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[color=#550077]^^I don't blame you, it's your vargin prick talking it's not You

Feeling like KC FESH,  . SHUORRR [/color]

[color=#550077]Maybe u swing the other way, cuz i don't see how u can acknowledge a guys post over a females isorait 2 yu 2, abeg shift and take ya self go, you might aswell stick a paper to your head reading "I am not into women, plse don't near me" PLSEEE SHARRaP AND GO SIT DOWN.[/color]

[color=#550077]#players & braggers club


*allergic*[/color]

[color=#550077]That's y u need to shine ya eye, well good 4 you.[/color]

[color=#550077]Hmm i see[/color]

ogugua88:
No story line at all. My brother snapped me randomly while we were at the beach. I just happened to be looking at the ocean lol.

[color=#550077]Dats so sweet, thought it was posed. . .good photographer

I would ave soo watched that movie(if it was the cover 4 1) [/color]

steeze:
Okay my story might be a little long. I'm in my early twenties and I've only been in one r/ship. Just one. And people find it hard to believe because of the way I live. People call me a player but I am not. I'm only committment phobic. I broke up my last and only relationship because she wasn't giving me any space. I'm not sure I even loved her. This was a girl who dumped her bf to be with me. After that I just decided that it is better to just be friends with women and if benefits come along, I'll take it.

However it seems no one understands the meaning of true friendship. I find that every girl I hang out with starts to want more. Then comes the goo-goo and questions like "why didn't you call me yesterday?" "Who was that girl I saw you with" At times like that I just develop cold feet and take off. She gets hurt and somehow she is heartbroken. The vicious cycle starts all over again even though we were never in a relationship. All my guys are in relationships but I'm the only one who is single and really not interested.

Is something wrong with me? I sometimes worry that this might affect me sometime in the future.

[color=#550077]You are naturally ok my friend!!, y'know not all men must think with their second head, but it's a normal thing na it's just that society may frown on you being a guy, well those with little brain sha, because as a guy ur meant to be doing this and that o well ur different and respect urself so carry on jare, just try to pick ur friends more carefully. [/color]

[color=#550077]Well who are we refering to? everybody get dem own category.[/color]

[color=#550077]Come back again when you get married huh! [/color]

rhymz:
Why dont u slip into sth more comfortable like a coma which i was in!!!
What a bore*****yawns****

[color=#550077]Poor boy, so that coma really messed you up didn't it?don't worry you will get well soon. [/color]

mekaboy:

THIS IS ONE OF THE ADVANTAGES OF QUARREL, PREPARES YOU FOR MARRIED LIFE AND HELP YOU TO HAVE RULES THAT BUILD THE FOUNDATIONS OF MARRIAGE. WHEN THESE RULES ARE WELL OUTLINED BEFORE MARRIAGE, YOU WILL HARDLY QUARREL IN MARRIAGE BECAUSE MOST ISSUE THAT WILL CAUSE QUARREL HAS BEEN RESOLVED.

[color=#550077]Blah blah, that's not all it takes, marriage isn't a bed of roses and nothing is guaranteed, people change LIFE happens so we can't fall it down to 'quarrels' even in a RELATIONSHIP it takes a lot of work, so let's be REAL.

Perhaps if we can hear form the married folks or who have been, so that we can get valid responses.[/color]

[color=#550077]@OP No mind dem.

It's just like BB if you don't ave 1 it's like ur some sort of alien.

Anywayz, what is ur reason or reasons for not being or going in a relationship?[/color]

[color=#550077]Fresh fruit salad [/color]

[color=#550077]Just finished with my Prawn layered salad [/color]

[color=#550077]These people really mean business don't they?na wa [/color]

[color=#550077]^^^I've had experiences with them, i know them [/color]

[color=#550077]Another thing, ur stages don't always happen in that pattern we can have a mix. . . and i also think some of ur examples are attribrutes of a typical 'lagos nigerian couple' [/color]

[color=#550077]@OP Hmmm *thinking "so that's what he was doing"* bloody pathetic!!!


Look op you have a point, but i think you should have healthy arguments, if quarrel na fight i dunno about that cus that can swing either way, not everyone can handle that kind of stress and not all people are the argumentative type, so if disagreements do occur that is fine, but we shouldn't be looking for them, too much of everything is not good and manipulating things is really wrong, you shouldn't play with people's emotions.

Are we talking about people who are trying to have a relationship?or people that already lke eachother?because it sounds like a battle field of some sort, but you do have a point.


Mrjay also has some good points, a 'fight' in the sense of the word is not really encourageable, not all couples have that and it still works of them, i mean you can get to know some1 without fighting with them, unless they just want to fight, i mean me as a person i'm always try to be honest about what i feel, and when u get the opportunity to know me as i person you will find that i always love to express myself so if i'm with a guy and he keeps commiting a same offence something i ave warned him about it really presses me, y'know it's like do you listen?i talk and talk and nothing goes in?(hope i don't sound like i nag) but what i mean is everyone is different and not all things need turn into fights/quarrels wateva, all in the name of finding some1 out or getting to know them, if some1 wants to FAKE they will the question is for how long?and why? we should encourage good communication, because most couples don't ave it at all, infact most people don't even know what RELATIONSHIP means so what are we saying?


People need to be true to eachother, people need to know what they want, there are a lot of kids in 'realtionships' so u gotz to have your eyes open, you know urself better, if your not ready wait and focus on what is important to you, most people are just in it for waht they get from it, and not because they wnat that relationship with that person.

Aitte ooo i don talk my own . .lol odabo[/color]

[color=#550077]Bleh[/color]

[color=#550077]@rhymz u r jobless and fugly, so stop sniffing up somebody else's asss talk about skunk, u reak of it head to toe , so be quiet bruh![/color]

[color=#550077]I try to not determine people by their backgrounds or appearance, so would like it they did the same, we all can't be the same.[/color]

[color=#550077]Aslong as it looks yummy and spotless

But me like dah chocolate [/color]

[color=#550077]lol[/color]

mixoull:
Here is the point, as a guy in a serious relationship I precipitate across a lot of gals i admire so much, the fact is I tend not to exceed beyond "d look n let her go ish" sum chics cld be a big distraction to relationships, on the other hand, if as a chic u re bold enough to approach him u might end up realizing his very single with time but just shy at first or maybe man-lover , if he happens to be a guy who is shy to approach ladies den u shld count urself luck becos he wldnt approach other chics he admires like he approached you
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[color=#550077]Those are the worst type of babies guys!! [/color]


[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=750793.msg9085841#msg9085841 date=1315247010]You are being childish[/quote][color=#550077]IF you want to count ya self as my 'pal' then don't trash talk to me or about me, it's very malicious and a very bad trait to have, there are ways to go about talking to people afterall u r entitled to ur opinion but u don't need to insult any1 whilst doing that, i don't insult any of you guys so pipe the hell down!![/color]

mukina2:
seen.

[color=#550077]No warning abi?just letting it go, locking the thread as if nothng happened?is this how you think you will achieve progress on nl?whats the point of cleaning, locking threads without actually getting a message over to anyone?that's y they keep doing it again and again getting away with it because they know u tolerate the same BS u make rules against, tell me if i am wrong?everyone knows it's the truth.


Arrant nansense.[/color]

[color=#550077]Hmmm

I got my first pair of glasses today!!

I mean at first didn't even want to look at myself with it on, i just don't like the whole spectaculed thing on me sha!!, so only when i got home i tried it on and explored the whole house with my new vision lol. . .it was amazing to see the things i saw ooo, vision so clear & defined, i felt like a new born baby, very exciting but i still like myself unspectaculed

Taken some pictures too, very foxy lady

So, would any of you specs users like to share your experiences? [/color]

[color=#550077]HD vision perhaps[/color]

[color=#550077]Hmmm

I got my first pair of glasses today!!

I mean at first didn't even want to look at myself with it on, i just don't like the whole spectaculed thing on me sha!!, so only when i got home i tried it on and explored the whole house with my new vision lol. . .it was amazing to see the things i saw ooo, vision so clear & defined, i felt like a new born baby, very exciting but i still like myself unspectaculed

Taken some pictures too, very foxy lady

So, would any of you specs users like to share your experiences?[/color]

[color=#550077]^^U drink ogogoro?

abi wetin dey high ur brain like that?

nansense![/color]