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Masha Allah

*sighs* may Allah help us see the light,in our hearts and spread Islam with Love and not aggression.

Please tell that to those who observe salat in jeans and shirt and the mini scarves. You can start by spreading the word in mosques around your area,cos that's what I build courage do when I see a muslimah dressed inappropriately for salat .

And Plssss Stop assuming things,!!!

Bragging about disobedience, especially to Allah is something to be very much ashamed of. Besides do you work 24 hours a day? Hypothetical, you are not able to wear it for the 10hrs you work in a day, what stops you from wearing it in the remaining time of the day you can or on work free days?

Why wait for some critic? Are they something other than human? Do they have 2 heads? Why wait for someone to do that for you? Why don't you do it Yourself?
Stop playing the victim card NOBODY is judging you, only telling you the TRUTH!

I knew you were going to reply,you don't know me,you don't know how live my daily life,so pls stop acting like you're the most perfect being on earth,so you think if you talk harshly,you'd be passing a message? My dear brother take a chill pill!

I wonder how you'd explain the Deen to a non-muslim. Its people like you,who make some sisters believe islam stops at wearing full hijab or prolly,niqab without polishing their characters.
Or you've ever read or learnt that the prophet (s.a.w) taught about discrimination amongst muslims.

I RAHMAT admit and know fully well, that I'm still a work-in-progress in ISLAM,I'm not perfect and I'd never act as if I am.

I'm not PLAYING the victim Pls!!!
Enough said!!!

I remember when,I went for an aptitude test in one of the banks early this year,wearing my cape hijab,fortunately,I wasn't the only muslimah there,it was until we proceeded to the next round,that other lady wore her own hijab confidently,the next time she was coming for the interview,even though I didn't start work with them,I knew,I'd made my statement as a Muslimah and a fellow muslimah found the confidence to do the same,all through the days,we kept going back for other documentation.

When I asked her,why she didn't wear Hijab from day one,she told me,she had to remove it in other to get the job.
So like I said earlier,our struggles are different.

Our society makes Muslimahs who wear full hijab and have gone through school,passing out with distinctions look like they never went to school.

And my fellow muslim brothers and sisters who wear full hijab or keep beards,won't return salams even when you meet in the MOSQUES,just because people like me wear cape HIJAB.

I was at a lecture during ramadan,when the lecture publicly said it better to be called ABORI MA BO IWA(I felt,he was kind of encouraging the discrimination among non-hijabi sisters)doesn't islam encourages us to be ONE?

And to that person,who keeps quoting different hadiths and quran verses,I guess you've always lived a perfect ISLAMIC life and you've never erred!

I only pray,my friend finds that peace he has only wanted and retrace his path in ISLAM.

If you gather 100 practising muslim ladies and tell them you can provide a place of work,where they can wear hijab and jalbab to work,I'm sure we'd get 98% who would agree.
We now live in a society,where even the self acclaimed ulamahs,don't stand up for rights of muslim women.
And to those critiques,I guess you've got everything going perfectly in life for you,so can judge all you want,its people like you who wouldn't return salams to a muslim sister becos she isn't wearing full hijab,just to make them feel low or less religious.
I've met with a lot of muslim ladies who would gladly,wear full hijab to work if they had the opportunity.
Every body has their own struggle in life,so I'd stick to my cape hijab for now. Its nothing to be ashamed of,so far I don't abuse it.
So till,those critiques stands up and create places of work where I can wear full hijab to, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE!!!!

[quote author=XketchDesigns]^^^smh..
I give up.

Just a better muslimah ok!? Cheers
SMH!!!

[quote author=XketchDesigns]But since you brought that up, which is not what I was referring to. Why don't we analyse your statement.
Lol,so I should be ashamed to admit that someone encouraged to be pray regularly? My dear brother,I can never be ashamed,in fact
I'm grateful I had someone to encourage me 12 years ago,not every one had that kind of friends in life,that's why I'm sad to see him turn out the way he did,after so many years.

XketchDesigns: Thought you said you will not insult?
I never said anything relating to relationship in my post as well. And I will stand with my post anywhere! A muslimah should be ashamed to admit that.

Admit what?
Sorry,it is well with ur soul!!!

The reason I did this post,was that I'm marvelled at the way life is,while I'm aiming to be a better muslimah,my friend seems to be lost in worldly status.

XketchDesigns: When you marry, marry from those who will increase you in deen.
However I am disappointed in the bolded part.

A muslimah should be ashamed To admit this.

I'm not going to insult you,because you're obviously ignorant,mind you I never said I was in a relationship with this person. So I don't know what is there to be ashamed of,pls next time,read and think very well before replying.

Its surprising how, someone who encouraged me to observe my prayers regularly,now doesn't want to be with a muslim lady,who covers her hair(not that I wear full hijab fa!). Though,he still claims to be a muslim,and I keep wondering if some people really understand ISLAM,they claim to practice!!!

tola9ja: sure now

Oja okunkun.

An interesting one,they make it look like problems gets solved easily in real life.

Asalam alaikum,my name is Rahmat,I live in lagos,I'm in my late 20s.
I go by the name rahma2husna on this forum.
It feels so good to be here.

Back to the matter!
Dream nikaah has to be something simple and classic of all islamic standards.
My future husband,I hope you're reading.

tola9ja: hiii everyone any muslim girl in the house that she is ready to settle down

Like seriously,do such relationships work out?

I really don't understand why,people waste so much on nikaah,some parents don't even consider the children's future aftermath the whole ceremony.