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Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

When coming to NL to ask for advice you have to be very careful not to let bitter people steer you wrongly. Her mom is more worried about the stigma more than the health of her child due to your status in society. Some people commenting here today were also pregnancies that happened unexpectedly which either resulted in both parties getting married or things were put in place to cater to the matter. So my guy talk to your girl and see if she is really willing to keep this pregnancy and if so, be a man,fight and prove this woman wrong. Let your girl know that this abortion can even damage her womb and it can even affect her chances when she eventually decides to have kids. The ball is in your court and its time for you to show everyone that you are ready to be a father.

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