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Dialog 1

How do I get a girl?

Do not try to?

How do I handle my sexual urge then?

You have a hand for a reason. If your hand is meant to eat alone, it would have been shaped like a spoon. It is no coincidence your fingers have moving joints, enabling them to curl around objects firmly. It is no coincidence your upper arm is packed with muscles, making it easy to stroke vigorous.

You are saying I should forever dismiss women & focus on just my hands?

Make yourself attractive. Always strive to improve your attractiveness. If a woman comes your way and does not insist on polluting your character and values to get into the pussy, proceed.

If you have to compromise your character and values to get into the pussy, abort. Sadly, when you are just starting out in life, this is what you face with women. Thus, your hand shall be your default tool. Only switch when a woman surrenders and willingly walks into your space without toxic terms.

But the hand does not feel as good as a real woman

That is correct, but only to an extent. However, you shall never compromise your character just to get pussy. You shall not become a simp just to get pussy. You do not eat a poisoned jollof rice, not matter how great the aroma is. Similarly, you shall not chase pussy that require you to simp (compromise on your character & values).

I repeat, your hand shall always be your first choice. You only use a woman when one is available in a healthy manner.

Lastly, only women who surrender taste better than the refined movements of your hands. A simp never finds such women.

Eric247:
A dominate man chases power ,which inspires ;arousal ,respect and fear in women,as a side effect of his masculine energy.

A weak man chases women ,which inspires ; disrespect,parasitic and toxic relationship,as a side effect of his feminine energy.

Fundamentally, I think this boils down to a person's view on why they live.

Why do some men turn out well and some end up hedonistic, pussy-worshiping men?
The only answer I could come up with is whether the man has a reason for living or not.

The man who has no reason for living, isn't moved to strive towards any positive thing in life.
The average human would rather touch a live wire than be bored in life.
He ends up resorting hedonistic pleasure as his default approach to life, thus reduced to lowest state of being a human can find themself.

For the man who has found meaning, the biggest focus of his heart, is living according to his meaning of life.
Thus, he is in constant sync with his logical self and in touch with his values, which probably plays the biggest role determining whether a man sees women as one or life's pleasure or creatures to worship.

heartofcity12:
Choose who chooses you, never fails..

It's wisdom we all learnt as kids.
Some however seem to forget this growing up and when it comes to women.

Not just women, but people in general.
When you force yourself into someone or a group, the result is always never plesant.
You would never be truly important to them. You would always be trying hard.
You would have to do more and more stupid things just so that you can be accepted.
The irony is, the harder you try, the less valuable you would seem and be desired.

Skepticus:
Where do you belong?

There is a category not included here:
the Realized man: I'm not even dating her.