as far as Im concerned if u guys aint in love,u dont hav 2 force ursef 2 marry her BUT ud need 2 b there 4 her weneva she's in need of a shoulder BUT also,if she's ur girlfriend & u say u dont wanna marry her reason being dat : she's done an abortion b4.dat'd b so damn SELFISH! afterall she dint get herself pregnant abi?

Ebonyeyes:

Its because most independent women who can buy her things intimidate most guys. Guys like to think they can take care of their women and cannot deal with the fact that a woman can now buy her house/car and has a sizeable chunk in the bank.

@ Ebony eyes, so if 4 instance,after sweating ur ass off by going 2 school 4 hw many years u now get a good job,hav a good income & hav evrytin 2 make urself comfortable & independent, u wont buy a car because u want 2 find a husband? c'mon dats bullshit & it aint ryt! look, Id be somwhat intimidated by such a chick cos Im more on d reserved syd but dat wont change my " RESPECT" or "ADMIRATION" 4 her @all.l yk I said earlier on,dere r guys dat wont feel intimidated @ all.if I get married 4 instance,& I earn lets say 1milla a month wen my wife isnt workin,isnt dat enuf 2 take care of my family? den now imagine if my wife earns 1.5milla evry month too(earning more dan me). dat wont make me less of a man at all! cos If. she wasnt earning anytin,my income wud still be able 2take good care of her & our kids. as long as she wont b "cocky" & we'd b happy as a family, I dont mind @all. marriage is not evrytin in lyf o! so all my strong & independent naija chicks keep ur head up! as long as u wont get pompous around people,guys lyk me giv u all d support 2 break barriers dat we guys havent even com close to. cos we r all humans & no gender is greater dan d oda! " MARRIAGE NO BE EVERYTIN 4 LYF ABEG!"

LOOK,IM A GUY WHO THINKS BOTH GUYS & GIRLS R EQUAL.EXCEPT MAY B IN JUST A FEW THINGS LIKE PHYSICAL & EMOTIONAL STRENGTH WHERE GUYS HAVE THE UPPER HAND. BUT I'V NOTICED THAT MOST NIGERIAN LADIES R THE ONES WHO EVEN DOWNGRADE THEIR SEX. IMAGINE THAT MANY NIGERIAN GIRLS BELIEVE THAT WHEN U HAV A CAR U WONT FIND A MAN TO MARRY U. WAT D F IS DAT? SO EVEN IF U HAV GOT D CASH 2 BUY A CAR,U'D RATHER WALK ON UR FEET FOR YEARS & GET THOUSANDS & THOUSANDS OF BLISTERS ON UR FEET ALL IN THE NAME OF LOOKING 4 A MAN 2 MARRY. EVEN IF U DASH ME BEYONCE,IF SHE'S GOT DAT SPIRIT,I NO GO MARRY AM. WAT D F? U MUST FIND A HUSBAND IN DIS LYF IF U WANT,SO U DONT NEED 2 SUFFER URSEF O!

hey peeps,I AM PRETTY BOY,DATS MY NICKNAME THOUGH iv bin in abj 4 a couple of weeks but i dont know so many people.all the peeps i know r either outta town on hols somwere due 2 d strike or stuff lyk dat.plus i had lost my phone so i lost my contacts too.i jus need gurl-frends for a casual frendship.IM MORE INTO MAKING FRIENDS WIT CHICKS.any 1 interested, holla!