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TheUndercover:
When people don’t like you, their questions are attacks. Sometimes these attacks are disguised as concerns, other times they are blatant. Whenever you’re asked a question, gauge the legitimacy of the question. Insincere questions must be met with insincere answers, if any answer at all.

I do this instinctively.

TheUndercover:
Machiavelli uses the metaphor of the fox and the lion to explain the combination of cunning and strength that a prince must possess in order to maintain control of his state. Machiavelli stresses that a prince must learn how to imitate both the fox and the lion so that he may draw on the necessary attributes of these "beasts" when circumstances demand it.

According to Machiavelli, a prudent ruler must adapt to new situations and problems, acting as a fox "in order to recognize traps" and as a lion when he must "frighten off wolves." Machiavelli argues that the lion "is defenseless against traps" while the fox "is defenseless against wolves" and other physical threats; therefore, a prince must mimic the behavior of both types of beasts in order to benefit from their complementary talents and to overcome their differing weaknesses.

As a fox, the prince can use cunning statecraft and diplomacy to sidestep traps and other pitfalls. As a lion, the prince can use physical force in order to maintain his power over his subjects and enemies. Taken individually, neither of these talents will spell a prince's success; but combined, the diversified skillset – political cunning backed by the threat of physical force – is formidable. The fox and the lion represent a meeting of opposites and a wise ruler will strive to master and combine the unique skills of both beasts.

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please op, I need the PDF thank you

TheUndercover:
Own your failures before they own you.

Please can you elaborate more on this, thanks.

TheUndercover:
Most men can get cuter girls than they think. False psychological projection of their own sexual attraction mechanism onto women blinds them to this reality.

I sent pm for the pdf ...also explain this one

TheUndercover:
Trust the average woman as much as you trust your government, occasionally there’s a good candidate, most aren’t worth your vote.

can you kindly explain this?

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TheUndercover:
If you've gotten this far with me, congratulations, you should be seeing the world a bit differently by now. Let me inform you, it gets more deeper from here. Always be open-minded and never stop learning.

Move with me!

I read about the Law of Detachment in a book last year, it talks about never emotionally attaching yourself to any person, cause or thing in general but to be neutral in your heart.
Can you elaborate on this?

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TheUndercover:
I haven't read the book but I think I understand what you mean.

Emotional detachment is an inability or unwillingness to connect with other people on an emotional level. For some people, being emotionally detached helps protect them from unwanted drama, anxiety, or stress.

For others, the detachment isn’t always voluntary. It’s instead the result of events that make the person unable to be open and honest about their emotions.

If you attach too much emotions to anything, you will feel needy towards that thing or someone, and if anything goes wrong, it will hurt you deeply. Don't invest too much of emotions into something that offers you no benefits, and most importantly, don't invest too much emotions to a girl you're in a relationship with, if you do, you'll find it hard to move on if the girl hurt you.

One thing about emotions is that, it makes us make unnecessary decisions we won't have made when we are emotionless i.e. logical. As a man you have to control yourself when you're emotional whether happy, sad, angry, excited etcetera.

Wao, I so much appreciate. God bless you

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TheUndercover:
If you've gotten this far with me, congratulations, you should be seeing the world a bit differently by now. Let me inform you, it gets more deeper from here. Always be open-minded and never stop learning.

Move with me!

ride on

Please I noticed this thread was moved from Romance to the Business Section, how can I get it back to the Romance Section?

TheUndercover:
The fewer words you need to explain, the likelier you are believed.

The more words you use, the less they’ll like what you say.

Misdirection: if they say a lot of words without communicating a bottom line, they’re deceiving you.

True... Like V said in mafia manager... IF YOU MUST LIE, BE BRIEF...

Keep up the good work here... The first time I read the book Mafia Manger, I realized I was reading about myself ... In all, everyone must know how to add and minus some of these words you have written to be more effective in our current realities...

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