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The truth is, it takes effort to keep a relationship/marriage alive

If for any reason the efforts drop, intimacy will automatically drop

Don’t allow bills and life responsibilities reduce intimacy

Choose each other everyday
Make out time to spend quality time together with zero distractions

Very funny

Get an accountability partner

Because they don’t start off with the abuse.

They start off sweet in quote to keep the woman and then gradually, the true colour starts showing

It starts with verbal abuse and then graduates to emotional distance, gaslighting before it gets physical

No regrets at all

I only learnt how to do things better, how to make better choices and to always put myself first because nobody really send you like that

Life happens

Move on bro

Very true

Bahamas95:
Life is in phases, a time is coming when you'll lose interest in things you fancy now. Even death won't scare you anymore.



I have seen old people complain of boredom, that they wanna go home and rest. My friend's grandfather was the last person I heard saying that and many thoughts ran through my mind that day......Many years ago that same man was scared of death.

Good for all of you.

Enjoy while it lasts

No be him fault

He is benefiting from the rot so why not

Mtcheew

The God of all flesh

I thank you!

Even though I don’t have things all figured out, I thank you for being there all the way.

You are my source, my strength and my all!

Illicit generalization

I guess it is a thing of the mind. Your mind probably didn’t want what your body wanted.

Good advice but this is Nigeria.

The way they will change the narrative within a second, you will be amazed

I agree

Tammy2705:
NOT EVERYONE DESERVES SUCH TREATMENT, DONT TAKE PEOPLES VULNERABILITY AND NAIVETY TO UNDO THEM

At least let her know on time so that she can heal and start afresh with someone more deserving.

This cannot be too much to ask

100 what

You have done well sir

Amala convention as how now 😀😀😀

The institution is not the problem, the individuals are.

Be a good person and please don’t settle for less. Don’t ignore the red flags, don’t get married for the wrong reasons and be careful in your choice of a spouse because people change overtime.

10

Happy birthday 🎂

I have learnt not to stop loving and prioritizing myself. Don’t depend on any man’s love, time, attention or affection to be whole.

Have a life, be happy and whatever comes from him should ONLY be an extra

E don be for you be dat 😀😀😀

Your hot soup is special

toluxa1:
When did it hold?

Today!

Zonefree:
Love is never enough.


Never be with a woman because you love her. Love is temporary.

Very true
Love is NOT enough.

20th October

Sure

It is definitely - I need help for me.

I prefer to fix things myself, it gives me an unexplainable sense of fulfillment

Watianoengineer:
This man too like wahala. Honestly

As in ehn

Great
Let the battle continue please!

As a creative, I love being alone. I find more inspiration and work faster when I’m by myself.

Nobody owes you anything. Your happiness is entirely your responsibility!

faithfull18:
Cheating is costly, stay faithful.

Them no dey hear say nothing dey outside