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OK. so what next?

I will forgive him but if more than once then we will have to go our separate ways

Sanchez01:
It is obvious you didn't read the OP's thread well enough.


OP, kindly hold on to your baby. A mother's love is always stronger. Keep her, lest any man comes to you with the hope of taking your solace away

thanks for your advice. she's the only source of my happiness so I can't just let him take away my precious gift

Hazardd:
if you dont have any other guy,how are you going to get married?
thats means you still you still have hope of reconcilation with your baby dad

reconciliation is the least thing in my mind now. I just don't want to fall into a wrong hand again that's why I'm just taking my time.

passionate88:
Then take the child to your parent.... Try as much as possible not to send her to his mom... If you do, that might be the last time you'd see her... There's this case of Otedola and a woman that claimed she had a child for him and the child was taken from her when she was a kid, since then she'd not seen the child and this happened like 20 years ago

exactly what his friend told me that I shouldn't even think of letting him take my baby that I might never set my eye on her again.

passionate88:
Don't.even comtemplate giving your child to her dad... If he insist on taking her, drag him to court... Are you working or schooling?

I'm a graduate, will be going for service soon.

passionate88:
True... But I think it's better the child remain with the mother and not his mother, unless the dad has a very good reason... Reasons like 1: The mom brings different men home to "pray" with 2: The mom has started brainwashing the little girl (Your papa na wicked man, No trust men, All men are the same) 3: You guys should use your imaginations

I'm not that type of person. I respect my baby and I don't have another guy let alone bringing him to the house. is just me and her.

Hazardd:
with this,he is trying for her daughter and the child remains his.

You people need serious reconcilation

like seriously don't make me believe that you are just like him or are you a fellow Igbo?

Hazardd:
whether he reject his baby mama or not,the child still remains his as long as he is catering for her from day 1 to 5years.

you are getting it all wrong. 1000naira a week is that what you call catering for her? before he will even release the 1000 I will have to kneel in his shop and begged before he will throw the money on the floor for me to pick. is that it?

Hazardd:
from your above statement.
That means he has be catering for her

he gives me 1000naira every week for her feeding and also pay half of her fees. but I never conplained .

hello my fellow Nairalander's,
I'm 26 and a single mother, I separated from my baby dad 2years ago because of tribal issues I.e. the parent doesn't want him to marry from another tribe (he's an Igbo guy while I'm from Akwa Ibom). my daughter as been with me ever since we separated and I love her so so much. she will be 5yrs nextmonth and now the father wants to take her away from me. his uncle has pleaded with him to leave her for now because she's still too small to be separated from her mother but he's paying deaf ears. I haven't told my parent yet but I intend to call them soon so to inform them about it but my friends are advising me to take him to court.
please I'm so confused right now, I need matured advice alone no insult please. I can't let him take my princess away from me since he has not 4 once treated her as a father simply because she wasn't a boy. he has sworn never to pay her fees nor cater for her anymore if I won't let him take her to the village to stay there with his mother.

what should I do?

lanicky:
Smh....I thought she asked u out for dinner or date


Plsss....change the topic to *SHE CHASED ME OUT* kapish.

you just said my mind

OMg when will all this stop. rip to the dead

ShaheedBinAliyu:
Laughing In Chinese, A Dey Craze.

laugh well o

how eh take concern me?

Noted

wristwatch:
I neva wash my mama own nai I go come wash one girl own. I dey craze?

no you no dey craze na love dey sweet you.

if is bf/gf then No but if she's your wife, why not if not especially wen she's pregnant. most of you saying no are just pretending (na people like una dey wash una babe undies)

Iaz93:
Clearly, you weren't ready for marriage.

Please, divorce her and let her go in peace before you wake up in the middle of the night someday and stab her to death.

It seems you're evil. You wish your wife died during delivery? Christ!

he is a devil incarnate. OP divorce that innocent lady before you kill her . if I may ask, did anybody force you to marry her?

sad indeed may her gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen

true talk OP but I hate seating at the back of the class.

Nice

emmalexabl:
And how does it stop us from voting en mass for PDP come next month ?

tell them o

eyah so so sad

she has already move on afterall that's how life suppose to be. keep smiling Oge cause you look more beautiful while smiling

LewisO:
Hi dear! lots of people are wishing u happy bday, I just wanna let u know I am one of them, happy birthday, u're blessed!

thanks dear

thanks all for the wonderful wishes, may God bless u all

LaurelP:
Ok happy buffday to u dear
So you're a new year child?
Nice

yes dear I'm a new year baby

thanks all

Hello my wonderful Nairalanders, I'm a year older today all thanks to Almighty God for his Love because it can only be Him. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY HUMBLE SELF & A VERY PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR TO ALL NAIRALANDERS. I Love you all

braintext:
She's so gorgeous.....
It's good to have money...
So I'll hustle hard for my children to enjoy

I Know that you will be a good husband and father to your kids. keep working hard

Ucheosefoh:
And I pray God will not allow you fall into the hands of ritualist all in the name of dating rich guys

AMEN