₦airaland Forum

DaddyRochie1642:
Your English and your writing is good for an Ssce holder.

This is senseless.

Roland17:
I Dey tell you! If you read my previous comments you will see where I called out the referee. It was very obvious he was against us. But good thing the guys pulled through. On our end we have to tighten our plays especially when we are up.

I agree,but in that game,save for when the ref starting to brain fart,we were coasting home with clean sheet.

I can't wait for our next game.

Roland17:
We have to keep our composure. We are self sabotaging ourselves in games where we concede..

Atalanta 2-3 Milan

We sit 2nd behind Napoli

FORZAMILAN

We were fine until the ref decided to be unfortunate.

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

This advice is golden.

Golden147:
Smile, yes bro...

Maybe because I didn't add I have got a house (4 bedroom flat) land properties too... what I don't have now as a man is car bro... anyways I won't dig deep about myself... I know myself just want to be sure of my marriage...
In my community a young guy at 22 that knows what his doing can get marry and settle perfectly fine...

What delayed me till now is my education.. I hope you understand now?

Then what are you complaining about and creating thread for?

One minute you sound broke and pitiful,the next you're bragging.

Juliusmomoh:
Them plenty sef... But not attractive

For real?

Rotiix:
I've never seen any politician in a foreign political space flaunt looted wealth like this, no wonder we are still living in the stone age

Can only be seen in Africa,Nigerians especially.

���dont fret.People who usually make such statements from experience,always fall helplessly in love with time.

She's just been careful and protecting her heart from another ache,remember once bitten......

Just continue doing you and treating her right,you do be amazed.

BeLookingIDIOT:
This one has close to 500 naira in his account and he's complaining.

Guy you be fool����

I didn't mean to laugh but the comment funny die.

Op,take most of the advice giving to you here.I also think you need genuine friends in your life that you guys will constantly brain storm about anything and everything.

I know that hopelessness feeling,I think we all have been there at one point in our life.

Suicide is never an option bro and quit entertaining those thoughts.

Since my time on NL,I have never seen so much out pour of genuine concern and encouragement on any post from all genders.

Its touching and unbelievable,I wish you the best.

You will come back to this post and laugh someday.

Keep pushing and believing.

opey112:
This our leaders are misplaced priority.... We they should focus on Local govenrment hospitals.. fill it with drugs..... Repair local govenrment roads,,, give us street lights,give us water .... My question is , where are there children's? Why are they not giving there children sewing machines and Keke marwa?

Typo or English isn't your strongest point?

hefelove:
Omo see comments. LMAO no wonder the man no dey use nairaland again

Its disheartening to be honest.

So much from the"youths".

I'm ashamed.

Naijaguy12345:
This man ruined a lot of life in Nigeria through his Bet9ja nonsense especially the virtual games.

Stop with the hate and lies.

He never forced you or anyone to gamble.

Give honor where its due.