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AlexCk:
Hmmm.

Well, if y'all love each other as u say, i seee no reason y y'all shouldn't be together, Jane has a slight reproductive ish, yea?? , if it's slight then it can be fixed and y'all can be parents,


The truth is, no1 one is perfect, he seems like a good guy, she seems decent enough, u have to accept each others imperfections, also, u can try to change some "funny ways" ur bf/gf does not like, just because of the love u have for 'em.


U can always try to be better person for the person u love. That's what love is, making sacrifices.


I hope y'all resolve ur issues, n do the right thing and be happy.

thanks for the advice. Please can you relate to any of the issues raised?

Estharfabian:


first, we know you're Jane.

Mark's Shortcomings..

He hit You... TWICE! (This is actually a deal breaker for me, But whatever. different strokes for different people)
His obsession is you..
Easily gets angry..
Talks like a toddler.

Jane's bad side
She's a pathological liar
She's emotionally unavailable, insensitive.
She's almost barren.
she's stingy.
Not social. blah, blah, blah...

Okay, I feel like Both of you are a ticking time Bomb! Like a little Spark, Y'all would go KaABOOOOooooOOOooM! into bits!

well, except he controls that anger of his, and his obsession and You stop lying over trivial issues, and maybe Fix your emotional Unavailability.

thanks for your contribution. Can you relate to any of these?

TrapQueen77:


This must be Jane..



If I were u, since ur carefree & insensitive to the things ur bf does to u...then juz do whatever u like. Do what makes u happy.

Happiness here is complicated. Do you suggest she leaves? Can you relate to any of the issues raised?

One 2 ocassions mark actually did hit her though he claimed that was the first time in his life to do that. He promised never to do that again and has not till now. Nairaland is a faceless forum and this couple needs advice from any view. What do you think should be done to help them from fighting? Are you of the opinion that the pasture is greener? What reasonable advice can you give to either of them. Can you relate to any of the raised issue in your current life and how did you deal with it? Your comments will be appreciated....signed Mark and Jane.

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