe:[color=navy] At least I'm not a woman who was born emasculated and will die emasculated. . Your lots will always be our subjects and your desires will always be sanctioned by us. ![]() A woman without a man is like a child without a parent. An orphan. Disadvantaged and at risk. Patriarchy is nurturing and protective. The backbone of civilization. No advanced society can survive without it.[/color] |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Buzx: 11:08am On Feb 28, 2021 |
budaatum:@the bolded, don't worry, it's nature. The feel of your write-up as though you were screaming. Calm down. I would love to engage you in logical conversation to counter some of your points, but It don't think it's worth it, from the way you responded to other people who tried to do the same. You seem opinionated and dogmatic, and I've learned to just listen, nod my head, and move on when it comes to these people. You've got a pen flowing with ink, try to write things with less chauvinism. At the end, we both need each other in the society; male, female. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 12:33pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
awulio:Men are created strong not raised to be. But will descend low to a bitch |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by CHoccolaTE: 12:52pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:That's why all of you dont have sense, because all you think about is sex. |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by okedoyinolabisi(f): 1:00pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:you're harsh oo. speaking from experience? I don't agree with you tho |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 1:37pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
Dybala11:Who wants equity or equality with a man when a womans rightful place is Superiority? www.nairaland.com/attachments/13201827_screenshot20210220145017_jpeg0e94ed8032d46e37b7f7e921f20f9d04www.nairaland.com/attachments/11000678_notablestrongwoman1_jpegfcb825ad574991670c3a5c5080380080 www.nairaland.com/attachments/13195883_screenshot20210226141800_jpeg2cf8b2bb644f0683a33540db2af049fd #Feminisuperiorwomen! |
| Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 2:37pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:The Ashanti in Ghana is matriarchy and they are about the largest tribe |
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I hope she doesn't know you hold such deranged views about her.