I've been sayin it 4 a long long time "na we Nigerians go school pass but we r still d dumbest,backward & illiterate people!" wat if Da grin was not a rapper? r u tellin me nw, dat he wud hav not died yet? so is it the so-called "rival-cult members dat put d truck he crashed into in front of him? make we dey use sense atimes abeg. look,dat song was just a coincidence as far as Im concerned. u guys dont know d power of music. real-gifted artiste feel something b4 dey sing about it. it just hapens somtyms. but how una go know? wen all u guys eva want to hear is a party song with no theme? was it not after he died he became soooooooo popular? d dude was just beginning to shine. even if he ever did any blood-money rituals,there's no proof. so u guys should all shut d hell up & stop judging. m.i. & 2face alredi said it "if nobody talk about u,den u r nobody. whether na true or na lie my guy!" we are not God,so we dont know if Da Grin did any rituals,stop judging d fella, who's holy? R.I.P. da grin. may God rest your soul & also teach people 2 stop judging others. Amen!

abeg is it only me dat thinks palringo is to expensive? each tym I log in wit it, in just like 10 seconds, at least lyk a N120 wud go. what do u guys think is wrong?

abeg anybody who knows should kindly mail me on malcolmadoks@yahoo.com thanks ya'll

hey sis, hi. pls could u kindly send me d info malcolmadoks@yahoo.com

true talk man! dat dude fell everybody's hands. J-town & abj guys were most dissapointed cos of how anticipation dat had been built. although, abj is still head over heels for him sha.

I CANT SHOUT!

MANY OF THESE PEOPLE HERE DONT KNOW SSSSSHHHHHHHHIIIIIITTTTT ABOUT RAP OR HIP HOP. I'M A BIG M.I. FAN BUT MODE 9 IS AN UNDISPUTED RAP HEAVY-WEIGHT TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT,HEAR HIS MUSIC OR NOT, DAT CAN'T BE CHANGED. HE'S JUST NOT MUSICALLY SUCCESSFUL AS M.I. COS HE MAKES HIS MUSIC STRICTLY FOR A "RAP-HEADS" AUDIENCE. SO IF U NO WAN HEAR AM,WAKA COMOT. SOME OTHER PEOPLE WUD LISTEN TO HIM.

hey v3 hi. abeg, could u let me know what website u downloaded the drumkits? if u dont want to share it publicly, pls mail me cohiba_blu@yahoo.com thanks bro,wud be waitin

an girls in abj interested in making friends wit me, I just came into d country & I hardly hav any female friends.ya'll holla.

hey bro. hi. I know u must hav done dis 4 so many people and as a result, u might be tired but pls kindly help me out too by sending it to me malcolmadoks@yahoo.com. I use a nokia e63. thanks a great deal

HOTLIL@SA I LOVE YOU 4 THIS. GREAT WORK OF COMPOSITION & IN-DEPTH THOUGHT!

well dear brother man,

Id keep it true,short &straight-forward. look nobody expects a saint on earth cos we all have our flaws and mistakes but som people are cowards man!             she's not a trust-worthy or good person either. [Im sorry if I sound judgemantal] but why on earth would she still lie about being a virgin? what the heck is d big deal wit not being a virgin anymore? if for instance she had lied about how many men she's had sex wit due to guilt now dat she's changed,dat wud b understandable. but now,dat she's still lying about being a 'virgin', even though she was a slut, dat cant be a changed person. cos a changed person wud not lie outrageously besides leading somone they claim to love astray.  even though d truth hurts sometimes, tel those u love d truth & if dey love u, many of these stuffs wud only hurt but dey wud find a way of 4givin u.

sincerely, its supposed 2 be balanced. no one is supposed 2be more responsible. so its meant 2 be 50/50. but 2b truthful without any sentiments, ladies mostly think d man is supposed 2 be more responsible  4 most of what happens in the relationship. if u dont believe, for instance, just an instance-   almost every guy can count how many times he's wife or girlfriend has initiated a date.if u talk about this 2 most gurls dey would be lyk "I dont have money,c'mon he's d guy, he shud be d one 2take me out(not every gurl wud do dis o but most of them anyways)" but on the oda hand even if a guy's penny-less &dead broke & cant even afford 1 tom tom he'd still feel very very hurt dat he cant spoil his gurl just a little (not every guy's lyk dis o but there r more guys like dis anyways). even if a guy doesnt hav d money 2 just "spoil" her a bit, 4d fact that it hurts him,dats caring enough ryt? all in all sha, if both parties dont hav 2 wait on the other person or push more responsibilities 2d oda person, d relationship/marriage would be more spontaneous & more fun!

Pharoh:

It is not inferiority complex but misplaced priority

BOTH D COMPLEX & MISPLACED PRIORITY

baddingurl:

Thanks guys for your replies,

For starters i can understand y some of you would think im selfish and some others would think otherwise. I am trying to make a life changing choice and i truly appreciate all your response so far. It truly means a lot.

Okay maybe i should stick with guy no 1. But what will i now tell guy no.2 to make him forget about me? It will hurt me to have to do this but really as some of you have said, I would have to be with him to be able to make a better choice. That time i do not have as both have proposed Jan. 2010 as the Trad month. I dont want to break anyones heart really and if you ask me, I WANT BOTH GUYS . Gosh, guys please no vesk as i am not playing anyone. My family think im some kinda mammywater as i am still single till now, Im 34. I need to make a choice, but a good one; afterall, i waited this long to do so!

once again, thanks for your advice,

@ BADDINGURL I feel were ur coming from wit d pressure 'BUT' still it doesnt change a tin. which of deze wud u prefer? being a wife & friend 2 ur husband (were u guys really undastand each oda & know all ur strong & weak points,u guys can also talk about anytin& evrytin) or being a property(were u wont even hav a say in ur home.ur husband's say's final & ud just feel lyk its a master & slave relationship) no mata how u feel, I just think being wit d 1st guy's d best tin 2 do cos u guys undastand each oda.




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1st of all imagine if dis same guy u "think" u love does dis same tin to u by giving u so much hope den he'd get confused over som oda chick. wud u lyk it? I "SERIOUSLY" tink ur just a "SELFISH" person (no disrespect). but ur just tinkin about dis stuff in a way dat wud benefit only u. lyk u said,u & d 1st guy hav been 2geda 4 somtym,u guys love each other so much,u guys make each oda happy,u guys understand each oda,u r happy about d relationship u hav wit him cos of how u guys get along wit each oda. baby pls tell me wat marriage is about if not about all d above characteristics. I suggest u really sit down & talk 2 urself,find d answer in ur heart. wont u regret it if u throw away "guaranteed" happiness 4 an unsure relationship wit som1 else? I "guarantee" u dat its hard 2 find a relationship lyk d 1 u r in wit d 1st guy. if u throw it away,well, I don't know wat 2 say.but in my candid opinion,I tink u shud hold on 2 d 1st guy. d answer lies in ur heart cos ur d 1 who wud make d decision.so no matter wat me or any oda person suggests,ud still do wat ud do.but think about it rightly & be wise. wish u all d best!

hey pple any gurls interested in havin a friend over d fone. I found a friend lyk dat once som years back & we really got close until recently wen I lost her number & I guess she most hav lost mine too. it ws just fun. any interestd gurls? its jus gon b simple fun.dats all

@ ROSABELLE Iv bin sayin dis tin 4 so damn long I even stared a thread titled "Y DO NIGERIAN GIRLS HAV INFERIORITY COMPLEX" already on

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-334007.0.html

ya'll drop ur comments

.Im gon talk about nigerian girls cos dis is wat concerns us now. Girls dont need men to b great in life,a man is just there to complement u. but most nigerian girls hav so limited demselves to thinkin dat without a man dey can hardly do anytin. Iv always hated dis attitude. wen ur husband hurts u,talk 2 him lyk a wife not lyk he's som god &ur a slave. if u hav d money 2 buy a car,a house, etc buy dem. dont be scared it wud intimidate a guy & u wudnt find a husband. truth is there is som1 4 evry1 in dis life. so in short,girls shouldnt tink without guys dey r notin. rather,think of it as ur man is ur partner & not ur god & he is there to complement u! it doesnt matter wat a man says or does to u. guys & girls r equal.so ya'll keep doin ur tin joh! if u guys dont believe in urselves,den hw wud a guy believe in u guys?

@poster , some tins I suppose 2 b private lyk ur email's paswod. bt lyk u said, u dont hav anytin 2 hyd ryt? I suggest dat if dis stuf's about bringin trouble btw u guys,just give him. he wouldnt keep checkin ur mailbox 4eva trust me. den u can change ue paswod. & also after he has satisfied his curiosity,let him know hw much u dont lyk dat kinda stuff