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Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by dochenaj: 9:05am On Mar 16, 2021
InEvitable0000:
I was sacked from my peaceful job just because I was honest.
Should I go against my principles just for dishonest riches?

A good name is better than riches...(that's my motto and my daily slogan)

Just returned from the police station yesterday for something I didn't commit. I was only trying to help and now my help has brought me this.

Why must the world be like this when it can be a better place? cry embarassed
So what else is going on in your life that is driving you towards suicide. Let's hear the whole story.
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by InEvitable0000(op): 9:43am On Mar 16, 2021
dochenaj:
So what else is going on in your life that is driving you towards suicide. Let's hear the whole story.
Read from the beginning..... thanks
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by stanliwise(m): 10:45am On Mar 16, 2021
InEvitable0000:
It can be close or far, only God knows when but that faith keeps dwindling down gently until it gets to a stage where the faith is completely gone � and then there is no hope.
Ok let me tell you something, I remember sometimes back after I got in to school, in the first few weeks in school, life was very different from how it use to be. I didn't know path to my school, every place were strange, new faces, new friends, new class room, I had to sort my foodstuff, I had plan my time and in fact then I resumed late and was behind schedule, exam was close and it seem like I will be the biggest failure in the class, especially based on story I have heard from it..
For two straight weeks I wasn't myself and to be candid, I planned to quit and go back home. Like I had it up to the neck, I wanted to tell my family that things were not just ok with me and I wanted to drop out and rewrite and come back prepared next year.
But guess what I came out best result in that year, now in retrospect I just laugh at that thought and at that moment, Had I known I was a little too impatient and naïve I could have been more calm and just have my best moment. Infact everything was absolutely normal and could be better. But guess what in 100l was the moment I had my worst moment, purely out of my mind, nothing was actually really so wrong about my situation, infact the little issues I face was not as much as I magnified them to be. I was just so pessimistic about my value, skillset and worth. I saw other student were happy and having fun they were in school but for me I wasn't cut out for it, infact in retrospect I wasted that moment, I wasted some little smile happiness and I could have had, in matric day I wasn't so happy yet think back now all was very fine, it was I who chose to naively think of things that way.

So let me ask what did you think about my story, is it in anyway related to the situation you are in right now? if no then can you point out the specifics?
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by mariahAngel(f): 11:02am On Mar 16, 2021
Ayo13945:
You need an Anchor.
What is an Anchor?

An anchor is something or someone that
keeps you attached to this World.


It could be Family and Friends; it could
be desire for Wealth and Material
Possessions; It could be a Religion
or an Ideolgy; It could also be having
a Purpose.
Sometimes it might even be a Girlfriend;
Wife or Children.

Find and Anchor and Hold on to it.

I suggest something like having a Purpose
or A Religion.
Because every other thing can be taken
away from you but a sense of Purpose
will give you Endless Power(will to live).
Wow!

Those are deep words that only a few can understand.
If only the op would take some time to reflect on them...

How did you come to that understanding?
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by InEvitable0000(op): 1:46pm On Mar 16, 2021
Nairaland is blessed and I pray no one here ever be in my situation.
You will all go higher and higher.
This is my contact to reach me for people asking.
0 - 7 - 0 - 4 - 1 - 1 - 9 - 1 - 7 - 9 - 0.
Number active for now....
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by meobizy(m): 11:36am On Mar 17, 2021
What did OP decide, last last?
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by Eddodoh(m): 6:33pm On Mar 17, 2021
I have been there. A very horrible situation & I almost commit suicide but thank God, I came out victorious.

Even though I am not where I am suppose to be, thank God for where I am today.
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by Jamestown123: 9:01am On Mar 18, 2021
InEvitable0000:
I was sacked from my peaceful job just because I was honest.
Should I go against my principles just for dishonest riches?

A good name is better than riches...(that's my motto and my daily slogan)

Just returned from the police station yesterday for something I didn't commit. I was only trying to help and now my help has brought me this.

Why must the world be like this when it can be a better place? cry embarassed
If u pack go village bro nothing will happen. na people like u dey Village. If nothing is working in the city na to pack go ur village wey free house dey
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by Onyi22(f): 9:28am On Mar 18, 2021
Suicide is not an option my dear
Re: At The Verge Of Ending My Life. (depression Is Real)!!! by InEvitable0000(op): 3:33pm On Mar 19, 2021
Thank you to everyone here that gave me an option to live and made me choose the right choice.

I appreciate everyone that called or reached out in one way or the other.


Right now, I'm in need of your help in starting off a trading business for myself so I can also sleep in the store as shelter for now.
Anyone who gives little from his heart to the one who has nothing has given greatly in the heart of God and will be blessed abundantly.

You can reach me on, 0 - 7 - 0 - 4 - 1 - 1 - 9 - 1 - 7 - 9 - 0

Dropping no details here...

THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS, GUIDANCES AND SUPPORT WHICH KEPT ME TODAY.
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