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bigiyaro:
who escorted her to d native doctor's place? Who saw her mixin d charm n soup? Who saw her eat d soup? Has d native doctor been arrested or did he confess? Untill these questns r answered, d husband is d prime suspect.

you sure have a point

Thandolwethu:
Our president has sent in the Army to stop the riots and attacks.

Unlike Jonathan who cant send in the army to stop boko haram

what insolence!!!

youngpol:
I just checked you out, you look so beautiful and cute.

thanks

RapLawd:
wish you could make my list... just a fan... nothing else!.

OK

agarawu23:
you must be kidding

when bf full Nairaland. Orijin101 your attention is needed

hahahahahahaha u're very funny

The death » of a housewife in Atumaga community in
Delta State, has thrown her household into great confusion
after it was discovered that she died after eating from the
soup she had poisoned for her cheating husband.
According to Leadership Newspaper, the woman identified
as Egwoli, was frustrated that her husband was busy
sleeping with other women and neglecting her for over a
year, decided to consult a native doctor who prepared the
love charm » for her with strict instructions to add the
substance to her husband's food to gain back his affection.
But after preparing the egusi (melon) soup but
unfortunately, her errant husband was nowhere to be found.
Not knowing the charm had deadly effects, she ate from the
soup and went to bed and was found dead the following
morning.
The husband who had earlier complained that he stopped
making love to his wife because of the offensive body odour
that oozes out of her body, narrated the circumstances that
led to the tragic end:
"My wife had threatened to make me impotent when I
stopped making love to her for obvious reasons and I found
some fetish items in her room, including the egusi soup she
ate before her death."
The Delta State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP
Celestina Kalu, has confirmed the incidence and said that
the police was investigating the circumstances that led to
the woman’s death.

just incase

ginawest:
wot about a guy dat doesn't spend on u...shud u stl kip on buying im gifts to show u love im?

No girlfriend

agarawu23:
nice one


Op, which of the points are u using presently to remind your bf you love him?

none cos I don't have a bf

There are so many gestures to remind that special
someone of how much you love them don't have to spend a
dime or have sex to prove it.
To keep your romance alive, you have to assure him you
are with him every step of the way, even when you are both
at different places at that particular time.
These are the 6 ways to remind your boyfriend how deeply in love you are:
1. Non-holiday gifts: A sentimental gift, given on a day
that is not a holiday or his birthday, is one of the
easiest ways to remind your boyfriend that you love
him. This gift doesn't have to be elaborate or expensive.
You don’t need a special reason to give him a gift, other
than the fact that you love him. It could be as simple as
a funny t-shirt or book that reminded you of him. The
amount of money you spend doesn't matter.
2. Texts: Do you ever just text your guy to remind him that
you love him? Sending a sweet little text message
shows him that he was on your mind. These texts don’t
necessarily need to be long or dramatic. Just a quick “I
love you” text is enough to show you care. You like
receiving sweet texts, right? It only makes sense that he
would enjoy receiving them, too.
3. PDA: Many guys like a little bit of PDA. When the two of
you are out together, playfully show him some public
displays of affection. This can be as simple as
squeezing his hand or patting his knee. Show the world
that you are proud to be with this guy. As long as you
don’t go overboard with it, a little bit of PDA shows him
that you love him.
4. Take interest in his friends: When was the last time you
took an interest in your guy’s friends? Even if they are
annoying at times, don’t diss his buddies. After all, if
your guy likes them, they must have some admirable
qualities. When you alienate his friends, your guy will
always feel like he has to choose between you and
them. By taking an interest in his friends, it shows your
boyfriend that you respect that part of his life.
5. Trust: No relationship can survive without a certain
level of trust. Trusting your guy to make the right
decisions gives you an air of confidence. Guys love a
confident woman. Unfounded jealousy makes you
appear insecure and obsessive. If you have no valid
reason to distrust him, don’t fall into the jealousy trap.
Trust is an important way to show your love.
6. Give him space: Giving your guy space does not mean
you need to leave him for days on end. Just give your
boyfriend some time to do his own thing. This way, he
knows that his happiness is important to you. This
means you shouldn’t make your boyfriend feel guilty
about doing guy stuff once in awhile, instead of
spending every minute with you. You’ve heard the old
adage, “happiness makes the heart grow fonder,” right?

Add yours

such a wicked act

Bigloaf:
That is touching, i feel like to cry

really touching

One day a man saw a old lady, stranded on the side of the
road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she
needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and
got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he
approached her.
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one
had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to
hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry.
He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in
the cold. He knew how she felt. I t was that chill which only
fear can put in you.
He said, “I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait
in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan
Anderson.”
Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that
was bad enough.
Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the
jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able
to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands
hurt.
As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the
window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was
from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She
couldn’t thank him enough for coming to her aid.
Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked
how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all
right with her. She already imagined all the awful things
that could have happened had he not stopped.
Bryan never thought twice about being paid.
This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in
need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him
a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way,
and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the
next time she saw someone who needed help, she could
give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan
added, “And think of me.”
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had
been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he
headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.
A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She
went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before
she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy
looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The
whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over
and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a
sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole
day couldn’t erase. The lady noticed the waitress was
nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain
and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how
someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger.
Then she remembered Bryan .
After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred
dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her
hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out
the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came
back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be.
Then she noticed something written on the napkin.
There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady
wrote: “You don’t owe me an anything. I have been there
too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I’m helping
you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you
do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.”
Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.
Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and
people to serve, but the waitress made it through another
day. That night when she got home from work and climbed
into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the
lady had written. How could the lady have known how
much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due
next month, it was going to be hard….
She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay
sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and
whispered soft and low, “Everything’s going to be all right.
I love you, Bryan Anderson.”
There is an old saying “What goes a round comes around.”
Today, I sent you this story, and I’m asking you to pass it
on .. Let this light shine.
Don’t delete it, don’t return it. Simply, pass this on to a
friend
Good friends are like stars….You don’t always see them,
but you know they are always there.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

I love those boobz.

GEJ till 2019

meee

my brother I tired o. I wonder what on earth will make a married woman cheat on her husband. BTW you did the right thing.




#teamsaynotoextramaritalaffairs#

festusfeezy:
so u be one of those kinda little brain girls aa u better grow up

I think you are the one to grow up here not me

eyah!!!!! it seems you are still a boy so please grow up.



but wait o, so you wan marry wife go keep for your parent house make them ( especially your mother) go dey monitor how much you give am to Cook food abi. smh

apparentlylaw:
Eiyah ....U knw wat run ...Run to where he can't find u and ur child and start a new life

thanx

lollipop25:
Sorry... but I thought Igbos or (some part maybe) cannot claim a child if they are not married to the mother? Just curious

some part do claim

yadipson:
I looked at all the comments uve got here, I'm afraid they are NOT helpful to you at all. I am a man and we have similar cases. If you are not careful, ur mistake and her father's may av negative impact on ur daughter dt just came on her own jeje. There is little I mean little you can do to modern-train that girl without his father. Cooperate wt each other whether eventually married or nt, atleast cos of dt child.

Don't be deceived, the girl wl give u trouble to take her to her father when the time comes. In my own case, I was d one begging my baby mama to let us jointly train our boy in the best way but she was rude, aggressive, violent and hiding my baby frm me, .
But today, she has been looking for me everywhere. She cannot even go to my parents cos she was very rude to them.

But I discovered dt it sharks all single mothers at ds early stage u re nw, later they wl calm down wt their baby fathers and cooperate to train their child jointly.

Best of luck in ur decision making (either to sue him or take his child to your sister or cooperate wt his family to train d child togeda). Pls choose one.

By the way, hw do u feed ursf and d child or ar u working?

NOTE: Neither am I an Igbo nor Akwa Ibom man.

I understand your point but I wasn't in any way rude to his parent even when his mother came all the way from Anambra and throw my things and that of her grandchild out of his sons house, all I did was to plead with her not to treat me that way. nothing in this life will make me beg him to come and train my daughter again. in place of feeding, it has been my parent and my sis and his uncle too has been very supportive( his uncle is a good man and he hasn't 4 once support them)

SkinnyDude:
since Emeka my brother is trying for his daughter. give him his daughter, marriage is not by force. he doesn't want to marry outside his tribe. period!
reason like a graduate. dont make that baby a bastard.

I don't have to waste my time with you. but you know what? is better for her to be a bastard than to have a father that doesn't care. I won't give him my daughter period

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damoskiy:
all well nd good...neva trust anybody....don't allow people use your child to make money....Say no to child labour.

thanks Damoskiy

MhizVee:
Ma'am dat baby should be under your care.Dnt allow the man to take away ur baby.He is nt even taking the child under his custody,he wana go drop her with his mama,ma'am dnt allow him

thanks girlfriend

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coming to comment later

damoskiy:
Don't give him the child...avoid child labour, avoid your child been abused....you don't know your child's fate when she leaves you.....
How do you plan on taking care of the child when you go for service??

I can't leave her with my parent because he might go and kidnap her so my sis ask me to bring her to Lagos for the main time till I'm done. thanks a lot for your advice, I appreciate

SkinnyDude:
'asaply' give my brother his daughter back. do you know what it takes to impregnant a woman?
mtcheew..

u well so? oh seems you are an Igbo guy. but sorry I won't give him back my princess

apparentlylaw:
As in go Spiritual ..Spiritual in the negative way sha ....nd tell d baba to cast a spell dat would make ya baby daddy to forget he has a child

haba I can't do that

passionate88:
Ok... Sorry I had to compare you to such... I've seen it happened before

people are different please. thanks anyway

apparentlylaw:
Court straight ooo or Do some African tinz dat would make him forget dat he has a child sef wif U ..#u understand dah kind tin

I don't understand please can you put me on?