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[color=#550077]^^^Lol r u serious?omdzzz [/color]

esteduca:
I found she did unclothed pictures for a photographer without tell it to me.
I saw one of the pictures and she was with a unclothed man. No p.o.rno but still unclothed.
I asked for explications (which actually I was expecting to accept because she is also a fashion model from time to time) and she dump me without any discussion.
I called her and sent her sms (I am in Italy she is in Africa) and she told me to stop or she could call the police to avoid me to come to her country again. Mature people discuss.

[color=#550077]*Edited

Well that's the nature of her job, you should have discussed this earliar with her.[/color]

[color=#550077]^^^How do you know what i like grandson?same 2 you.[/color]

esteduca:
Dunno in Nigeria but in Italy they are strongly discouraged from the gyno doctors.
The risk of trouble for the fetus and for the mother is very high.

However the big advantage to marry a 35/40 yo woman is that she is financially independent and knows very well what she wants.

[color=#550077]Yes i am aware of the health risks. It happens all over the world.

Well i think it's an advantage for her more than you, she won't ave to depend on your a&%! she can stand her own ground & do whatever she wants!& i don't believe you need to be 35/40 before you know what you want or become financially independent.[/color]

esteduca:
Yes. She was introduced to me by a friend of her mother, who is my business partner.
She was too pretty and too gentle to do not fall in love. Everything was good in the beginning and I was really thinking to marry her but after a while I have discovered many things about her. I started to be too jealous and I lost confidence, and she dump me.

[color=#550077]Oushhh! the things you found out?shareable?[/color]

esteduca:
After 40 a woman will not have childrens and this is a big no for me.
After 35 they may have childrens from previous marriage and they rarely want another one with the new husband.
So I guess from 25 to 35 is good. With many expections of course!

[color=#550077]Who told you??they do & even older.[/color]

[color=#550077]I like em. [/color]

[color=#550077]Feeling my superstar [/color]

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=653654.msg8200704#msg8200704 date=1303737594]Yes I did. I said the following/quote][color=#550077]Umm thought u were talking bout ur dad, my bad lol[/color]

ismaeel86:
im cool with it, i said earlier that mutual understanding is what really matters. when that is there, then everything go segemenge and blende blende.

[color=#550077]Hmm ok if ya say so.[/color]

[color=#550077]Ice Prince - Superstar [/color]

[color=#550077]Any age you are ready, but i suggest you have ur own before you consider thinking of marriage unless you want to be a lifetime house-wife [/color]

esteduca:
40yo me, 22yo her.

[color=#550077]C'mon, y do that 2 urself?[/color]

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=653654.msg8200661#msg8200661 date=1303737203]I told u this earlier na. Its 1 year. [/quote][color=#550077]R u sure u told me?u know u talk 2 a lot of peeps . . .ok well dat's tiny sha [/color]

[quote author=ismaeel86 link=topic=653654.msg8200563#msg8200563 date=1303736088][/quote][color=#550077]I mean when it actually happens, let see if you will still feel the same way, cause most times we tend to say stuff without experiencing it, and when we r actually in the situation it's way different![/color]

[color=#550077]^^^Hmmm[/color]

[color=#550077]Hmm ok girl. . .wat's the age gap with ur present hubby?(if i may ask) [/color]

r231:
maybe he doesn't know how to cook

[color=#550077]Umm to bad then.[/color]

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=653947.msg8200534#msg8200534 date=1303735720]If someone isnt comfortable with other ethnicities besides his own, then why is he dating outside his tribe in the first place?

I dont get some relationships of nowadays where the man tries to mold the woman or is it the woman trying to mold herself into an exact replica of somebody's culture simply because she wants to please the man.

Maybe i'm missing something or am old fashioned.[/quote][color=#550077]I totally agree sista, there really should be some balance but they love to brainwash themselves with tradition, wife values & 'love' shiorrr[/color]

[color=#550077]@OP [/color]

[color=#550077]^^^_{What state are you from}?


@OP What is wrong with his hands?can't he teach me?nonensical!

Well it depends. . .[/color]

[color=#550077]It depends [/color]

deteetop:
Age has notin to do wit luv,fatai rollg dollars is 86yrs old and he just had 2mth old baby frm his 32yrs old wife,dats just one example,wat of ojukwu and bianca

[color=#550077]Well I think that's a bit to vastttt 4 me liking. [/color]

Zahnda:
Yeah, I'd do it. Actually until now, I didn't know that a 10yr age gap was a considerable gap at all. Younger, I wouldn't do though as I find that even with males my age I sometimes have to activate my juvenile just to relate.

[color=#550077]I know sad right?but I think you should be able to act like yourself sha.[/color]

ogugua88:
Yes. No be wetin Fashola talk? "It's not the age of the person but the age of their ideas". That's always been my philosophy. I've met guys younger than me that were more mature than me. I've met men way older than me but were childish in my opinion. I could definitely be with someone 10+ years older than me, as long as we connected mentally, emotionally, and intellectually. People won't like it but I'm not living for anyone besides myself. If I'm happy, then we're good to go.

[color=#550077] good for you gal, go for what YOU want![/color]