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Maryjane001:
I m that way at times. The worst is that I don't really fancy arguments because even though I m right, I would still be struggling with words just to defend myself. Sometimes,when the ball is in my court to speak up for myself,I forget what to say. But memories will only return after the argument.
Hence most of the time,I always let go of an argument and might even apologize to u. People take me for granted most times tho....
I.e I am always happy when my cornermate is about to live,but she misunderstood it to be that I enjoy chasing her away. They don't understand me.
I hate parties,I prefer travelling alone on a vacation or to historical places
I don't like telling people my personal issues but that will say I m secretive and a pretender.
If I m nice to someone,they will say that I m pretending or I just want people to think that I m nice. But I just ignore all their comments and carry on with life. Tho it z hard ��

Gofwane:
the thing com resemble sledge hammer.

If that girl use that head knack you ehn, na mortuary you go wake up

emenik08:
Use your power of observation to your advantage. I for one don't know how to talk to girls and it becomes more difficult if she is a fellow introvert. But this is what I do. I observe her first. I believe introverts are instinctive thus by combining what my instinct tell me with what I deduced by observing you can know what topic to start with and how to stir the conversation.

Another thing is to be yourself. If you are not funny don't try to be a comedian. If you are philosophical you can state your stand. Try to understand how she thinks. Please as a novice don't jump into conversation else you may be tongue-tied. Plan it especially if it's going to be a long conversation and don't be afraid to end it once you sense that it is becoming boring.

I also try to stir the conversation towards my strength if I am in the talking mood else I ask questions that will make her do most of the talking.

All in all, I observe, plan and execute. First time may not be so smooth but with time, you gain more confidence and everything will become smoother. Lest I forget you can always start by talking about recent happenings but it also means that you have to be current. I normally jump from one topic to another till I land in one that both of us know and is comfortable with.


Try and hang out with some extroverts. You must not talk much or even contribute much but can be a great listener. Note that hanging out makes you to be more comfortable in the midst of people while observing how conversations are made.

Hope this helps.

Wigetsolar:
When I buy my Bimmer, I go join them.

I see a new meme already
(When lala sees a snake thread).

JacksonMS:
we are the same. My colleagues don't even know me.
I don't think I will get married because I cant talk to girls. Even when I try, I will just be sweating, my body will be shaking, my voice will go. It just too bad.

beetown:
Trash talk.
My top 10 beats.
1. Sarz- song of life
2. Shizzi- Dami duro.
3. Legendary beats- Expensive shit
4. Sarz- jaiye jaiye
5. Don Jazzy- Do like that (KB)
6. That Oluwa ni beat.
7. Oliver twist's beat.
8. Duro Soke Olamide's beat.
9. Legendary beatz baba nla(wizkid)
10. Tekno- pana

RevenGeMission:
Even tickets of last week with 12 games successful has been destroyed. Cashout was 202 naira out of 485k.


FST'S Predictions has sent us to village

RevenGeMission:
19 tickets on Bet9ja. 5 on sporty and non survived so far even after rebets


Alabi na you Biko

SeunWedsLinda:
On a side note, tissuepaper is loading village bus for his subscribers [color=][/color]

bluefilm:
Ha ha ha ha ha ha

O di egwu o!

Nwanne sorry o!

groundnutoil:
lmao guy I just shock from 2-0 which kind juju be this

groundnutoil:
lmao guy I just shock from 2-0 which kind juju be this

wiseone28:
Lille is mad..

darkelf:
No be only messi effect. Na mess effect.

Your messi has still not given you a champions league trophy in over 3 years while Madrid collects it back to back. Agbaya

Emekus92:
The best league in the world for a reason .....

Las Las non of them go win the trophy

Viccur:
search for "Live football tv" on playstore

EmekaBlue:
Inplay hammer

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