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EgbeAbali:
And if I tell you that they go to meet the Ladyboys will you believe it?it's more like exploring...but now,most of the white tourists are going for African prostitutes in Thailand and it's causing problems with their host!

Interesting. Good to know

I have been in Seattle for 7 years and I am a Nigerian woman. I get a lot of attention from white men and all my boyfriends including my recent one has been white.

I live in a white neighbourhood and I have had lots of best friends that are white male. The young white men talk about going abroad when they are older to a younger wife from countries like Thailand or Vietnam or Columbia if they want a Latina girl.

Fear did not let me ask if they go to Africa but I met an older white man who asked if I was Kenyan and told me he also goes there on “tourist,” vacations.

I do know that some white men go to these countries just for sex. High key example is that Russian guy in Kenya, Ghana and Uganda. The countries he went to are the only popular African countries these white men young (socially awkward), and old choose if they want a non Afro Latina or Asian wife.

I feel so bad for Nigerian women because they think the only way they can scale through in this bad economy is by japa and working like slaves and getting tuition debt on their heads.

Meanwhile I have a Filipina neighbor who is my age mate (mid 20s), and she is married to a 60 something year old white man with a big belly. He took her straight from the Philippines and she doesn’t work just clean and cook.

Many Nigerian women are going through serious poverty and stressing their male counterparts.

Here Nigerian men are easily partnering with white women to do 50-50, and I highly encourage it.

I also have a white boyfriend and I learnt how to date them through my white female friends. Some of my white male friends give me pointers For example, a lot of white men like sexually liberated women. I have not yet gotten shamed or asked about my body count.

The white guys have asked me to hookup and some for relationship. I sometimes feel like a white woman because these kind of things are frowned upon for Nigeria. You just have to pick right because some guys are very racist and you don’t want to find out when he is saying nonsense to you while on top of you.

You might be asking why I am saying this on Nairaland. I want to open Nigerian women’s minds to find ways to advertise themselves to men abroad. The Kenyan women specifically are winning us 1-0 in this. Kenya is the most popular place for tourist looking for African wives. Be it white men or black American or black Nigerian men.

Also, white men want a sexually liberated woman. When I was first asked for hookup I thought it would make me look more valuable in their eyes to be untouched as I was initially a virgin.

But as they pointed out two girls that were having fun and were most likely to get married regardless (their mama did it too when they were younger), I gave in and I don’t regret it.

There is a growing stereotype that African women are terrible in bed. When Nigerian women come here especially if you are slim (Nigerian men don’t like this), and you have a face with less wide features try to adapt to the white man’s culture.

It is truly sad the situation.

I have been in Toronto for 7 years and I am a Nigerian woman with light skin. I get a lot of attention from white men and all my boyfriends including my recent one has been white.

I live in a white neighbourhood and I have had lots of best friends that are white male. The young white men talk about going abroad when they are older to a younger wife from countries like Thailand or Vietnam or Columbia if they want a Latina girl.

Fear did not let me ask if they go to Africa but I met an older white man who asked if I was Kenyan and told me he also goes there on “tourist,” vacations.

I do know that some white men go to these countries just for sex. High key example is that Russian guy in Kenya, Ghana and Uganda. The countries he went to are the only popular African countries these white men young (socially awkward), and old choose if they want a non Afro Latina or Asian wife.


I feel so bad for Nigerian women because they think the only way they can scale through in this bad economy is by japa and working like slaves and getting tuition debt on their heads.

Meanwhile I have a Filipina neighbor who is my age mate (mid 20s), and she is married to a 60 something year old white man with a big belly. He took her straight from the Philippines and she doesn’t work just clean and cook.

Many Nigerian women are going through serious poverty and stressing their male counterparts.

Here Nigerian men are easily partnering with white women to do 50-50, and I highly encourage it.

I also have a white boyfriend and I learnt how to date them through my white female friends. Some of my white male friends give me pointers For example, a lot of white men like sexually liberated women. I have not yet gotten shamed or asked about my body count.

The white guys have asked me to hookup and some for relationship. I sometimes feel like a white woman because these kind of things are frowned upon for Nigeria. You just have to pick right because some guys are very racist and you don’t want to find out when he is saying nonsense to you while on top of you.

You might be asking why I am saying this on Nairaland. I want to open Nigerian women’s minds to find ways to advertise themselves to men abroad. The Kenyan women specifically are winning us 1-0 in this. Kenya is the most popular place for tourist looking for African wives. Be it white men or black American or black Canadian men.

Also, white men want a sexually liberated woman. When I was first asked for hookup I thought it would make me look more valuable in their eyes to be untouched as I was initially a virgin.

But as they pointed out two girls that were having fun and were most likely to get married regardless (their mama did it too when they were younger), I gave in and I don’t regret it.

There is a growing stereotype that African women are terrible in bed. When Nigerian women come here especially if you are slim (Nigerian men don’t like this), and you have a face with less wide features try to adapt to the white man’s culture.

Your future husband might be waiting for you.