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Samantha125:
As long as your brothers also generalise when they speak, then who am I to argue? They're the ones you should be rebuking, not me.

So you just agreed that what you were saying was not factual. In that case I'll urge you to stop generalising.

In fact, send me an urgent 2k...😃😃😃

leave me oo, the country is countrying

Exousiang01:
Na only for Africa all these kain things dey happen.

Just look at the Nigeria/Egypt match now, una no see referees from East Africa or even Southern Africa. Una wan give is ref from North Africa.
Same way they gave us a ref from the one amongst the two countries globally known for hating Nigerians. How can you give us a Ghanian ref knowing our history with those black people.

Abeg make una keep quiet, was the ref for our game not from West Africa, the Senegalese dem no complain of officiating, they only complained of other factors, make una stop this nonsense habit of saying the ref go dey bias, when game no even start yet.

Samantha125:
I'm speaking based on what I've seen and heard, okay? I dare you to go and query every single lady beyond the borders of Nigeria that has either dated or currently dating a Nigerian man... They all share the same sentiments about you guys, and your brothers can't also seem to beat the allegations, they'd be all over social media boasting about it, chest beating about how they spend on their women...

And for your information, there isn't a country in Africa whereby the men don't murder their women, it's just that SA transparently publishes its statistics while other countries would prefer hiding or tampering with theirs, some don't even conduct any... Patriarchy still dominates many African countries just like it's still dominating in Asia.

I get your point, but the number of SA men that are violent to their spouse are not upto 50% of the total number of men in SA, it is therefore wrong for me to assume every man in SA is a woman beater, i believe you agree with this? Why then do you think because some few people entice women with money it then equate to the total number of men in Naija being that way?

It's just crowd mentality, like if 20 people on social media say all the naija women they've been with and have encountered are beautiful, most people posting next will want to say thesame thing even if all the women they've seen are ugly. So you see, it's bad to generalize everyone into one concept just because few people tend to assume that concept as correct.

Samantha125:
I don't need to meet them to know it, all those ladies who've dated you guys or are dating you guys only have one thing to say about you, that you're big spenders.

I've never heard them commending you guys on any other aspects except for your financial generosity.

So because i hear and read that SA men are violent and k*ll their girlfriends, i should automatically assume the average SA man is a murderer? You can't make assumptions based off few peoples opinion, it is wrong

Samantha125:
But you'd still go ahead and cater for us willingly without us asking...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

A typical Nigerian man goes around enticing women with money in order to gain their love and attention.

How many Nigerian men have you personally had the opportunity to meet or experience dating for you to come to this conclusion?

AfonjaBoston:
Nna men why una dey spoil mood here

No mind dem, na people of little faith, we go suprise dem

yad2eidi:
he is fair

We enjoyed our favors in last match, that ref did almost same thing this ref is doing, he favoured us

bentenny:
But Salah has been poor this season and deserved to be on the bench!
Simple!

Very simple, he's not on form this season, sit for some matches oga say mbah! I feel his work rate for last season is the cause, he needs to rest a little and be less selfish when he's playing. Liverpool would lift this cup again

Liverpool will lift the trophy again this season

dem Don wire Arsenal.


It is funny that Arsenal fans dey whine dem selves say dem be champions after just 15 games... Liverpool will still carry this cup again. Upon all their losing, dem still dey less than 12 points from position 1

VeeVeeMyLuv:
You keep lying to yourselves

When ENDSARS protest occured during Buhari admin what did the entire core northern region do?

They did nothing, they were silent , they were even counter protesting at apoint

They said the opposition wanted to use the protest to remove their son

You can imagine

Please say something else.

Now that you guys have allowed Boko haram to grow and fester who has suffered the most, who is still suffering?

If not that Southwest and whiteman and the "federal govt" magnanimity, generosity and love for you guys ehn,? Your region is just like a pampered entitled overfed individual.

While I agree with you to some extent. Please learn to mention the states that protested against and stop generalising the "entire north"

Do you know how many states are in the north?

Isaak subbed, we need him to recover well. Till January. Na that time we go begin show dem say Isaak na number 1

GanagiBitrus:
Whaaat! Abeg add Graphic Picture warning

Una can misbehave sha, wetin graphic about the pic?

12inchess:
Hello nairalanders I know to a lot of Nigerians who have never left the country this may sound funny. But I'm indeed frustrated with my life in America. I moved to America as a student in 2016 for masters in an engineering degree and after about 7 years I obtained a U.S Greencard. I work a middle income job with the government and I'm here with my Nigerian wife. I have faced a series of health challenges since I got here and some have been resolved and some additionally ones have cropped in with the latest being depression and extreme fatigue. Currently I'm on antidepressants but I'm still depressed and frustrated. My job is not that taxing but I wish I could do more save for the extreme fatigue that the doctors have not been able to resolve. I wish I could hustle harder but my health is not allowing me to. I feel also very sad and lonely living in the U.S as it's only me and my wife and I dont really have any friends. Everyone here always mind their business and its tough building any meaningful relationships. I have toyed with the idea of moving back to Nigeria in my head since America has not been all I hoped it will be for me but my wife does not want to and she quickly reminds me of the employment suitation in Nigeria and how it is me that made her come here in the first place. She kind of prefers it here. We have no kids yet so that is one additional information. I'm just venting and frustrated and I hope maybe some Nairalanders can come to my aid. Additional information. I dont come from a rich family that has money sitting in the bank and its me and my own. We just bought a house on a 30 year mortgage so we pretty stuck with paying the debt for 30 years but I don't know how I'd live here for 30 years. Just looking for someone with experience to share ideas with since I have no one. I feel stuck. Please no insults

In my opinion, I think you should have a serious discussion with madam, take 2 to 3 months off, come back to Nigeria and stay for a while, madam can still stay back there for the time being. Observe yourself in Nigeria, see if the depression subsides. Another thing I'll advise is, if it is possible, stay off the anti depressants, because at the long run, they seem not to work. If it is possible, get madam pregnant or adopt a kid, you'll be surprised how children are the real antidepressants.

You need to clear your mind too, because it seem like you have something you're struggling with that you've not really faced it to deal with it and that might be where that depression is shooting from. Remember you're a Nigerian, we always have a positive mindset irrespective of the situation, don't try to be oyibo people because at the long run, it'll only exhaust you. Stay blessed bro, you've got this.

omoredia:
What we have seen now is proof that at no time in history was the white man the problem of black people. It was the black man who caught his fellow black people and sold them as slaves first to the arabs and then the Europeans. Even till today nothing has changed. The black man is his own worst enemy

You're correct.

I've said it several times that the black man is the architect of his own problems.

Most of these Nigerians speaking to the American people are not directly affected by what is happening in Nigeria, that is why they usually downplay it. Assuming a member of this guy's family had faced this bandits before, I'm sure he's statement would be different .

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psalmsjob:
He be like say dem never shoot gun around you before.... All guns wey dem don shoot and terrorist attack how many have you gone on to defend or resist? If no get money to buy banger use that one to illustrate how the country hot for you reach but no come gaslight us later Christmas no sweet even banger no loud... We know una tricks mile away

This is the same concept they used in most northern states to silent Christmas celebrations, go to some northern states and see how Christmas celebration isn't like before. As if the sound of knockouts and gun na thesame

spencekat:
Just like someone said above, it means the God who sees me. Read:-Genesis 16:13

Gen 16:13 Kjv

And she called the name of the Lord that spake unto her, Thou God seest me: for she said, Have I also here looked after him that seeth me?

Where you see El Roi?

acunon:
What kind of issue??

it's showing lines and it sometimes show blurry people, I was told it's a screen issue.

Ybholy:
Felicity Solar Products Available here

What's kva for the smallest hybrid inverter (12v or 24v) you have and how much

acunon:
Bumpp

Please can you fix screen issue for TCL 43" android tv.

The model number is: 43P715

Hypnotise:
Guy man, no dey advise OS. Who you wan make she leave the work for? The simple truth is that many women will prefer to use their center of excellence to work instead of using their brain.

You dey enjoy something and dem go still pay you ontop, if na you, you go want stop am?

richmond500:
just because u won 3 in a row.

Ole Gunnar won 5 in a row and still was a disaster.

please don't ever call Ole a disaster, that guy was a superb coach, check Man U stat before Ole and when he was the coach. The problem Ole had, was the club bringing in Ronaldo, Ole never needed Ronaldo and he never made a bid for him.

Na something else dey do this lady. Seem like he hit a nerve. He's talking about bad character and the lady just proved him right

snowland:
That does not look like a locally made bomb. And that guy isn't properly dressed for such dangerous task.

I agree 👍

anonimi:
If he and others are truly men of God with great followership then why is our country such a hellhole of deprivation and suffering from poverty and unemployment?

Because the Bible made it clear that they're somethings that belong to Ceaser in this world.

UnknownQueen:
Growing up, he didn't let us celebrate our birthdays, he would always make reference to the wife of Herod who asked for the head of John the baptist on a Charger (plate), saying birthday is evil and sinful, but we are in the 21st century and he tried to modify this part of the doctrine and many more ....It is well is all I can say , cos this man made my childhood very stale and boring.......
Home...... School......Church........No fun at all

There was nothing like boring during the good old days, except for Gen Z dem

Johans2023:
Anybody that can rescue us from the hands of this evil APC

Tinubu better pass El rufai

Angelfrost:
So far, so good for the UCL Landlords.

Marcos Llorente must be high... Lol. What a miss!


Congrats to Real Madrid!

If another team can help them eliminate Barcelona, they just might be retaining that UCL for another ridiculous time.


UCL constantly favoring these guys in white!

U sabi.

Madrid has high possibility rate to reach final, the only tumbling block is Barca another interesting match would be PSG

Franzinni:
I swear down!

If I dey that community nah to japa Because e fit sup.

no be E fit sup, E go definitely sup