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| "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by MuguVideosNG(op): 10:58am On Mar 06, 2021 |
"If You Have A Husband Who Is Responsible Enough To Pay All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes According to her, a married woman should be grateful if she has a husband that is responsible enough to handle all major bills and is also sensible. A single mother took to Twitter to tell women to be grateful if they have a responsible husband that pays the bills. The single mum identified as Bashirat lost her husband six months ago and she says that ever since the bills have been choking her. According to Bashirat, a married woman should be grateful if she has a husband that is responsible enough to handle all major bills and is also sensible. In her words; ”If you get husband & he’s responsible enough to pay all major bills… Plus e come get sense join. My sister be grateful.Source : https://twitter.com/thebashirat/status/1367520393670643716? 1 Like
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| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by MuguVideosNG(op): 10:59am On Mar 06, 2021 |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Bola146(f): 11:13am On Mar 06, 2021 |
Hummmm |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:39am On Mar 06, 2021*. Modified: 4:31pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
I like that she said all major bills, because it is no longer realistic for one person to foot all the bills in the home. 5 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by NwaAmaikpe: 12:00pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
This is the absolute truth...but the painful part is most women do not appreciate or realize this fact until it is gone. But I don't know why my lopsided brain views this post as cryptic and interpretes it somewhat differently. Only the observant ones will notice this for what it is; simply an "invitation to treat". She's only using style to tell us she is unencumbered and because in almost 6 years there's been no husband to constantly pummel and ravage her up, the kpekus is tight again then boobs are full and heavy. I may be wrong but NIGERIAN single mothers mostly have one choice of hustle in order to meet up with their bills. I think I need a doctor and four exorcists. 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Mandela27: 12:01pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
wahala |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Liposure: 12:06pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
What a woman can do, a man can do better and even more and what a man can do, a woman can only try her best. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 12:23pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:Onye ara!  Who let you loose? |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Fiscus105(m): 2:44pm On Mar 06, 2021*. Modified: 6:58pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
People generally don't use to appreciate what they have until they loose it. What a good man does in marriage is unquantified. All these bills that man will foot without think twice woman will feel frustrated when paying them. 2 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by crackhaus: 5:59pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
But the FUTURE is FEMALE na... I don't understand all these women who are complaining and still looking for men to take care of them. 5 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 6:43pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Fiscus105:That is what makes a man. A reliable man is incomparable. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 6:46pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
crackhaus:Woman was created for man. Woman was put in the care of man by God. Woman is meant to be cared for by man. 2 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by chii8(f): 7:11pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
I'm grateful oooo May God bless all responsible Fathers... May God bless all sweet Husbands.... May God bless all every hardworking men who go extra mile to take care of their family.... 3 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by ahnie: 7:20pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
I'm over grateful. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Mikester: 7:49pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
[color=navy]Only a foolish woman tears her home. Only a fool weds a slut[/color] 1 Like |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by crackhaus: 7:56pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Then the FUTURE is not FEMALE... Lol! 2 Likes |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by ezugegere(m): 8:55pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:I pay every shilling in my home. My choice though |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 9:13pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
crackhaus:Before nko? Who said and decided it was? Does that even make any sense to you? Learn not to give too much importance to everything you read. (See as you even type am sef like say...) Just because the line is becoming popular does not mean it makes any sense. 1 Like |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Munzy14(m): 10:17pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Lekwa ndi feminist na bia I pia gi attack o...statement a na afu ha ka ose... |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Munzy14(m): 10:22pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel:That guy is a big specimen...
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| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Nobody: 10:31pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:Incorrect. With proper budgeting and self restraint, it is very possible. I've been doing that for years. It is only impossible when a man decides to give his wife the opportunity to set the standards of living beyond his means, and then is forced to beg her to contribute to finance their unsustainable lifestyle. 1 Like |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 10:38pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Munzy14:It is not for everybody to accept it. I don't contradict myself as a Christian. Not even on a platform like Nairaland. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 10:41pm On Mar 06, 2021*. Modified: 1:05pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Munzy14(m): 6:11am On Mar 07, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Wild wild.. But in this case he is correct...The lady ji nwayoo na-acho onye enye m aka...And onye ga ana enyere aka I gbati ahu.... maka na ahu mmàdu awu hu nku...Women who lost their hubbies early the suffer o...Even if he left money for upkeep of the kids..it is still not easy...Any lady who grew up in such home, will always cherish a good guy who comes to marry her...Even she will see a father, boyfriend and hubby in that particular man. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Munzy14(m): 6:16am On Mar 07, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Yes not everyone should as a fact. But, oputara na ndi aunty feminist awu hu nu Christians? Because I know most of them have Christ belief.. That rubbish is not common with Muslim ladies like it is with Christians. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by crackhaus: 12:47pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Including comments from you? Okay then...  |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 1:05pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
crackhaus:If it doesn't make any sense? Then yeah. |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by mariahAngel(f): 1:15pm On Mar 07, 2021*. Modified: 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Munzy14:Owu ihe o gwara gi? Owu nani onye ga na agbati ya ahu? Women who lost their hubbies early the suffer o...Even if he left money for upkeep of the kids..it is still not easy...Any lady who grew up in such home, will always cherish a good guy who comes to marry her...Even she will see a father, boyfriend and hubby in that particular man.There are different kinds of struggles that people don't talk about. Losing a husband at an early stage in marriage is one of them. 1 Like |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Auxigen(m): 2:02pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: you indeed are foul mouthedChaii! |
| Re: "If Your Husband Pays All Bills, Be Grateful"– Single Mother Writes by Munzy14(m): 8:55pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
mariahAngel: I ma nu, asi onye kowa mkpa ya, ebunye ya meeting...Ka o were ya gbazuo.. The woman kowara mkpa na. Exactly, it is one of the worst thing that can happen to a lady,especially after dropping a number of kids..onwu umu nwoke a na hu ara ahu. O nwere ike na-agbawa the man obi with complaints and nagging, mana eshi nwoke a hu nwuru, ka nwaanyi ga amata ihe bu ahuhu...even if she has a good job. Mmiri zoo, weather for two e me ya iwa... Ma obu massage di NA nwunye..lol Plus responsibility... And kids growing wild due to absence of father figure. Ma di ma nwunye di mkpa o. |
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