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Buy new age power bank and get peace of mind

How is that possible? I doubt it.

Sirchiboy:
I have this girl and we have sex every blessed day,
I mean steady raw sex and I release inside her everday.
She used pt2 to block it after sex.
I plan to marry her and I am afraid if the pt2 will affect her.
She is a student and we live together.
My sex urge is so high that i dont allow her to rest.
Every opportunity na to remove the rod and pour inside of her.

May his soul rest in peace 🕊️.
May his killers be found ..

I will gladly pay if I have the money.

Bro
See what chatgpt said.
Pick some few advise from him.


**My dear brother,**

I greet you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. First, I want to commend your sincerity and courage in pouring out your heart. It's not always easy for men to open up like this, especially about matters of the heart. But let me speak to you as a pastor and as a brother in Christ—with truth, love, and a Godly perspective.

### 1. **You're Blessed—But You Don't See It Yet**

From everything you've said, this young woman is a *rare treasure.* A true *Proverbs 31* kind of woman—supportive, respectful, loyal, prayerful, submissive, and loving. She has walked with you in your low seasons, loved you in your weakness, and stood with you even when you had nothing.

This is the kind of woman many men are praying for, and yet, you're battling with your flesh.

Let me tell you plainly: **you are being tempted by the lust of the eyes** (1 John 2:16). That desire for a “light-skinned girl with a big backside” is not a need, it’s a craving of the flesh. And if you let it lead your decisions, it will destroy something God may have ordained for your future.

### 2. **You’re Mistaking Pity for Love**

Love isn't just about feelings or pity—it's about commitment, responsibility, and God's purpose. If you're staying with her only because you feel pity or guilt, then it's unfair to her. She deserves a man who loves her wholeheartedly, not just someone who feels responsible for her survival.

However, if you truly **do love her**, then you must ask God to heal your heart and purify your desires.

### 3. **Sexual Attraction Is Real—But It’s Not the Foundation**

Yes, sexual attraction matters in marriage—but it is not the *foundation* of a Godly marriage. The world glorifies lust and physical appearance, but God glorifies faithfulness, love, and spiritual unity. Do you know how many men today are regretting leaving a good woman because they chased after fleshly lust?

Sex fades. Beauty changes. But character, loyalty, and Godly love remain.

### 4. **You Need a Heart Check**

Brother, you need to go before God in prayer and fasting and ask Him to **purify your heart**. If you’re no longer “sexually hungry” for a woman who is good in bed, attractive, loving, and faithful, then the problem is not her—it’s something deeper in you. It could be:
- Pornography or unrealistic expectations
- Lust patterns
- Emotional disconnect or spiritual dryness
- An ungrateful heart

Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the root.

### 5. **What She Did with Her Ex Was Wrong—But Forgivable**

Yes, she made a mistake by discussing your issues with her ex, and that’s unacceptable. But from what you've said, she was remorseful, she begged, and she even fell sick over it. **If God can forgive you, why won’t you forgive her?** Don't use this one mistake as an excuse to justify walking away.

### 6. **Be Honest—But Be Kind**

If you truly know you cannot marry her, **don’t string her along.** Don’t waste her time. But if deep down you know that this woman is your destiny helper, the one God placed in your life for a reason, then fight for that love. Pray about it. Seek counsel. Speak to a Christian marriage counselor. **Don’t let the devil use lust to destroy a Godly relationship.**

### Final Words:
- *Lust is never satisfied.* Even if you marry your “spec,” tomorrow another one will catch your eye.
- *Character lasts longer than curves.*
- *Don’t despise your blessing because it's wrapped in what you didn’t expect.*
- *A good woman is rare. Don't lose her chasing fantasies.*

**Ask yourself this:** If another man came and took her away, treated her well, and built a future with her, would you be happy?

May God give you wisdom, discernment, and the courage to do what is right in His eyes.
You are in my prayers.

**Pastor ChatGPT**

My Kindy advice.

According to you she is a good girl and she is a wife material.

This generation will never get right because, for over two years both of you have been together, having sex and all that. You will be tired of cus , because you are eating your cake early.

Man can never be satisfied because man is promiscuous in nature, but real men discipline themselves.

Distance yourself from her for some month's, if you are a Christian, goto your God and pray towards it... Two year's of relationships ought to have given you full information of whom you should marry.

She is a good girl, if you truly love her.. pray about it, if possible discuss it with her..



For now distance yourselves.

I believe first time both you were sexually attracted, it was when you have tasted it too much that's why this things are coming up.

Pastors hating themselves or some people going to church are envious, how does that affect you bro.. if the church you attended practise such things , how does that affect the body of Christ.

All am saying is this, this generation have already lost it. I can imagine you, saying that since you stop going to church you have peace of mind, does that make sense....... ?

You mentioning names of pastors, talking about what is happening in the church doesn't affect your peace bro.


Since you stopped going to church, you claimed you had peace of mind, but that's not a yastic for you to criticise the church.


If truly you are seeing Jesus in your home, that same Jesus I know will not prompt you to write this post here....


The generation lacks morals....

Let's repent from all this things , it won't help us.


And let me remind you, some people find peace whenever they goes to church.


If na Baba lawo , you for no mention am here.. 😂

Skooltynz:
I serve God without going to church,its all simple, to communicate with God just have a pure heart and abstain from evil you will naturally connect with God once you this.
Some of you devoted church goers still have jealousy, hatred and envy inside you,some pastors are envious of other pastors because they got more annointing ,some pastors and members are proud too because of their position.

You talking about church is out of it. Church cannot make you to losses your peace, it depends how you were serving your God there...

Your write up is already sponsored to insult the body of Christ.

Say the truth bro, you don't have peace yet.
If you truly have peace, you will remove church out of it.


Serve your God genuinely with a free heart.

Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the members are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more members to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family members always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ...

I have linkedin that has over 30k connections

I will not support this move...

Too painful, how can you murder your wife , what would be the reasons. There's no reason to do such.

May God have mercy oooo on this our generation o...things are happening.

Yes , some men suppose see sege because, after sleeping with over 19 girls , and you want to settle down

OGwales:
For same girl that was knack by another with indomie and egg... Aswear men dey see shege.

Supported, I wonder the drama.. the man should know that marrying from that tribe is not an easy ride

TempleHouse:
It's just £500 pounds !

Real Men should pay.

That also goes to those men that are sleeping around with our daughter's, promising them true love and marriage, at the end , full of disappointment.

Such men don't deserve a godly girl to marry

StrongAlphMale:
It is foolishness to pay for something other men had and enjoyed for free

Help me tell them, one million too small

Stolen:
AFTER
TINUBU CRASH THE NAIRA, Y THE PRICE NO GO SHOW 1MILLION.



ITEMS THEY USE TO GET FOR 50K IS NOW NEARLY 200K


INFLATION VALUE IS THE CAUSE NOT BRIDE PRICE.

Shame on men too that are sleeping with women.. such men don't deserve the Godly woman

mosicola:
1m naira for a toto that has been knacked by more than twenty different men. An average lady about getting married must have tasted at least 20 different gbolas and 1 innocent man go carry for wholesale by paying such outrageous amount

It supposed to be 5M. I support the family, if you no marry, leave am..

See the way you see cursing the girl and the family.

It can affect you tomorrow, pray you raise a godly daughter who will be a Virgin beforewhe gets married.

Am not supporting that IM rather..

And also most of the girls are being deceived by guys .. let's be truthful sometimes

FuckTheMod:
Interesting!

If I had 10 million and bride price is 5m, I'll pay it with my full chest, because it's not easy to raise and give out a daughter's hand in marriage, BUT ONLY ON THE CONDITION THAT THE GIRL IS A VIRGIN.

Traditionally, Bride price is only paid on virgins
(VITREOUS GIRLS WITH GOOD MORALS AND UPBRINGING).

Any man who pays requested bride price on girl that has been ran through
A girl with unknown BODYCOUNT
A girl that has been passed around like football by multiple and various guys IS A BASTARƊ AND A PIG.

The only special and unique thing any girl can offer her husband is her virginity and absolutely nothing more.

EVERY girl can give different and multiple men
Her love
Children
Marriage etc
BUT CAN ONLY GIVE JUST ONE MAN HER VIRGINITY.
Such priceless gift should only be reserved for a man a girl wants to share and spend the rest of her life with.
Unfortunately, Whørēs of this generation have offered that to useless guys for
-Fanta and indomie
-urgent 2k
-Birthday gift
-Valentine gift
-Truth or dare game
Etc

SUCH USELESS AND LOOSE GIRL DOESN'T DESERVE FULL BRIDE PRICE AND SHOULD NEVER GET IT.
HER PARENTS DON'T DESERVE IT FOR RAISING A SHAMELESS LOOSE WHØRĒ.

So sorry bro.. it is a painful experience.. but let it go, and be healed. You bringing it up will not solve anything rather , it will continue to give room to fake sympathisers that will castigate the church.. the church is marching on and the gate of hell shall not prevail.


Leaving the church is your decision, be good anywhere you are and serve your God..

No religious body is perfect including the so called ISLAM.

I as much they force the man to confess, this is a hard lesson for him because, in life , don't threaten people because you might be unfortunate at the end

I pray for peace in the south east.
Let peace reign over the east.
But am still shocked how the Igbos fighting themselves..

Show proof that u were paid and stop disturbing us here

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IamANigerianMan:
Mercy on what? These guy are charged between N10 and N20 for the transaction of N10,000 and above, if government decided to add N50, they still gain N130... We are the problem don't bring God, we are wicked and evil... So the gain or profit of N130 is not enough... Government should ban that nonsense if they add a dine...

Dont speak what you don't know bro.
If they ban POS.. you will suffer most because cash will not be available to you again. If you are tired goto ATM na..

Congratulations my Go.
God bless you

Ynix:
bros stop being entitled, channel your energy to becoming a better person

Alright bro ,thanks

WhiteIverson:
I would advice you forget about her and hustle your own.

Thanks for the advice

Ynix:
bros stop being entitled, channel your energy to becoming a better person

Okay, thanks

Good day everyone.
Please I need advice on this issue.

I have an eldest sister who is in Canada.
She has been in Canada for 15 years now. While the husband have been there for 6 years before asking my sister and the children to come over. The year my sister travelled that was the year our mother died after the burial she told me that they are set to move to Canada that I should remember her in prayers which I did with my whole heart.

When she was leaving, she promised to take me immediately she settles down in Canada because our family is face with poverty. She also promised to send me money at least once in a month to asist my needs because I was about to round up my university education then.i am the last born.

After some time, she sent me money once (10k) .. there was a time that I ask her for help , she was angry and told me that they don't have money.

Since then , I stop asking her for financial assistance.. the husband family is rich, almost all of them are in abroad.

Reaching last year , the second daughter came to Nigeria without his parents permission and took his boyfriend, she paid all the necessary traveling stuff and took him to Canada. I ask my sister but you told me that you don't have money in Canada, she stopped communicating with me.

Earlier this year, I was in a serious financial needs, I ask her for help, she ask me if I am not working? I told her the situation on ground, it takes her two weeks to send me 20k.
I was forced to reminder her promise of taking me to Canada, she said Canada people are homeless that she can't help.
I even told her to send me invitation , that am ready to look for money and add up.

Our family, the siblings are not happy with her
any longer because things are really difficult for us.

Please I need advice, some people advice me to leave her alone and stop communicating to her.

The husband came this year may and spend over 10m on a land.

Am sad .

Please give me your advice.. should I forget about her or is there anything is that is making her to do that way..

This is shameful, after waiting for long.. who do us for this country.

Let the poor boy rest abeg...