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[color=#550077]Flip sake man[/color]

[color=#550077]Mschewwwwwww[/color]

[color=#550077]@Chi-chi yeaa i know what you mean?but you shouldn't really be so taken from it. . .young & old use it even africans??lol as in parents i believe it's sometimes a social construct, not everyone uses it tho or rather some use it to their own taste it can be quite infectious when you hear it a lot just like normal things or words we hear regularly. . .but if this person is your friend or some1 you can talk 2 just tell them how u feel about it, i know some people that say it in every single sentence o well. I'm a lil surprised you don't say it?especially when your overseas?or perhaps dey don't use profanity so much in MANCHEZZER [/color]

[color=#550077]Thought it quite intresting, so decided to share![/color]


[color=#550099]8 SIGNS YOUR MAN ISN’T READY TO GROW UP[/b]Every relationship comes to a crossroads when both people have to decide what type of commitment they want, if at all. Some of us have clear rules and don’t waste time playing around any longer than three months; while, others hang on for years. But, there is no need to squander precious time with someone who isn’t ready to step up.
If you’re beyond “buddy” or “boo” status and ready for something steady, it’s time to start weeding out the boys (who may be nice) but just aren’t ready to grow up. Don’t know the signs? Here are a few to get you moving:

[b]1. He’s still in school…getting his third Bachelor’s degree.
Not a Master’s, not a Doctorate, not a Ph.D.—a third Bachelor’s degree. It’s wonderful that he is educated, but he doesn’t have a clear vision. Many of us figure out who and want it is we want to be during those first four years and progress toward our professional goals thereafter. A man who is unsure of who he is and where he would like to go is not prepared to make long-term commitments. He may be bright but he needs more time to define his vision.


2. He still heads to Cancun for Spring Break.
Remember the 20 year-old guy that would come to your high school parties? This guy is no different. When college ends so does the pseudo-adulthood debauchery that goes with it. Guys who feel the need to rehash their younger years are simply avoiding the maturity expected with age. Nothing wrong with being the life of the party so long as it’s not a foam party…full of underage co-eds.

3. He’s unemployed by choice.
Yes, the recession has left many jobless; but, there are some who also haven’t been looking very hard. Whether he’s living on student loans or mooching off Mom, an able-bodied, unemployed man is a sign of pure laziness. If you’re in the market for marriage-material, you need someone resourceful and ready to hustle (legally).

4. He’s over 25 and lives at home with his parents.
There is a level of independence a mature man has that won’t allow him to live with his parents except in the case of dire (and I mean lost his job, house burned down) circumstances. The guy who contently lives at home isn’t ready to do what’s necessary to leave the nest. If he can’t (or won’t) provide the basics for himself, surely he can’t do much for you. Think Baby Boy. He may be cute and nice, but babies and STDs are the only thing you can count on from Jody-types.

5. He follows Lil’ Wayne on Twitter.
After a certain age, retweeting @LilTunechi (unless you’re somehow related to the entertainment industry) is a bit childish. Though many grown men may listen to hip-hop music, they are aware that most of what’s said is nonsense. They don’t retweet rappers because they have jobs, reputations and other things that could be lost or tarnished. Beware of the guy who follows behind the words of today’s mainstream hip-hop artists. All that pride, lust and greed is not where you want to invest.

6. His bro-circle is impenetrable.
You want a guy with a solid group of friends. Among many things, it lets you know he has a sense of loyalty; but, sometimes, the boys can be too much and a force to reckon with when they always come first. When the bromance is too strong, it’s time to move on. Not because he’s not a good guy, it’s just not the right time. When he’s ready for a serious relationship, his priorities will shift accordingly.

7. He’s ready for kids but not marriage.
Don’t waste your time fooling around with guys who think they can be fathers before husbands. “Commitment issues” are one of the biggest signs of immaturity. If he’s unable to make decisions and follow-through, throw him back to the girls with low standards. It’s likely going to be a while before he grows up, if ever.

8. He fights guys who “try” him.
We want to feel like our man can hold his own and throw hands if necessary, but it’s quite alright if he never actually shows us. Why? Fighting is juvenile. A grown (or growing) man has too much to lose over nonsense.
LaShaun Williams is a culture and relationship columnist, blogger and social critic. Her work has been featured on popular urban sites, such as The Grio and AOL Black Voices. She has made appearances on the Tom Joyner Morning Show and Santita Jackson Show. Williams is also the voice behind Politically Unapologetic, where she unabashedly discusses pop culture, relationships and everything in between.


Enjoy! [/color]

[color=#550077]^^Lol but really nothing is giving onto you![/color]

[color=#550077]Jazmine Sullivan - Nothing Better [/color]

[color=#550077]why so serious?[/color]

[color=#550077]^^^your kind of offending me roki? what r u on about?[/color]

El Guapo:
You again?!

[color=#550077]Pardon?ave i even meant ur 'sorry' a.ss b4?[/color]

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=714751.msg8732410#msg8732410 date=1310886530]nobody insults my husbands[/quote][color=#550077]O really?so now i am the 'nobody' or the supposed villain abi?


Ok live ur life & don't eva you let me cross ur mind again!!

Goodluck with the hoolo hoolo ho's[/color]

denzel2009:
Yes we are cuzins

[color=#550077]Look alike?[/color]

[color=#550077]straighten ur face & answer d damn question badt mouth![/color]

[color=#550077]What part?[/color]

[color=#550077]^^^U dey craze? Yaba left 4 ur cretin husbands!


U lie 2 much abegiii. . . [/color]

[color=#550077]^^^R u & Mr.cork related neighbours by any chance? [/color]

rokiatu:
Pweety, you sure you're not on your period?

[color=#550077]R u trying to inform that you are?[/color]

[color=#550077]denzel u must live in the UK?

typical black jumper [/color]

[color=#550077]@Clare you don't need to be 'pretty' to be a model? there is a lottt more to it than that, infact yu might just ave been lucky!!

I didn't say your ugly tho did?

Yea RIGHT![/color]


[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=714751.msg8732334#msg8732334 date=1310885178]Believe me.

Land is miserable without ya [/quote][color=#550077]Which land?you mean life?

You wey no dey eva look 4 me   

I chek ya out tho every now & then so feel good about that sho gbo?[/color]

[color=#550077]Did she question you b4 giving you some 'inna inna'? yes or no?

She layed you so y not lay some cash down too, [/color]

[color=#550077]mm better, but u didn't ask of me ehn? [/color]

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=714751.msg8732308#msg8732308 date=1310884762]The gender changes whenever the weather is right. I saw you, so am currently a man. Hey beautiful [/quote][color=#550077]Hmmm. . .i'm not buying it!

How is ur land? [/color]

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=714751.msg8732301#msg8732301 date=1310884601]I saw one beautiful angel and I had to make sure I was not seeing ghost. I thought I was dreaming nau. [/quote][color=#550077]See am, r u still a man? [/color]

[color=#550077]@clare You look like a bad nerdy version of the famous green puppet frog.


really this is being light.[/color]

[color=#550077]Ask her na


& roki is dat how u greet ehn>[/color]

[color=#550077]Ilekee yu no see me abi? [/color]

[color=#550077]Lol indeed, ur not hot enough [/color]

[color=#550077]Dayumm 4 sum reason i had a feeling yu were muslim!


so do u visit the mosk?[/color]

[color=#550077]So, what time is ova there?

Are you a member of any faith/religion?[/color]

[color=#550077]How many of you?[/color]

[color=#550077]People seem not to like themselves [/color]