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Have you even seen any Nigerian girl like this?

Achor1111:
....., I didn't stand a chance, like Atiku Abubakar in the every presidential election. I simply admired and observed from a distance.

Line choke

ftfy

Omoreal01:
I see why Nigeria is what stage it's... Make una keep making babies and seeing it as a success... Thinking children na una retirement plans... E go soon shock una... So being single means failure?

Yes. Birthrates are falling worldwide. We can't afford to have single people.

aybabz101:
Wetin concern you if she is single or not?

I think you people need to know that not all men or all women will get married.....

you guys have to get that imprinted into your skulls...

You are meeting up with a long time colleague and the thing wey dey bother you na that she neva marry..!!..

God will help you people

If your popsy no marry your mama. Shey you go dey here?

silibaba:
And sonwhat if she is single? Is marriage an achievement?

Yes. Our society is not sustainable without families and marriage.

Diamond098454:
Meaning no one marries pretty girls?

He didn't say that. Learn to read.

pasol4real:
Please be quiet if you don't understand the meaning of xenophobia....
Stop making a mockery of the school fees paid by your parents

You're too kind for assuming he even went to school

simpleseyi:
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He is a known writer who is not influenced by sentiments like you

Thanks for mind reading me and my assuming motive like a simpleton

AntiChristian:
But my posts are not necessarily for you. You can choose not to read. You may read and skip off. Isn't this a free public forum again?

Freedom goes both way. You are free to air you view. I'm also free to respond to them

Who is Michael Hart and why do we care about what he says?

AntiChristian:
How does this disgrace you?

How is this not embarrassing to you. you have spent many years on this platform yet you're still making shallow arguments one would expect from a teenager.

"God has no mother. Mary birthed Jesus. Jesus is not God" I can't take you seriously when you argue like this.

AntiChristian:
Indeed, He who watches over Israel never slumbers or sleeps. Psalm 121:4

This verse never mentions humanity or divinity as regards the LORD aka YHWH or Yahweh!

God never slumbers nor sleep.

Jesus slept soundly on a cushion in the stern of a boat during a violent storm on the Sea of Galilee, as recorded in the Gospels (Matthew 8:23-27, Mark 4:35-41).

Jesus is not God!

Leave Religious text to religious people. Instead of disgracing yourself

I wonder if some people take drugs before creating all these threads.

Beautifulday:
How do you know about animals, are you an animal?

Are you trolling?

ifenes:
Think of it...If god really exists, the Atheists might be his favourite people.

Why ? Mos religious people treat god like a vending machine, always putting in prayers and expecting rewards. They help someone only because they want a sit in heaven. Every action is like a business deal with god.

But Atheists, they don't believe in any rewards system. When they help someone, it's not because of heaven or escaping hell...they expect nothing in return. Now tell me, who will god respect more ?

Funny how it is those who don't believe in god are actually doing what god wants....Being good for no reason at all is the new flex.

What if all God want is that "Business deal" with him?

Do you think God made us altruistic?

WriterNig:
The U.S is a crime ridden mess.

🇺🇸 United States of the Criminally Insane.

IF THEY GIVE YOU VISA NOW YOU WILL START JUBILATING

there are privacy laws, but Tinubu is not just a normal private person. He is the president of Nigeria, so I need to know about his past dealings.

If some parts of the documents are private or sensitive, they can simply be covered or removed. But that doesn't mean the whole thing should be hidden.

. If there is nothing serious in the documents, they should release them

JobAndVacancies:
99% of Colombian ladies are ashawo
They are all over stripchat Making money through sex chats and escort services and won't mind traveling down from their continents to meet their clients.
Not surprised

Even so.. How poor do you have to be to come to third world country like nigeria

See before and after image.

A clean mudslide

Scary visuals of flash floods in Nepal. pic.twitter.com/2wKHrX6tFn

— Piyush Rai (@Benarasiyaa) August 26, 2026

Emergency

Yesterday August 26, a severe debris flow disaster struck the Jilong Port in Tibet, resulting in significant casualties.

The footage captured by surveillance video resembles the apocalypse.

More information are still coming...

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— 李老师不是你老师 (@whyyoutouzhele) August 26, 2026

essentialone:
First: nothing is wrong with you for liking a certain "vibe". Attraction is not always logical. The fact that you’re Igbo, grew up in Lagos, speak Yoruba fluently, educated, and you’re drawn to "razz, stubborn, aggressive" energy instead of "toosh, English speaking educated" girls — that just means your heart responds to something different.

What I’m noticing in what you said:

*1. The contrast pulls you*
You said "toosh, English speaking educated girls" vs "beautiful and razz like paraga sellers at bustops". That’s not about education vs no education. It feels like you’re drawn to rawness, confidence, women who don’t filter themselves. Women who fight, who are stubborn, who feel _alive_ and unapologetic.

*2. The Rokibat story*
You liked her when she was reserved. But you _fell_ when you saw her rugged side in a fight. And when she apologized and said she’d change, you told her "it’s ok".
That tells me: the fire, the stubbornness, the "don’t-take-nonsense" energy is what makes her sexy to you. Not in spite of it, but because of it.

*3. "I need help seriously"*
So something about this is stressing you. Is it because:
- People judge it? "Educated guy should like educated girl"
- You’re worried the aggression will turn toxic in a relationship?
- You don’t understand _why_ you like this?

Real talk, no judgment:

Liking bold, street-smart, aggressive women doesn’t make you bad. A lot of guys find that energy magnetic because it feels real, passionate, and challenging. Lagos girls especially have that "I no dey gree" aura and it’s attractive.

The key is: *aggressive ≠ abusive*. Stubborn and sexy is fine. But you also want someone who can fight for you, not fight _with_ you every day. Someone who can be soft with you when it matters.

Since you told Rokibat "it’s ok" when she said she’ll change, it sounds like you actually love her exactly as she is.

3 questions for you:
1. *What scares you about this preference?* Is it what people will say, or you’re worried it’ll hurt you long term?
2. *With Rokibat now* - are you still talking? Do you want her to change, or you want to learn how to date her as she is?
3. *"Razz and beautiful"* - to you, what exactly makes it sexy? Is it the confidence, the way they talk, the way they don’t beg?

You’re not weird. You’re just a Lagos boy with Yoruba fluency and Igbo roots who likes fire.


...And na that fire go burn you down las las.

This one that your using ai to post comments. na wa o.

wallarwallar:
I love how she spoke to her, but putting it on the Internet with her daughter’s face is a NO-NO. It shows how irresponsible she is as a mother, seeking unnecessary validation on social media. She could have saved it on her phone for future reference or shared it without showing the girl’s face, so others could learn from it. In a sane world, she could even be prosecuted for such an action.

What's wrong with showing her face? Children have making contents since time immemorial.

WriteerNg:

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Everyday the same excuse for the U.S.

Na until your person die for one of these crashes before you go know say e serious?

You are not a serious person oga. Do you know how many road accidents happen here in Nigeria every day? People do not even consider them to be news anymore. Now you want to talk about crashes in the US that rarely ever happen.

US commercial airliners have an extraordinarily low fatal accident rate. something like one fatal accident per several million flights

Is the US military worse than other militaries?

Not really. The US has one of the largest and most active armies in the world. Because of this, it has a larger total number of accidents.

Helicopters generally have more accidents than commericial planes. Helicopters fly closer to the ground and in worse weather. They also have more moving mechanical parts. If one part fails, the whole helicopter can fall.

Despite this many helicopter crashes happen because of pilot mistakes or bad weather. They happen because of dangerous land or when pilots lose their sense of direction. They do not usually happen because the machine breaks.

Imagine taking paracetamol for another person's headache

Treasure17:
The easiest way around this is to check the card pin maybe it correspond with the transaction shown to you. Like I use to say, 99% of Nigerians are criminal minded.

I know a lot of honest well behaved nigerians. Stop generalising

HITsquad:
This is the dumbest scam I have seen. Can only work on really dull victims.

forget o. If the pos joint is a very busy one. They won't notice a bit

People like these are why we can't have nice things anymore.

Thank God my mallam still trust me. He don't even ask for receipt when I do transfer.

It's a sign that person is of a dubious character

Hedonisco:
Only a poor man with no 'disturbers' will ask such a foolish question.

If you have hordes of people 'billing' you incessantly.... From relatives to former schoolmates, old friends, numerous girlfriends, nuisances, and everything in between, you will know that turning off read receipts is essential.

No it's not. You need to grow some balls and communicate honestly with them