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Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 10:51am On Jul 26, 2010

i hv sent it

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 9:32am On Jul 26, 2010

i sent u a request on yahoo messenger it is still pendn, its mreasy2006@yahoo.com (all one word right?)

Romance › Re: N9ja Triangle by 1212: 3:49am On Jul 26, 2010

stay in the house don't leave no matter how much he begs you that its only to sort things out with the other girl. Be smart! and its about time you force him to choose

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 7:31am On Jul 25, 2010

deoyel25:
I am single but I wont say my age here. Can I have your email?

send me ur e-mail instead i cnt put mine on here,

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 10:47pm On Jul 18, 2010

@ deoyel25 how old are you? and are you single?

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 9:00pm On Jul 18, 2010

so you want to hook up simply because i'm single, strange

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:48pm On Jul 18, 2010

deoyel25:
I mean it.

based on what? my pathetic story?

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:34pm On Jul 18, 2010

deoyel25:

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:27pm On Jul 18, 2010

Lady Dee:
Ehhhn, so what do you really want then?

Its like your begging for something to be there when there is absolutly nothing!
This is how homewreckers start!

Comot eye from dat place and stop the guy from seeing you

What is the need in him visiting you by the way?
Didnt you know the saying
old fire wood catch fire faster

Im sure he knows it, hence, the unnecessary visits,

Use your head, because he is definetly using your own!

the situation is this: we live like i said very very close to eachother so under normal circumstance we should be bumping to eachother everyday but we don't cos our timings for going out are different and i choose not to purposely bump into him. I allowed him into my house those times because i didnt see it as anything suspicious i genuinely thought he was trying to be friendly and like he said he was forced to come and visit me cos he was wondering why he doesnt see me at all since we live so close. I have learnt my lesson since the sex episode so i will try to avoid him coming in my house and if at all he comes in i will be extra careful next time

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:11pm On Jul 18, 2010

Lady Dee:
Sounds like a Home wrecker in the making,

i will hate to think i am. I'm not even trying to start anything with him cos 7 yrs is a longtime and we have both changed i just wanted to see if theres any point in resolving the past

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:08pm On Jul 18, 2010

jay bee:
looks like u r finding every available reason in d book to get back with dis dude.
Your chances are close to zero and one thing u ought to be doing is asking yourself if he is worth the stress/risk.

you can always enjoy the NSA sex if that's what rocks your boat but erase the fact that he'd leave something definite for an unknown. Even if by any chance gets back with u, what guarantees you he is not gonna leave u for someone else in the future.

This is as clear as bread and butter. Think with your head babe

you are right, thats why i came on here to get advise

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 8:02pm On Jul 18, 2010

i think the issue is deeper than just sex (based on my instinct)

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 7:53pm On Jul 18, 2010

deoyel25:
Can we hook up?

Romance › Re: Breakup Court - What's the Issue with your partner? by 1212: 7:11pm On Jul 18, 2010

i think the negative feeling is more from his side because i think he is mad at me and himself for loving me. When we were together he use to be paranoid that i would break his heart and he begged me not to. So when we broke up he was obviously heartbroken and i don't think he has forgiven me.

The visits are not arranged just as a result of the fact that we live very close to eachother although i now make myself scarce. The meeting at a public place was what i was thinking about i just wasn't sure if it was a good idea or not but now that you said its an option perhaps i will consider that. I don't know how to go about it though should i call him? i could text or facebook him too but not sure how much access his girl has to them and i don't want her getting the wrong idea

Romance › Re: Breakup Court - What's the Issue with your partner? by 1212: 6:50pm On Jul 18, 2010

i guess nobody likes to have enemies for unjustified reasons thats why i wanted to iron things out with him. I guess i made a big mistake sleeping with him i don't even want to get back with him i was just thinking that it would be nice if we could both be over the past and have positive feelings towards one another rather than the negativity

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 6:34pm On Jul 18, 2010

well at that time i was fighting with my bf and now i am single again. Thanx for the advise guys

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 6:26pm On Jul 18, 2010

well it was silly of me to sleep with him but i didnt have a choice since it was inevitable (he was the one visiting me not vice versa). Guess you don't understand

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 6:12pm On Jul 18, 2010

i have moved on just wondering if i should still sit and talk to him cos it hurts more knowing that all these years he still doesn't believe me and might actually hate me. I was expecting by now he should have more respect for me and wish me well as i do for him

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 6:08pm On Jul 18, 2010

well they are not technically married but refer to eachother as husband n wife for obvious reasons

Romance › Re: First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 6:05pm On Jul 18, 2010

what do you mean the meaning of the sex? it was just something that happened while we were together i really didnt want it but we had been kissing and the rest and it just got out of control. I got mad at him over it and i think he got pissed off with me for getting mad at him. I was just trying to avoid a situation where an affair developed.
The problem is we both never stopped loving eachother but we have a moral responsibility to his wife and kid. His wife seems lovely and dedicated too by the way.

Romance › First Love Dilemma by 1212(op): 5:57pm On Jul 18, 2010

my first love and i broke up about 7 years ago (we were young and broke up over something that we shouldn't have) soon afterwards he had a child with his new girlfriend and they have been living together ever since.

We hardly saw eachother or spoke since the break up but about 7 months ago we had sex. He had visited me about two times before this and nothing happened just general chit chat and those times i just entertained him out of politeness.

I know he still loves me cos i was his first love and he seems dedicated to his family (i wouldn't say he is necessarily the cheating type just that he had intense love for me back then).

I wouldn't want to break up their unit for our selfish reasons but i think the two of us have unresolved issues. I think he is still mad at me for breaking his heart back then and i am still mad at him for holding such a grudge against me and not believing my innocence.

We live pretty close to eachother so i was wondering if its best we ironed out the issue once and for all or should i just leave things as it? I am very hurt though thinking about the situation.

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