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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:23pm On Aug 26, 2019
This is the end of the road for the asslicking SirDee
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:16pm On Aug 26, 2019
Iya Basira's plate is empty
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:14pm On Aug 26, 2019
Red team will lose this
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:04pm On Aug 26, 2019
The intelligent Tacha should please be one of the representatives grin
Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo Assures Heartland FC On Ihedioha's Promise by QuietHammer(m): 5:03pm On Aug 26, 2019
See fully grown men who should be tilling the soil to plant yam and cassava fooling themselves, running after a leather ball.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 1:55pm On Aug 26, 2019
Why pick Tacha of all people to share the room with? Hian angry
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 1:53pm On Aug 26, 2019
The God pf widows has compensated Khafi as the new HOH
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 1:50pm On Aug 26, 2019
Of course, the witless Tacha can't possibly pick the die faster than Seyi
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 1:08pm On Aug 26, 2019
Saltandwater:
I was really pained I swear to God and I didn't even watch it. My sister just told me my Tacha was served another strike yesterday. I love her too much to act blind to her rudeness and disrespect sometimes, and about that, I wish and pray she becomes better than what she shows now. She's a sweet girl trying so hard to put out a different personality, her reason? I don't know.

"You and Anto are alike so for supporting her last year, I get it but supporting Tacha? I still can't explain it or find the connection. Better pray for your girl because just one more strike and she's out" And that is how I just found out that my Baby was given a strike again for whatever reason my sister explained because playing the clips and issuing her a stern warning would have sufficed. That strike is too much jare, hian!

I have liked many HMs but T-boss, Anto/Tobi and now Tacha have been my favorites in each season, but I have never ever felt this strong about any housemate as I feel about Tacha. I don't know if it's self confidence she lacks and so, she has to keep using her mouth and action sometimes to assure herself (which then comes off as arrogance) but Tacha is nothing close to the image built of her. She is way better and even now better than when she started but easy to be blind to. I wish her a better version of herself along the journey even though she is already much loved just the way she is but I believe in a continuous growth and development and I wish her that.

Another painful thing is I don't have much as I need to vote her as truly deserved and as I would really love to and so I pray that may all her rich voters and real lovers never get tired. Tacha is a beautiful work and still progressing, only those who can see it, know it. She's going nowhere o all ye who are analyzing "IF she leaves". She wouldn't leave us without a favorite in the game, she's loyal like that but God please, na YOU I dey beg cry cry cry.

This is my entitled opinion and I made sure I didn't drag anyone's favorite nor force anyone to come and like her for us. So, kindly waka-pass if you are amongst those whose life mission is to ensure you never read anything fair about Tacha. We all can't like her nor can we all hate her, so just Waka pass and don't quote me to repeat whatever bad you have said about her before. I'm sure I have read it so don't worry. The reason for my epistle is to just pour out my feeling somewhere because the strike thing pain me. E pain me I no fit lie sef

Better and Richer you my Tatache. Keep growing, I believe in your progress!
This is stupid
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:51am On Aug 26, 2019
XXML33:
Over these past few weeks I've actually developed a very strong love and connection towards Tacha. This is actually weird because I don't normally support individuals or groups to this degree, be it in sports or any other domain. I think my strong support of Tacha emanates from a deep understanding of her personality.

You guys criticizing Tacha need to understand that Tacha is very insecure and has very low self esteem. Insecurities and the accompanying paucity of self esteem usually stems from a childhood of neglect, abuse and constant bullying by pairs.
As people of this sort grow up, they begin to perceive the world as a battleground with them pitted against everyone else, and an endless array of slings and arrows firing constantly against them from all directions; they essentially regard everyone around them as a potential threat to their depleting sense of self worth.

There are two ways these sort of people deal with this:
1. They either recoil inwards and live a life of solitude and self loathing, developing little to no social bonds and engaging in very little social interaction.
2. They adopt attack as a form of defence by building an outward persona that is intimidating, threatening and combative. This helps them ward off any potential threat and gives them the illusion of the self esteem that they lack.

Tacha deals with her insecurities and low self esteem the second way.

Most of negative behaviors that Tacha expresses constitute a false persona that she's developed, which acts as a defensive wall. Only few people can be able to break through this defensive wall and experience the real person behind the false persona. Seyi has been the only one able to do this and hence why when he's with Tacha, you don't see her exhibit those negative behaviors.

When Tacha is with Seyi she's free and doesn't feel threatened because she trusts him, and hence doesn't need to "protect herself from him" by being unnecessarily rude, standoffish or combative.

I'm not trying to defend Tacha's behavior but as much as you find her behavior irritating, please understand that it's simply a defence mechanism and her walls of defence can break down if she's shown genuine friendship and develops strong bonds of trust between her and those around her. Now doing this in the Big brother house is quite difficult because Biggie's house is in essence a battlefield where friendships are fake and dishonesty & fakeness reigns supreme. This sort of environment actually appeals to Tacha's proclivity to be defensive and reinforce that false persona. It's going to be hard for her to break down those walls while in the big brother house, even if she wants to. She could manage for a few days but any slight perception of threat or betrayal sends her erecting those walls again.

I can't say I'm optimistic that Tacha's behavior would improve, but I can assure you that when the housemates are fewer and she's able to spend considerable time with everyone of them and develop stronger bonds of friendship and trust, she will shed off a lot of that false persona and would be more likable.
This is stupid.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:56pm On Aug 25, 2019
Iya Basira just said Fraud's bad breath is giving her headache grin chimoooo
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:49pm On Aug 25, 2019
Iya Basira making a fool of Fraud again. Mumu man
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:23pm On Aug 25, 2019
safarigirl:
Scenes tomorrow:

Green Team Is Up

Ike has Veto Power

Ike saves himself, leaving Mercy up for eviction.

Mercy "Ike, you don't love me like I love you, you don't know what love is, all you know is maney maney maney" grin grin
The 401 gods of Ile-ife would twist her mouth
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:13pm On Aug 25, 2019
Ike won. The gods are wise
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:09pm On Aug 25, 2019
makydebbie:
I don't want Frodd to save Esther if she's up.
You mean Frodd would be stupid enough not to save himself and rather save an Esther? Remember, they are in the same team
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:07pm On Aug 25, 2019
This biggie sef. The ninja should reveal the content of tqo envelopes at a time. The housemate having any of the shapes revealed should win
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 11:00pm On Aug 25, 2019
Stephlena:
For those shinning their gworo stained teeth..and looking forward to Tacha and Esther fight.. sorry!

Tacha gives her all to task.presentations.. if nwakpuda iyaloja Esther, wants to fight or disturb Tacha which in turn affects the group.. na who go lose?.

Make she go gra-gra, disturb the team na..na ogbomosho market get her ASAP.
Tacha the saucy, pedantic wretch can't miss an opportunity to showcase her ratchetness by chooking her dirty mouth in fights which do not concern her. She'll get her third strike and be disqualified in a fortnight.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 10:47pm On Aug 25, 2019
makydebbie:
Green.

Mike held that ass, I hope I'm not the only one who saw it.
Mike is a simple guy. He sees a good piece of ass, he grabs it.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 10:42pm On Aug 25, 2019
Tacha's team isn't happy she's with them grin
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 10:30pm On Aug 25, 2019
Finally, it's show time.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 10:11pm On Aug 25, 2019
Temi231:
Biggie na scam Las las
Thunder will surely fire someone this night, and it won't be me
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2019
Where the fvck is the surprise?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 9:56pm On Aug 25, 2019
Blainz:
Amen and Amen!

May your daughter turn out to be Mercy, dating sugar daddies, exposing her yanshh at every opportunity to the public, random guys squeezing her in parties! Amen?
Fortunately and unfortunately my good sir, I do not support Mercy.
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 8:35pm On Aug 25, 2019
For those of you still supporting Tacha and rubbing her in oir faces, may your daughters turn out to be Tachas. Amen?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 8:31pm On Aug 25, 2019
Rossycee:
Lol... But do you know the yes will put some money in his account.
Sure
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 8:29pm On Aug 25, 2019
Khafi is bitching again about Gedoni being happy when he was evicted
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 8:13pm On Aug 25, 2019
thorbar:
But BBNaija is wicked sha... They bring this guy with suit from deloit everyweek only to say YES. Nawa o
The guy be like balloon. I love his smile sha. Person go wear suit and tie just to say 'yes' grin
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 8:12pm On Aug 25, 2019
Trasha couldn't rven hug Jackye. Is she scares Jackye would perceive her foul body odour?
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:42pm On Aug 25, 2019
You people left Gedoni out to dry after all the live sex. God will judge you people o
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 7:02pm On Aug 25, 2019
Trasha's second strike sweet me for belle. Everyone of you should rush to the nearest bar and have a bottle of whatever you drink. grin
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 6:54pm On Aug 25, 2019
Biggie just white-washed Trasha. Today is a good day cheesy
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by QuietHammer(m): 6:51pm On Aug 25, 2019
Two strikes for Trasha. Yippeeeee! cheesy

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