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akaahs:
Bro, she own u no explanations since she is married to u if she feel u hve no right to know d reason y she is behaving d way she does. Pls just fashy her ND give u r life a meaning. Life is too short to b wording on some who doesn't care about u.

Thank you akaahs

That I have already done, am no more worried about her after all the advice I got here yesterday.

No man can cause whom the Lord hhas bless

fineboynl:
the truth is that she is already seeing someone more promising she think is more better than you. the person might even already promise to marry her. so she cannot get along with you anymore while still in contact with the other person. maybe your future is not certain to her at the moment. most girls want good life. but the sad part is by the time that love that is shaking her failed by than she will remember you.

Thank you fineboynl

You are very on point but that will happen only at her own detriment cos I will also end up using n then dump her

desquad:
I hate grown men behaving like pussies. Na woman dey give his one sleepless night

Thank you desquad

But I think you are entitled to your own opinion

THE POWER OF *I AM SORRY.*

*I am sorry,* a short but mighty sentence!

If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.*

Single sorry can stop a war, n prevents millions of men, women including children from dying!

Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of husbands in saying same to their wives.

Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say *I am sorry.* Each says or asks, why should I be the first to say *I am sorry?* He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, *a whole me!*

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the part of the world where saying *I am sorry* is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed.

Welcome to the part of the world where people refer to a person who says *I am sorry* in a midst of a rift as a *weaker sex*: one who is not man enough; one who is foolish.

Welcome to Africa where saying *I am sorry* is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass through a needle hole.

All of us are victims of this discussion. We have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable sentence *I am sorry.* It simply cost only a breath of speech.

Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of *I am sorry.*

Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same and life goes on fine.

Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate a habit of saying *I am sorry.* It is difficult but readily affordable.

Learn how to say *I AM SORRY* even if you are right.

If this message offends you in one way or the other, *I am sorry*
My apologies.
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I really want to thank you guys for all your advice cos am really finding my feet again, am forever grateful n thankful. God bless you all

fineboynl:
the reason i stop advising people here is that all the advice are never been used. they will still do whats on their mind. it's more like wasting time. so i will pass.

Thank you fineboynl

What you said is real fact but is not everyone that doesn't harken to advise, I actually stopped chatting her and deleted all my WhatsApp chats with her last night and I slept really well n sound

Peteragan:
Bros just flaut with a girl more beautiful than her and make sure she sees u with her.her brain go factory reset.
And don't give her attention again I promise u she will come back...u can thank me later

Thank you bro

MissCokie:
Walk with the wind, and you shall never lack. That has always bin my life principles and guidance.

Thank you Misscokie

IamLEGEND1:
bitch_done acquired a taste for aboki_package.
And like dem wise men said: once you go aboki, you never go back.

Thank you iamlegend1

You are really a funny dude

Queenbeee:
I guess you're one of those sensitive dudes, just forget her and move on with your life. She might not tell you anything, she might just keep stringing you, keeping you as her fall back plan. Just focus on your work and forget any girl that's not ready to take you serious.

Thank you Queenbee

Am really grateful

mimopel:
Dude pls move on.......get a serious gal...shes not into u anymore...
Let her go. Stop the calls, text, etc just leave her. If u see her along the street or she come visiting be platonic...be casual just relate with her on a friendly basic move on. U need a gal who loves u in return

Thank you mimopel

Will do that am really grateful

Queenbeee:
One nysc dude is shinning her conga there, just forget about her.

Thank you Queenbee
My only worry is for her to tell me what's really going on whether we are still together or not but she keep avoiding this particular question

Headlesschicken:
sorry bro,d chick z gone cos 1soldier done go shine her shoe for camp wiv reckless abandon n now she don't want u no more.... Nigga just move d phuck on...

Thank you headlesschicken, but that's the lest of my worries cos I have not had sex with her but my problemfor to tell me what's really going on between us. Whether we are still together or not

eezeribe:
The very moment she went for NYSC... your status changed from Boyfriend to Ex-boyfriend.
I will advise you to quietly move on with your life,and never you give your heart to any daughter of Eve.

Thank you but I am really confused n just want to know what went wrong between us n nothing more

ojun50:
Oga move ahead is almost a year nd stop wasting time. Get another serious girl

Thank you ojun50, but is not up to a year just between July n this present August

kimbraa:
She's silently drifting away. Give her space, stop doing all you've been doing like the attention you give, and watch if she comes back. Meanwhile, keep an open mind to accept the worse that could happen.

Thank you kimbraa, am really trying my best to adjust to the new developments but my problem is, I have been asking her what the problem is but she keeps me in the dark n that is where my worry is

Hello nairalanders,

Please permit me not to mention names.

I met this girl about a year n 4 months ago and we became friends and about four months ago we started going outand we were very good n everything was going well for us both till last month when she went for NYSC camping in one of the northern state.

During the first week, we were talking very well on phone mostly at night but after a week she stopped calling me again bit I was still calling her but I noticed she no longer call me by my pet name instead she started calling me my real n most at times she will just pick the call n say hello, so I stopped calling her again till the day she passed out from the camp and she was excited to speak with me on phone n I asked her if she was coming back home, she said no that she will stay in her Aunty's place this was on Thursday, on Saturday morning i saw her cos my shop is very close to her dad's shop I did as if I never saw but she later came to my shop n we greeted.

Now my problem is that since she came back she has not called me for one day only on Tuesday when I told her that day was my project defense, she wished me success n never called again n that same evening I called her n asked her if the is any problem between or if I have done something wrong to hurt her feelings in any way cos I have noticed things are falling apart between us but she said nothing is wrong between us and she apologized to me.

Now she doesn't even want to see me or go out with or even engage in any discussion with, please I really need your advice on this issue cos many things are really running through my mind n I have been so tensed still she came back.

Thanks in anticipation