₦airaland Forum

Sirchiboy:
Good day guys abeg which country I fit apply for with 4m.
Recently sold my car I use to do uber after one year of unproductive journey in the business.
I decided to sell it off.
I wanted to do business but am not business inclined.
This country don tire me.

Kobojunkie:
➜ But in your previous comment you asserted that some men ought not to be expected to exercise self-control/self-discipline in marriage meaning you expect them to behave much like nymphos and perverts. You should try to keep up with your own claims. 🤨

➜ The Western world is not beyond sex. They simply understand well that even in marriage, self-control/self-discipline is to be exercised. There are consequences for those who do not, and it does
not matter what led up to what.

Kobojunkie:
Self-control get limit? Do you realize that is some of the same inane excuse men who end up raping their own daughters give? 🤨

2. Sex is very important in marriage? Why not marry a sex machine instead?

3. Reading your kind of response, it becomes very clear why an entire nation of over 200 million black people is the way it is today. Confidence in bed is your priority at this time and point in history. Na wa oo!

Kobojunkie:
1. Let me get this straight, what you are trying to argue here is that there are men who cannot be expected to exercise self-discipline/ self-control of any kind. Is that really what you are trying to tell us here?

2. Again, what you are insinuating is that these men you describe cannot be expected to have any ounce of self-control as all human beings ought to and are expected to have in any society. That's really your argument in this 2024 wey we dey?

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't tell anyone because if at this age you still don't know that sexual energy can be expended in other non-sexual ways, then the problem is most likely born of your general immaturity.

turmacs:
Make God just answer my prayers, I'll be there next year to show them beauty they have never seen in their lives before. Maybe na there sef i go see better oyinbo money bag wey go come pay my dowry, shior. 🌚 Even if it's not an oyinbo money bag sef, he can be a black one but as long as he's a money bag I'm fine... Ohh God when? 😭

Felicity001:
Are you the one that just inspected the car now? How did you see it? Is anything different from.what I stated?

Even the mechanic confirm the engine okay.

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders,

Please read to the end, It'd be quite an episode.

My marriage of 6 months has almost finally come to an end.

On my previous thread I have posted a lot about trouble we've been having during and after the marriage.

- How she manipulated me with her tears into marrying her despite the fact that I wasn't in anyway ready.

- How she manipulated me with her tears, and refused my pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony, therfore giving way for her pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony. And called me all sorts of names while crying when I refused and insisted that my pastor will be the one to do it.

Plus other's that I cannot even remember.




Now back to the topic, I will be extremely sincere to you all, I won't add anything and will not remove any. Everything started two day's ago, I was lying on the bed and she came to me crying and begging for me to love her that she's tired of begging for my love all the time, that I should give her just 1% of the love that I've for our son. Just 1% is all that she asked for, I didn't answer her, but later told her that I've tried in the past and still trying but the love isn't there naturally that maybe it's because she forced me into marriage when I'm not in anyway ready that in my wildest dream I never believed that I'd be a married man this year. Then she started crying heavily, went to look for rope and started strangling her neck that she will kill herself that there's no life for her to live, I rescued her. Then, I went to bath and before I came back she has locked the room door, I was hearing endless cough outside the door and pleaded with her to open the door but no response. Thank God the door key is somewhat faulty, I managed to open the door and saw that her eyes are already extremely red and spit drooping out of her mouth, the rope was so very extremely tight to her neck. "I'm still wondering until date how she managed to hold on tight and not let go despite the great pain she was in" next she went tho get knife that she'd stab herself. I was late for work and with the anger inside of me, I walked out of the house, she called me on video call immediately and showed me that this is the end that I should take care of out baby, I immediately ended the call, put my two phones on flight mode until I few hours later.

Immediately I on my phone my mom called me, she has reported a lot to my mom, my mom talked to me and when the heat was too much I walked out of her.

After that day, which is a day before yesterday, she totally changed, she no longer respect me, she talks to me anyhow, she insult me and talk back at me. These are things she does when I newly met her until she totally changed, now she has turned to something else, she bought a school form without even informing me. Two weeks ago she brought one of her friend to stay with us without informing me, when I confronted her she said she forgot.

Today she told me that I'm treating her bad and expect her not to revolt and continue keeping quiet, that this is the end road for me. I guessing that she got this advice from a friend, because she told her friend that she met at antinental everything that has been going on and she gave her some advice.


Today a huge quarrel broke out today which I'm clearly the cause, we were watching a Nigerian movie and I saw a chubby girl and complimented her that she's sweet that this is the kind of body I like that I'm going to search for her on Instagram just to see more of her. I said all this because I've been singing in her ears that I love dark skinned or chocolate women that are extremely chubby or fat. She also don't always fail to tell me that she's on weight reduction therapy "I'm always pained whenever I hear this words from her because she's not in anyway fat, she's fair too and rubbing cream to make her fair more, all these is paining me, she knew what I want but always doing the opposite. I can't resist a chubby girl, but coming home to see her how slim she's always makes me so heartbroken and weak.

The quarrel led to insult, we started insulting each other. She told me to shut up, that I'm an idiot bastard, a fool at 30, mumu, Goat etc.

And I insulted her as well, I'm pained by her insult because as she's supposed to give me some respect.


During the heat of the quarrel while we were still dating, I reminded her how she cheated on me by going to sleep with a stranger In a hotel until dawn, and denied that nothing happened, that the man didn't touch her.

I got to know all this when I she was sleeping and I used her finger print to open her phone and saw her chat between her and her room mate In school, she was still a student then.

"her friend asked her not to go, but she refused and went, on the chat she made mentioned that she didn't shaved that she'd be ashamed if the guy want to have sex with her.

When I saw her chat she blamed me, that I didn't gave her attention on that particular day. This is a woman whom I'm always chatting with all the time, except that particular day that I was extremely busy and told her that I'd be busy but when I'm less busy we'll chat. She said I told her that I was busy but I was online on whatsapp that she sent me messages but I never opened them, that her emotions got the best part of her.

I also reminded her of how she chatted a guy that was always disturbing her. She told the guy that she's ready to date him that he should go and rent house so that she would be coming to sleep there. What made her to write the guy? We had a quarrel, her friend that our last born was far older than, insulted me and instead of her to scold her friend she joined her friend and starter insulting me that I was the one at fault. Note : we were still dating back then when all this happened, today's argument made me to remind her.

I also reminded her of her chat with her friend when she told her friend that I'm a broke guy she's just managing.

But she said she was naive then that things have changed now which I can't deny. I then told her that I will call a family meeting and state all these that sha did during the past, I won't have done it but all her 4 sisters excluding her mom and one of her sister, think I met her a virgin, the remaining 4 of her sisters think I met her a virgin, so I want them to know that I didn't met her a virgin that she has already dis virgined when I met her.


Now back to the deal breaker, she said everything on my body is small including my penis, that whenever she's holding my penis when not erect, God forbid that it looks like a baby's penis. That God forbid our son having such a small penis.

Then I told her that her vagina is very wild that I don't feel anything when having sex with her, that all the prostitutes and my ex that I've slept with are far tighter and sweeter than her that she's has the worst and bitter vagina I've ever tasted in all my life and day to day existence.

Then she kept on hitting about my small penis that my penis is small and that's why I haven't felt anything. Then I told her how many girl's that have cummed during sex, even prostitutes. "Note, I'm not lying, this is 100% true" Then she said I'm lying, that my penis only long but it's small bla bla bla.

Few minutes later, I dressed up and went to church, while going she again called me a Goat, a fool and a Dog.


The decision I intend taking, I intend doing out child's dedication next week Sunday, so in order for anything not to connect us ever again after I've gotten back my bride price.

I have blocked her both numbers on whatsapp and Facebook, and on calls although she doesn't know yet. "note : this is the very first time that I'm blocking her, ever since when we started dating, no matter the quarrel and provocation, I haven't ever done this ever before.

Nothing and absolutely nothing will make this marriage work ever again, I intend calling a family meeting immediately after the dedication to state my mind that the marriage has ended and she should leave.

To me, this marriage ended a long time ago right from the very first day she manipulated me with her suicide attempt and endless tears and calling me wicked, heartless. In which I couldn't bear and I agreed to marry her despite the fact that I wasn't ready, the love wasn't there and above all I wasn't sexually attracted to her. I wasted 4 million plus in getting married to her February this year, and I have accepted my fate. I will do the dedication and call the family meeting to make my stance known.

Thank you all for reading, although I've already made a decision but I'd appreciate your contributions and what you think about all that happened.

Felicity001:
I already stated the condition
Come and inspect if you're interested

janeedema:
"When you marry a woman who cannot deliver naturally?"

I wish I understood this statement.

Are there women who choose not to deliver naturally? Isn't it circumstances that makes CS an option? Of course, aside from those woman who are woke and just want it.

Your statement is so insensitive.

Felicity001:
Hmm... can't remember

anuoreangel:
Still selling

Size 40-46

5 pairs above 22,000/pair
Less than 5 pairs 23,000/pair

1 pair 23,500

07013050882
Nationwide delivery available

AlphaNugget:
Ask.

You paid her bride price. It is your right.

Meanwhile, OGs can know from how slack the pußsy is 🤥

Felicity001:
Sir
Bring 3.5m make I gift u d far...lol

sonofyisa:
I can tell you that it is all real. Where I come from we have heard and seen dead people being rescued from the thick forest by the falani's and brought back to there families after undergoing series of spiritual cleansing.Though those kind of people are considered to have died as a result of a witchcraft..

Ybholy:
All available.

The solar fan is slightly cheaper now.

All solar lights readily available in store.

You can come and pick it up or place an order.

Payment on delivery in Lagos for Lights

Payment before delivery for other items.
How much for solar fan

Call or WhatsApp O9O4OO54359

highchief1:
I won’t pay it

chuksvoice:
Okay glad to hear that, I guess you are a lucky one

drdru99:
my previous 13pro also suffered from the green screen issue....avoid it if you can

Doyenro23:
Even iPhone avoid 13pro make you no turn old taker

Ajoray:
Too low

Ajoray:
As good as new. iPhone 11 Pro 64gb for sale

Djdannyb4u:
I have a similar problem. Mine is galaxy S8 & I intend to sell it. Can anyone make me an offer?

Franking:
Anyone but Tinumbu. His incompetence was as clear as daylight from day one.

DeepsightX:
I cant see an Obi buying a new Presidential Jet of that size in such an economic atmosphere. I cant see him giving N200 Million to each NASS member. I cant see Atiku removing subsidies without doing it gradually and floating the naira instantly afterwards.

DeepsightX:
Obi would have been better because of his prudence and lack of impunity and extravagance.
Atiku would have been better because of his experience at the Federal level. There are many mistakes Tinubu has made which Atiku would not make because of his experience.

Franking:
We see road enter bush because of tribalism. Day never even break.

chuksvoice:
Not fixable, unless you change the screen