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CrimeRe: Big Guy Nabbed After Stealing Iphone 14 Pro Max From Owner In Abuja (Photos) by Recuse(m): 10:44pm On May 12, 2025
shortgun:
Same phone i gifted my side chick last month.
Damn, people are really suffering in this country
Pls boss gift me something to buy foodstuffs st Home for my family Pls 🙏
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Brazil Announces Carlo Ancelotti As Head Coach by Recuse(m): 8:58pm On May 12, 2025
Martinelli can play now
PoliticsRe: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Recuse(m): 4:00pm On May 12, 2025
Lol
FamilyRe: Pastor’s Daughter Reveals Why She’ll Never Seek Marriage Advice From A Pastor by Recuse(m): 3:15pm On May 12, 2025
Kobojunkie:
What do you expect from people who scam other people for a living hiding their lies behind the mention of deities they themselves have never interacted with? undecided
Aside from pastors. The Average Nigerian is wicked and heartless. I know how I'm suffering now and can't get help
FoodRe: I Caught This Bush Rat In Area This Morning by Recuse(m): 3:11pm On May 12, 2025
Good for you
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 3:03pm On May 12, 2025
Obaaderemi2:
The woman would tell people you are a lazy man. To them once a man hasn't made it he is lazy
That's not it. He knew I was hardworking and was showing lots of concern for me. But u know how people are. They can show empathy yet spoiling and denting your image
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 11:48am On May 12, 2025
chigo32:
In any societies or country, food is d cheapest something a common man will buy, bt in nigerian food is very expensive for a common man to buy all thanks to bad leadership, too pathetic. Wat our politician are thinking is 2027 election, hw to win election and u will see some stupid people supporting and praising their name. I spit on our stupid leaders and dose dat are supporting dem, wat dey know is stealing our common wealth all to their self and family
My brother, na only fit save me today. No hope of survival at all
HealthWhy Do People Commit Suicide? by Recuse(op): 10:49am On May 12, 2025
Yesterday I witnessed how someone took his life by hanging himself to a tree. Same young man was battling severe Depression resulting from Indebtedness. Those who he was indebted to were always embarrassing and disgracing him in the open. And he had no other option than to take the easiest way out. Constant shaming obviously leads to depression and low self-esteem.

While I'm not justifying his act, nobody would have known the severity of his plight except those who are very close to Him. And same people are his Betrayers.
I believe he would have sought help from his friends and families to enable him pay those who he owed but I guess nobody listened to him.
I used to have a neighbor, a woman, a police officer too. We fetch water from her compound. This woman has two kids still in primary sch and her husband is also a high ranking police officer too. Over time, as I fetch water, she picked interest in me, drew me closer to herself. Some times, she would send her househelp to bring me some cooked food since I'm a bachelor. I saw her like a mother I never had. I opened up to her as regards my struggles. I told her about my family and everything cos I trusted her. But in the end, the whole neighborhood got to hear my story from her. What can be more painful than this?

The point is, people who we trust and can open up to, have failed us countless times. They even go on to exaggerate the matter by padding the real narratives. This accounts for why many people take their lives. We are living in a wicked World. Except your parents and siblings, nobody is going to listen to you. Not even your pastors. Pastor go use u preach on Sunday.
At a point last month, I wanted to follow this route. But I said no. I considered my loved ones, even though I still can't Open up to them about my struggles. They are times I wish that God should take my life when I'm sleeping.
To everyone, please let's be our Brother's keepers. Let's make the world a better place.

Life is indeed hard. But let's not be dispirited.
If you've overcome hunger such that no matter how broke you get, food can Never be a challenge to you, you don't know what God has done for u. Hunger is the worst thing that can happen to anyone. This is where you lose your senses completely.

If you can't help people, do Not talk down on them. Do not. Nobody is happy being in such situations.
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 10:36am On May 12, 2025
Chief2410:
help me ask am. People when go still mock you after you talk to them
The guy never know wetin dey sup for inside life.
The way they will mock you after u open up to them ehn, you will jus rush and take sniper.

I learnt the hard way after I opened up to a woman I see as a mother
FamilyRe: Pastor’s Daughter Reveals Why She’ll Never Seek Marriage Advice From A Pastor by Recuse(m): 10:30am On May 12, 2025
There are no good pastors anywhere in Nigeria. They are home breakers always dishing out fake prophecies to gullible followers. Some will even try to snatch your wife away from you when you go to them for marital counselling

I CURSE all the fake Pastors in and out of Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Governor Mbah Has Inaugurated NITDA Zonal Office In Enugu by Recuse(m): 10:12am On May 12, 2025
I'm not feeling the impact of any government. Life is hard despite our hardwork.

What is the hope for a man who can feed himself?
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 10:11am On May 12, 2025
Sonofgod1990:
Na arsenal fans. I know the guy
All these callous and insensitive clowns on nairaland. Stop being a dunce
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 10:02am On May 12, 2025
badoh:
Not every suicide should be attributed to economic situation of the country. It could be medical challenges, it could be someone running into debt, some could be threatened, some could be through blackmail, it could also be that a long time secret was about to be exposed, it could also be as a result of DNA result.
Running into debts can be attributed to what?
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 10:01am On May 12, 2025
Mabuggi88:
My hardship may be more and severe than his, yet I don't even know that anything like suicide exist.
In whatever situation, keep going, don't be idle. Talk to someone if you feel you have seen a lot. Depression is real
Who will listen to you?
EducationRe: ASUU Elects Prof. Chris Piwuna As New President by Recuse(m): 9:23am On May 12, 2025
All of them are the same.

Once Tinubu sama dis one 2MILLION naira, him mouth don close.
PoliticsRe: List, Arrival Of Governors, PDP Leaders at Crucial Meeting With Wike (Video) by Recuse(m): 9:21am On May 12, 2025
Tochitee:
wike should make obi his chief of staff.
OBI is Wike's Boss if u don't know.

If u doubt, let PDP/APC make Wike Their presidential candidate and let OBI also be the presidential candidate of Labor Party, then let's vote. When the results are announced, we'll know who should each other's Chief of Staff
HealthYoung Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by Recuse(op): 9:14am On May 12, 2025
A young man in his mid 30s who was a native of Benue State from Logo local govt has taken his own life. The incident occurred yesterday Sunday at about 5pm.
Though details of the ugly incident is still scanty. But neighbors have said that the reason for his action could be connected to the current economic hardship in the country. A neighbor who didn't want her name in print said that the young man has been severally harassed and disgraced by those he owed. He looked like he was battling severe hardship and depression.
His remains have been evacuated and investigations are underway.

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