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She didn't say she wanted me back. don't know what you mean

My girlfriend dumped me this past weekend rather suddenly. I thought things were going great. I saw her the two nights before and we were having a lot of fun together and sex. Then she dumps me cause she said she doesn't want to be tied down with a boyfriend. She prefers to be alone (yea right). So whatever I was hurt for a day and then started to move on.

A couple days later she starts contacting me in email and chat about random things. Just some of our inside jokes and what was going on in her life and mine. I thought this was weird cause she told me like 2 days before she said she didnt want to talk to me anymore. Guess it was overreaction. Anyway, I played it cool and played hard to get cause I still have deep feelings for her. She always iniatated everything in the conversation. Then the next night the same thing happened. We started emailing and chatting, all iniatated by her. She starts telling me she was sorry that it ended and feels horrible. She said she used to be a party girl but now just likes to be home alone. It souded like guilt or maybe closure, or maybe she was regretting the breakup. I told her it was alright blah blah blah. We kept chatting and joking around. And when she ends the conversation she said I enjoyed talking with you. You have always been able to make me smile and I still like that.


So what the hell, does she want me back? What is this?