IAMSASHY:
nice points, distance relationship is nt 4 kids, sumone like me cnt date a guy in same state

lol, why not?

McBrooklyn:
On a more serious note... Nowadays, it's kinda difficult to date a lady for 5 - 10 years, you gotta step down and give another Nigga a chance and stop being a Mugabe...

kuku kee me with laff, you hear!!

[img][/img][img][/img]AWESOME TIPS TO MAKE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LAST

http://www.empressing.com.ng/2017/11/awesome-tips-to-make-long-distance.html

AWESOME TIPS TO MAKE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LAST
Hey, guys, it's been a long time right, yeah.
I apologize for the break, my laptop broke down but its back and running now.
I'm so glad to be back, hope you are too.
Relationships are tough, stressful and demanding, especially long distance relationships. You've got to tolerate more, communicate more and trust more.
A lot of people believe that long-distance relationships never really work out. Just go on and ask your family and your friends. You'd find out that majority of them discourage it.
However,
long-distance relationships work out too, just like some close relationships.
I recently asked a group on facebook about this topic and I've read some testimonies about its success.
It may be tough but it sure as hell works.
To keep sparks alive and the going here are some tips to make your long-distance relationship last.

1.COMMUNICATION


In the screenshots above, most of the comments agree on one thing, "Communication".
Remember how often you two talked while you were close?
Now there has to be an extra dose of that. Talk often on the phone, in letters, and whatever communication means you find.
Social media has made it easier for us to connect with everyone around the globe, utilize it. Go on to try video calls and night calls too before you both sleep.
Never go a day without talking, don't do it.
If your job is too demanding that you can't talk at a particular time, set a schedule that both matches your time.
And when you can't answer, be sure to give a valid reason why you didn't.
Constant communication no matter how minor bridges the gap between you two and helps keeps the other aware and informed of what's going on in your life.
You really don't have to go all serious when you talk, talk about other stuff, minor things that don't really matter.
Like your new neighbor, a movie you just saw or book you're reading.
-so, keep talking-
2. DIRTY TALKING


If your relationship isn't serious or defined, you might want to avoid this.
Sex isn't just a biological need, it's an emotional one too. Since you both are separated by distance bring in some romance into your communication to keep the sparks flaming and alive.
Send each other teasing naughty texts, if you're both serious about each other, you can send each other nudes too.
Please, if you ain't both serious about each other, never, I mean never send your nudes. To avoid being blackmailed in the future when your relationship crashes.

3.BUILD TRUST

Every relationship should be based on trust, if you don't trust em, don't date em.
Avoid situations that will bring your trust to question.
Stay away from your ex.
Yeah, you heard me. If they were that good to be around you shouldn't have left.
Besides, if it is something important, your partner should be informed beforehand to clear all doubts.

4.VISIT OFTEN


Visitation is very important in a long distance relationship. Because after all the time apart, you'll finally meet to enjoy all the little things like cuddling, kissing, etc,
Are these things very special in a long distance relationship because it happens like "once in a full moon"?
So plan visiting calenders, have fun, go to the movies, play games together.


5.HAVE A COMMON GOAL


Define your relationship, this is so important because it will help you both set your goals.
Ask yourselves :
"what about the future"
"how long are we going to be apart?"
"What do we intend to achieve at the end?"
You need answers to all these, so go on and ask yourselves.
You two need to be on the same page and share similar goals. So you'll know that even if you're apart now, you both are still working towards a future that includes one another.
You both cant be in a relationship forever, someday, you will want to settle down and make a family.
And when you do, please invite me to your wedding, please.

Lol, I'm looking forward to an invitation, really.
Thing is long distance relationships work too. Apply these tips and don't forget to pray for you both.
If there are any more tips you believe can help people in long-distance relationships or that has worked for you, feel free to drop it in the comment section.
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IamKashyBaby:


Ooh i love dating myself..

Its close to 4yrs now & i find it appeasing..l love so much myself that i wud hardly trust someone juz to hurt me

But ofcurz i wanna share some bits to someone i adore..IamJ plz be careful with my heart

That's the right attitude, love yourself, nobody can do a better job at that than you.

daneni1:
Well, it seems the tip is for the female folks. Nice one dear.

Thank you sir

Alagbada1:
That number 2 is very very essential.. I love that.

Thank you

[quote author=Dracoe post=59951940]Your topic says six, in your post you mentioned five
Scam alert ⚠

And all this is something one should do even without having the aim of entering a relationship. [/quote

I Mis-counted, alright?

6 MUST DO THINGS BEFORE GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP




Falling in love is pretty easy huh? You don't have to consider a thing, most times you have no idea you've actually fallen in love. Yeah, I've been there.
Start crushing, moon a few nights even without wanting to and that ache begins to take shape in your heart. And you only realize later that you've actually fallen.
Easy as pizzy!
But hey, the hard work begins after commitment, whether courtship/dating or marriage.
It's difficult, making a relationship work, it takes much more than extra effort and grit.
Having someone you can share your life with and confide in can be really comforting but most times we rush into relationships before we are even ready. Mostly because we believe or think that someone can make us happy when the real happiness is within us.And a lot of relationships have ended because of this, mine did.
However, if you seriously want to have a fulfilling and comforting relationship with someone, here are some things you must do before jumping right


1.FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE.

One of my favorite quotes is "Know Thyself" by Socrates.
DO I need to say more...really?
We often jump to a conclusion about situations we haven't taken time to study, the same way we often jump into relationships without figuring out who we are and what we really want.
Nobody can do that for us, nobody can do that for you. Find out who you are, take time to explore yourself, figure out your happiness, your strength, your weakness.
It will take a lot of discipline and courage to learn to accept and love yourself as you are but at the end, you'd be happier.


2.GET A JOB!

Yeah, you heard me, go get a job!
Or better still create one for yourself.
Nobody wants a liability, alright?
He might really love you but that doesn't sentence him to a life sentence of catering for all your expenses.
Get a job before you get in a relationship, whatever it is you want to do. Do it before you jump!
If you've got a job that gives you trouble, drop it, get a job that makes you happy.
That way, you are likely to attract someone ambitious.


4.DATE YOURSELF

Now, this is the plan: take yourself out, buy yourself stuffs, love yourself because nobody can do that better than you.
And you can't really love someone when you don't love yourself.
Self-love should be your driving force.
Understand that you deserve to be loved, don't begin to think that you are not good enough, that's bullshit!
Go on and fall in love with yourself and you'll attract better people.


5.ACCEPT OTHER PEOPLE

You know, I tell myself everytime I get the urge to strangle someone that" we are made differently for a purpose, and that life be so boring if we all acted the same way."
You've got to learn that others don't exist to satisfy your expectations, they don't exist to make you happy.
Accept them for who they are, If you can't do that, then how do you expect another to accept with all your baggage.

6.LET GO OF THE PAST.

We've all had things happen to us that we would rather forget. The more you dwell on them, the more they hurt. Let go of the people who are no longer in your life, move on. You can't possibly move forward if you're still thinking about your last failed relationship.
Rather, think about what it has taught you and learn from it.
You see, whatever it is, love yourself, love yourself! Let go of the past, forgive them and forgive yourself, you'd be happier for the good decisions you chose.
So, guys, that's it for now. I had a blog post ready for Saturday but it turned out to be one horrifying day for me, as I nearly lost my mother but she's okay now.
Expect my testimony soon,
See ya.
www.empressing.com.ng

Acidosis:
Single mothers are super heroes. Fine!



What about married (mothers) women?

Whether married or not, a mother who sticks around to raise her children is a superhero. I'm not putting off women who have a man beside them, I'm only stating that those other women who do not have the support of a man and still overcome all odds to raise their kids deserve to be celebrated.

enoqueen:
Op, u for just continue your story o..

I will.

Inanna:
It's very obvious you did not read the post. You don't know how ridiculously stupid you sound. The single mother being referred to above is the one which the writer's useless and irresponsible father left his legally married wife for another twàt.
And it's always easy for you to open that rancid hole in your face to slut shame single mothers as if they are the ones that impregnated themselves. And yes, they are superheroes. It wouldn't take them anything to go the easy way and abort the baby, but no, they take responsibilities for their actions and actually raise up the child. It's a very laudable decision to make and just so you know, no one is above mistakes.

It's a good thing there are still people with sense in this country. Thank you.

6 REASONS WHY SINGLE MOTHERS ARE SUPERHEROES


I recall about !5 years ago when a bike ran me over. I was a few distance away from our compound playing with other kids from my nursery school when the accident happened. When news got to my mum, she ran all the way from the house, scooped me up into her arms and
ran straight to the Hospital, which is quite a distance from our home.

That was just mum being just mum. She never had to wear a cape, or mask. Throw webs or climb walls. Or fly over the sky like Kara Zo-El. Yet she was and still is my Wonder Woman. An amazing superhero.

When father left us for my step-mother, I didn't feel the loss, seriously, I doubt if any of my siblings did. Mostly because he was never really around. He was in one state, city or the other. So we never missed him but I knew my mum did miss him.
But she never allowed it to stop her from doing her best for her children.
I don't miss my father, I love him, of course, but I don't miss him because mum was always there.
She was both mother, father, she was everything.

Unlike some mothers who have white-collar jobs, my mum was a farmer, she still is though. The woman enjoys farming like no one I've ever known. With the proceeds from her farms, she paid our school fees, fed us, gave us everything a normal child could have.
She was there when we woke up and when we went to bed.

Although the society continues to look on single mothers with scorn and disgust, they have been and still will be the biggest overcomers of parenting and child care.

Growing up with my single mother, these are my 6 reasons why single mums are superheroes.

#1EMOTIONAL BALANCE

You know that thing Vampires and Werewolves do when they are hurt or injured: they heal themselves.
My memories from the time my father left are not really sharp but I never saw my mum depressed. Sad? yeah. I have seen her sad but depressed and mourning my dads' departure? No, mother never did that.
She always put on a happy face, maybe she was not happy inside but she never let it show.

Read: Happy Father's Day - A Single Mum's Story
#2MULTI-TASKING

You find single mothers doing three things at a time. She is in the kitchen, a second later she's helping Her kid wash his body,
reasons 3,4,5 and 6 are so true, find out now http://www.empressing.com.ng/2017/06/6-reasons-why-single-mothers-are.html

HOW TO BREAK UP WITHOUT CAUSING HEARTBREAK

Break up is one hell of a sucker, it hurts like hell.
How do you tell the person you once loved or still love that the relationship is over?
Truth is, breaking up with someone is difficult and can be devastating , you are rejecting someone you promised love and it's pretty nerve wrecking working up the courage.


but hey, when you gather the courage to do so, how do you break it off without causing a lot of heartbreak.
seriously, you need to consider that because heartbreak is not something you'd want to experience so don't go out dishing it out to people like it's pizza or.Nigerian jollof rice.
Cos honey, that shit hurts like hell, kills self esteem and can really mess up a persons life and their idea about love.
So before you go running off the mouth about how tired you are of the relationship,here..take a seat.. yeah ... that's it, now let's talk about how you can call it off without ruining someone's life.



Maybe you started dating and your relationship goes official, you're seen together most of the times. your friends get to find out and his friend knows too.
you both are on facebook, instagram, twitter and all social media platforms together all the time. but then you stop having fun or you're totally crushing on someone else, so you want out.
But how do you do that?


DON'T IGNORE OR DODGE
Ignoring someone by not returning their texts or not picking their calls and dodging them when you meet outside is really dumb. although this might seem the best way out but having it done to you seriously hurts.
instead of ignoring them, meet them and give hints that show that you don't want to be in the relationship any longer.
One thing you should never do is leave someone without an explanation, they might just die in self guilt blaming themselves.

Read more here http://www.empressing.com.ng/2017/06/how-to-break-up-without-causing.html

busybrain123:

Thanks a lot...
Yea am good in HTML and CSS and I use both phone and PC I have downloaded the theme and now my blog has a new look. Check it out
www.mytechmore..com

i just viewed your blog,the theme is cool but you still need to work on it. edit your social handles, add a header logo, a navigation menu and edit your footer, other things will come later.

busybrain123:

Thanks a lot...
Yea am good in HTML and CSS and I use both phone and PC I have downloaded the theme and now my blog has a new look. Check it out
www.mytechmore..com

you're welcome

busybrain123:
www.mytechmore..com
Please how do I download and edit theme and buy domain name.

Are youu good in html?
what device are you using, a phone or pc?

you can search for a theme in your niche online and download it, then work on your css and html.
here's my blog www.empressing..com . I downloaded the theme then went ahead to work on it, I'm a personal blogger though.

Jeffboi:


Efe-nation cares




E pain am #tboss

lmao..dis wan weak me!

www.empressing..com .i've applied 2times . here's my email lydiaamadichinyere@gmail.com

here's mine www.empressing..com please help me.

Progressive01:
Calling that man an Ineffectual Buffoon is an insult to buffoons. He is worse than that quite frankly.

if its alright with you, for a foreign newspaper to call your ex-ruler an "ineffectual buffoon", you should definitely not be a homo sapien!