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Friend zone or whatever nonsense it's called is just overrated. Friendship can never be totally balanced at all times, someone must be willing to offer more in certain circumstances. So because a female friend refuses to sleep with you(date you), she has friend zoned you...are your legs chained?! |
Begonia: 1 like for youWell said! |
Toyocee: i rep nov 21 |
It's still raining here. |
harrysterol: n u tink is green lignt not knowing it is red lighthahahaha well said bro. |
lomy: Since he likes me, he automatically expects me to like him too. I kept trying to be nice to him and my niceness made him think we are dating.. until I told him we are not.Oh I understand, that was why I earlier stated it's crucial the 'boundaries' are defined and accepted from the beginning because sometimes we send conflicting signals or we only see(feel) what we choose to see(feel). |
lomy: Past experience is my reason. And the so called guy said all sorts of things and later deleted me from his bbm contact list, his reason being that he likes me and I don't like him.LoL... must you like him? should he be hurt because he feels you don't like him? do we expect to be liked by every human that comes our way? were your demands/desires different? His action shouldn't stop you from doing what you feel is right for you. You come first! |
lomy: Clearly said.. and when you list out your rules for this new friend, he terms you rude and unfriendly..Yeah it's quite understandable that such might rob off as being rude but if your intentions are genuine you can't be too bothered about what he/she thinks. Before you are pressed to read out rules to a new friend, something must have necessitated it. Something must have created the need; either your perception of the person or past experience. The two aformentioned reasons can't be faulted. |
lomy: I understand. But must I always define every friendship/relationship? Must I always tell every guy that "hey I don't want to date you, let's be friends". Guys should be wise enough to know when a babe wants a relationship and when she just wants a friend.I strongly believe individuals(male&female) have the 'right(freedom)' to make different demands in a relationship/friendship, it is left to the other party to respond. People are in relationships/friendships for various reasons and they make certain investments to achieve such targets. You certainly don't have to read out a list of rules to every new friend; but like you hinted, what if that new friend ain't wise enough? |
lomy: I hear that each time but haven't seen or witnessed any.They truly exist but boundaries must be clearly defined and accepted from the onset. Ofcourse it doesn't seem as easy as it sounds( tell me what's easy); but just like in every sphere of life discipline must be embraced. |
lomy: Can't a lady and a guy be friends with no strings attached?Sure it's very obtainable. |
sounds pretty interesting.... |
I can't find the right words to describe this delivery. So subtle yet so intriguing. Thank you April..thank you Dew |
I believe this is fair enough....let's run!!! |
Lovely poem dear. |
onyi4edu: Did I come late? ....Or am I not includedWelcome on board dear...you're very much included; infact you can have the front seat. |
glitest: Mctewwwwwwetin dey worry diz one? |
JeffreyJamez: Abeg click some profile pics for this threadLoL...bro plz don't shatter anyone's confidence abeg.. #badtguy |
nma24: everyone is beautiful... you Just have to believe it |
jay bee: How many times are we going to address this redundant issue for crying out loud |

