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The redpill isn't as foolproof as most guys on Nairaland make it seem.

First thing I'll like to say is that all women are not the same. This is a fact redpillers have to get into their heads. Most redpillers usually advocate this as truth, but it isn't. Women are different. Not only do they come with different complex personalities and mental capacities, their ideas, opinions and world views are shaped by the environment and cultures that they grew up in, and to an extent the kind of books that they read while growing up.

For a lot of women, yes following redpill truths and applying them works, but I've noticed that they don't work on smart women

Now I'll define what I mean by smart women. A smart woman is one is intelligent, observant, introspective and rational. She is skilled at observing her environment and making logical deductions. She also has a lot of respect for herself and doesn't feel she needs a man to be fulfilled.

Of course this sort of woman is different from your everyday bimbo/slayqueen. But you see this is the kind of woman I go after. I've reached the stage where I don't want to have casual sex with women but I actually want a serious relationship that would lead to marriage.

I'll illustrate with a real experience. I met two girls. Girl A is physically attractive but personality wise and mentally, she isn't my type. Girl B isnt just physically attractive, she is also SMART. So I decide to use the redpill on both women; I don't give them too much attention, ignore their calls sometimes, let them see me talking to pretty women, don't text often, hang out once in a while and all that redpill stuff.

Girl A became even more attracted to me and would bombards my phone with calls and texts, beggin to me to visit or to come visit.

Girl B on the other hand began to pull away. She began to text less and call less. She wasn't as responsive to my requests as before.

Bear in mind that Girl B is the one I actually want to pursue a serious relationship with.

So I decided to shove the redpill aside and actually talk to girl B. I decided to tell girl B how I actually felt about her. And that was when she opened up. She was shocked that I actually had feelings for her and that I just seemed like a player who only was interested in sex and she would never take such a guy seriously. She said she had similar feelings for me but didn't show it because she didn't want to get burnt emotionally.

Fast forward to today, I'm officially engaged to girl B and we are getting married soon. And she is the woman of my dreams. Physically, mentally, financial-wise, character- wise and wife material wise.

The point I'm making is that if you want a serious relationship with a smart woman, don't take the redpill seriously. This doesn't mean you should sacrifice your masculinity on the altar of love. No, be a man, lead your woman, don't tolerate disrespect, but at the same time, show her love, treat her well, fuçk her good and give her that emotional security that she needs.