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Thankz for all the advice

My I wish I went for an older guy who can take care of me. But wait o...why cant some guys just tell yhe the truth when a woman has decided to spend the rest of her life with him.

Myself and my husband dated for 2 years of which we shared all with each other. However as we live in a western culture...we share our food bills when we go out. We got married 2 months ago and I am already regretting it.

Last month he told me that he invested in a business to surprise me when the money comes. However to cut long story short, business did not do well. I have a masters in business which I could have given him a feasibility study of the business succeeding or not. ?. As Some men like to keep money away from the wife he didnt tell me.

Now rent money is due in the house, I have to pay it.
Now we need food in the house, I have to buy it.


My father had warned me against this kind of men who are a few years older than me...but I failed to listen.

The guy is so picky with food and I am thinking should a beggar be a chooser....I dont think so..

He is looking for full time work now but expects so much from me..

Honestly speaking I had options to marry other guys but I picked the wrong guy I guess.

Honestly considering a divorcee. Might as well cut my losses now.

Dear readers,

I started a new job about 5 months ago and my manager had promised me that after my second month with the company I would be provided with staff card that enables me get money off in silver bird galleria on the weekends. Also I was told that as I decided not to eat in the canteen I would have added on money to my salary. Also because I drink into work I would also be given some re-imbursement towards fuel.


However this is 5 months and still I have not been given or offered any re-imbursement or added on salary. This is beginning to affect my motivation and also my beliefs in the company to keep to their words.

If anyone is feeling the same way I feel, pls can you share it with me. Does your company's lack of fufilling the psychological contract between you prevent you from being committed to the job? Or is the lack of trust you have in them making you re-consider if you would like to get a new job else ?


So if my company at this early stage is already not fufilling their promise. I wonder how many more of their promises in the future they would fail to fulfil....


That is a big question I want the masses to help me answer...


Nairaland forum people abeg help me....with advice