₦airaland Forum

Amelian:
Lefulefu ooooo

We don't like showing off our looks oo
Cos toasters Don too much oo
Abeg o

Lol, bikooo... why u lying, is that how u use to do?

TIDDOLL:
Niqqas b commenting,mentioning monikers,To Wat end?? ......

Nigga, u and i knw watsup.. alast, nothing go commout........their pictures we nevr see

Sandydayziz:
Since primary school, M sure

lol.... its an observation and personal opinion

Aniker:
Seriously

heh, yeh?

I've done a little research on topics that makes front page, scrutinizing them, i realized that most of the ladies are either not good looking or are not having their display picture with their face. Trust me and begin to check out, their display pictures, except they will prove me wrong and upload their pictures here then the whole of nairaland can be the judge! i would have mentioned names oo, but its not for me to judge

Latty88:
I dont know what to say

lol.. swity, pls say something

kcmichael:
This Governor is so foolish,if u don't fund them,mlitants and cultists will increase,investors will run away,ur igr will diminish,the state will be insecure,arm robbery will increase,kidnapping will increase,.thank God APC put up a good fight during the rerun,2019 wike will loose woefully,mark my word

shut up oiredy pls? talking like ua brainwashed

fyneguy:
Foolish Governor

Elections are over. You won't spend on security of lives of your people again because of transient power play and political competition.

There was a State!

Who is this one ? Pls wash ur thought, as ure spilling trash

1bkaye:
Haha that's very sweet, thank you

You re welcome preety

DamiBourne1:
U are d only person ve seen wit brain in dis forum.

Ua obviously brainless too... if u both dont have wisdom go and buy.

1bkaye:
Homosexuality will never be generally accepted in Nigeria but I doubt homosexuals care for people to 'agree' with it as much as they care for basic equal rights

Just vey few pple as preety as u are here in nairaland, plus u got brains too

KINGOFJAPAN:
Break them na.

Lol...

KINGOFJAPAN:
Double standards. You despise gays but lesbians are ok. Oga circumcise your thoughts.

I dont like either!! God forbid.. am just saying as a guy i cannot comprehend! for ladies u see them hug themselves compassionately, even peck amongst other silly things every day... If ua gay, am sorry for u, infact dont quote me again leemme not breaak yhur teeth

I hate gays as much as much as hatred itself! disgusting piece of garbage. Not that the ladies own is fair, since dey have no major form of intercourse, aside fingering and all dat, but for a man gunning after a fellow's ass is demonic, stupid, senseless and infact deserves to be a capital offense,leading to life imprisonment! when a dog bites a man its no news, but when a man bites a dog its becomes headline! Wasted fellas, infact every one engaged in it is an iddioot, even those who wed dem...Nonsese!!!

Fabulocity:
Don't mind Nigerians, fücking hypocrites. And most of them that insult and attack gay people the most are down low gay. Fact!

who is this gay man? posing as a lady, just repent oiredy, cos its as dirty as shit!

see her ugly face...uselessness!

Mimido2:
he is no longer on nairaland
he has deactivated his account

Its you, i want

Jezz! i hate snakes like nothing else!

Rone16:
Throughout mehn except when I'm on my period..It sucks because I use panty liners all the time..

lemme be ur frd

me

Funke seriously looked like a bamboo in a cloth... she should thank God for money else hmm..who knows how she would have been without riches... Oge OkOye any day/time...

yakbauer:
I'm sorry OP I beg to differ with ur opinions.
To start with It's easy to give guidelines like these if you're either a single guy or a lady (any female; single, married, widow, divorcee, old, young).
Just have it in mind that no 2 marriages are ever the same, coz human beings differ even identical twins have different characters, so there's no single comprehensive formula, esp when it comes to dealing with women.
An aggrieved husband just needs to find the most effective way to "communicate" his grievances.
For some women it's not to eat their food, for some not talk, for some it's to call her and sit her down and tell her, in some extreme cases it's to hit her( for the record I'm not in support of that) and I know some ladies who "like getting physical" during confrontations.
This "communication" as a solution should be explained a bit more.
If you've observed my opinions are based strictly on marriages coz one thing I know for sure is that dating, being engaged, cohabiting does not and will never translate to marriage.
#JustMyView

okay...ur view noted

1) Rejecting food when there's an issue: Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you dey vex. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on.

2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3) Issuing threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4) Reporting your wife to friends and family: When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.

5) Keeping malice: is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6) Not helping with house chores: I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home. However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal.

Lastly, everyman should have a church/mosque where his family is watered and raised spiritually. This makes you accountable, it's immaturity and dangerous to be a sheep without a shepherd. As you learn and grow in the right fold, you'll be able to take the lead as the head of the home

Rone16:
Throughout mehn except when I'm on my period..It sucks because I use panty liners all the time..

You are too damn sincere!!! i seriously like you

Masikay:
We're not begging. Is ask we ask. No be beg.

lmao ...When he asks u for "the thing" will u give him asap?

haha...ladies very true una own too much, despite all d money wey we dey give una just like Oliver Twist u must just surely find a wawy to ask for more

prettythicksme:
Are you advicing us to wear just one pant for five days or wat?U must b very mad!

isnt it obvious ua jealous?

Rone16:
I feel so sad..I want this

urs is for how long?

Nincopop

kharyode:
. Ogbeni WO bi... I did not do it for any front page.. And if u call me ram what as it change... ??

dont mind me, was kidding.....u no get wahala my guy... cheers

Uganda dey learn for where Nigerian Ladies dey....