Crap.

Don't make the mistake of using the redpill on insecure girls. It drives me them away.

Insecure girls are girls who have self esteem issues and who are always questioning your motives for wanting to date or Bleep them. It's even worse when you are good looking and have money. These girls will think you are just playing them and they will run away from you.

You have to actually connect with the emotional side of these girls. Make them feel special but don't overdo it. Treat them well. Don't objectify them and don't be too hard on them.

Abouwaza:

I won't because some of them are on this thread

Cut out their faces then.

Abouwaza:
U wan make I flood this thread with bra selfies

Do it. Prove to these girls that they are hypocrites

Tonto30:
No I can't.

Why?

chatinent:
This world is shifted.


How is sending nude normal? The world has become so shifted that sex has been incorporated in our everyday activities and has become fashionable.


To an extent, what a full grown man could wake up to think is bras rather than thanking the Grand Instructor for his life.

Picture of a girl wearing bra isn't nude.

clairebode:
Nah

Why?

Can you?

Drop her number. I'm in Lagos but I fit still run am.

lincsnuel:
The thread teaches how to be a great PUA (Pick Up Artist)

But PUA, even though works temporarily, is not the best approach.

The best is to be yourself. And if you feel you have a wack personality or you don't attract girls you like, then improve on yourself. Self development is the key to getting the girl(s) of your dream.

Exactly. And girls these days have wised up to these lame PUA tricks. The smart ones can smell your bullshit from a mile.

Nothing beats self improvement. Confidence and charisma will flow naturally when you've inporved key areas of your life and girls will become attracted to you like bees. You wont even need to try too hard.

Get a good source of income. Get a nice ride if you can. Get a nice crib. Dress well, look good, smell good, read more books and be more informed, and most importantly, be yourself. That's all any guy needs to get a girl. With these things in place, confidence will flow naturally and you will begin to see yourself as the prize. Your interaction with women will change. This doesn't mean you will get any girl you want, but you will have girls in abundance that you won't be bothered by few loses along the way.

Most guys who frequent this section must have come across the thread "dating drills" created by harddon. This thread appears to be the residence of lots of men who find it hard getting a girl. Majority of these men don't even know how to make a move towards a girl they find attractive so they post questions for their mentor Harddon to answer.

The problem with most of the advice on this thread is that it teaches men behavior tricks and lines to say to women that don't reflect the actual nature of these guys. In essence it's teaching these guys to not be themselves. It teaches them to memorize sentences and be fake, just for pussy.

Listen, the best way to be good at something, whether it's cooking, throwing a basketball or getting women, is to try and fail, then try and try again, and with experience you will get better and you'll get better in a way that squares with your real personality.

If you are not naturally witty or funny, memorizing some crap lines suggested by a stranger on the Internet isn't going to help you. Let's say the girl falls for those lines, what next? Will you go running to Harddon to write new lines for you?

Pretending to be someone you are not to get a girl to fall for you might work for some, but what happens a week later when the girl gets to know the real you? The fake persona she supposedly fell for is gone and all that's remaining is the side of you that you have been concealing? What do you do then? You can't pretend for long. Why not just be yourself?

One thing Harddon and his cronies don't advice is that guys should be real. Nothing inspires confidence more that the fact that you love who you are and you are comfortable being yourself.

Girls are different. What works for girl A will not work for girl B.

All the advice on that thread can be summarized in one sentence. Be confident, have a good source of income and don't put women on a pedestal. This is all you need to be successful with women, not all the crap lines I've been reading on that thread.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Exactly. I was thinking on writing a report about this. How we copy both redpill and feminism and citing the American dynamic as evidence for it.

Ditto. Imagine these guys complaining about issues like child support and alimony as if they apply to Nigerians.

These guys are a joke..

virginprincess:
look at this one, not only male.

Oga, don't you think you are already too old for this shit. Using female moniker to troll on Nairaland. You no get shame ni?

I dare glycolysiss to comment on this thread and I'll disgrace him by posting links to the websites that he steals his comments from.

SilverNorGold:
Somebody dun collect baba girl

This isn't about girl matter.

If people want to force down views on other at least let them be able to form these views themselves, not to copy and paste other people's views and present it as theirs..

Zzor is a male masquerading as a female. Same with Virginprincess

It's surprising that even Redpill geniuses haven't figured it out yet. It seems the only thing they know how to do is copy and paste comments from Reddit.

Guys like glycolysis, Martinez93 and lots of other Nairaland redpillers are just people that specialize in copying and pasting comments from sites like Reddit and red pill forums and then pasting it here as if it's their own ideas.

These guys are even worse than simps because while simps display inferiority in relation to women, these guys display their inferiority in relationship to the foreigners they plagiarize their work.

These guys don't have any independent opinions. All they do is copy and paste ideas of white people.

I created a thread just hours ago and instead of addressing my argument with his own independent argument, Glycolysiss went ahead to copy a long post from some foreign site and post as a response to my comment.

Martinez93 is another guy who can't think for himself but is quick to join a MGTOW movement that doesn't even apply to his culture and was formed from an American culture with specific Dynamics different from the ones applicable in Nigeria.

These guys are a joke and no one should take them seriously

If you are looking for Narialanders whose posts are valuable and applicable to the African context, then read Ubunja's work. At least he doesn't copy and paste comments from Reddit.

mosdii:



Baba, you are wasting your time explaining to a clout chaser.

Dem just pour am vagina water, him eyes go clear soon.

The clout chaser is the one copying and pasting comments from Reddit and other foreign websites. He isn't explaining anything because he doesn't even have the mental capacity to dissect my views.

I laugh when I see you guys take his threads and comments seriously. All he does is just a copy and paste.

GLYCOLYSISS:

First and foremost, I want to state these without mincing word, you're never a redpiller and you never understood what redpill is all about.
You're just another AFC ( average frustrated chump) that decided to associate himself with redpill, just to conceal your frustration with women in these game.
Thousands of them are out there, and even in these forum.

Nothing disgust me more than guys speaking ill of ideology they don't understand.
You don't even understand what redpill is, but you're so confident in your ignorance.
Pick up artistry is not redpill.
Many guys simply make these horrible mistake of assuming redpill is all about picking up women, manipulating them just to get access to pussy.
That's the foundation on which pick up artistry is built, not redpill.
Redpill is about exposing the real nature of women, teaching and disillusioning men from the mental image they have about women.
Basically, positioning men to see through the veil of who they are dealing with.
It's beyond getting pussy and women.
It teaches men to build their value, substantial value.
Redpill is everything any man need to be a better man, but here you're criticising what you don't understand.
You're talking about masculinity, when you don't even understand what being a man is, just regurgitating the trash the gynocentric society fed you on.
You're talking about love, when you don't even understand the dynamism of female /male relationships.
If you want a serious relationship with any woman, the redpill is exactly what you need!
It's a need, not a want.
Unless you're ready to be among your average men that keep getting treated like trash ,filled with emotions, and call that love.
Redpill and pickup artistry is different.
Lots of red flags in a single post!
Damn!

Oga quote me with your own opinion, not some crap you copied and pasted from a white forum.

This whole red pill nonsense is just like atheism wave. Nigerians just like to copy copy. No original ideas just copy and pasting nonsense that doesn't even directly apply to them.

Quote me with your own original opinion and I'll take you seriously.

Davash222:
We’ve lost a brother to these vagina citizens.

How old are you though? Most of you propagate redpill this and that are still kids depending on their parents.

I'm not lost to anyone. I want to get married and have a family and I've found a lady to do that with. And the redpill wouldn't have helped me get to this point.