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immortalcrown:
Yes oh! If her parents sponsor terrorism, I will run.

If her brothers are bandits, I will run.

If her family was excommunicated or banished for atrocities, I will run.

Thanks for your input

budaatum:
You ask about the background, but seem to be unaware that your prediction of the possible outcomes might just be you actually creating eventual outcomes. You at least don't see how your so called predictions might be you determining the future you get.

And note how you've left out your background, which might explain your negative predicting.

I do hope you don't only use your powers to predict negative outcomes, and know that you can equally predict positive outcomes for yourself too.

I'm from a family of 4 children, both parents are retired civil servants.
My elder sister is out of the country working as a caregiver
My immediate younger brother works as a something something analyst with MTN(I've forgotten the name)
Our last born is an auditor with Zenith bank
And then me

Nope, I try to think of all possible outcomes, the good and bad.... I used the skill a lot in medical school to pass some exams

You're yet to help with the answer to my question though

So I posted this on my Whatsapp status earlier today, my mum saw it and still feels it's not enough reason to break up with someone

Last time I traveled home, my mum called me, sat me down and discussed 3 important issues with me:

1. Any quick money scheme or gambling, avoid it
2. Move closer to God, form a relationship with God
3. Get a serious relationship and settle down(marriage)

Mothers sha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

My younger brother's father-in-law died some weeks back. Before his death, he was in the ICU for days, so bills kept accumulating in millions. At the end, he still died and then their is issue of funeral
My younger brother's personal business has been bad for a while, months now. So in a way, he has been struggling, passing through each day by God's grace in this Tinubu's era(the guy na pastor sha). Anyways, it was the same month his father-in-law got sick that he secured a job with MTN through his pastor....
Now the man has a son in the UK who is doing very well and took care of most of the hospital bills and large part of the funeral but you know nah, in Yoruba land, any family you're married to, they've become your family as well. In a way, any shit wey happen for that family go spill reach your side.
The last girl I dated, the day she told me about her family, I ghosted her few days later. As in, all the love cleared for my eyes ni "wham". My eyes opened like Tinubu's own... We later reconcile ooo, but deep down, I wanted a way out. After what she told me, every calculation I did in my mind, the whole marriage would crash in less than 2 years... "See, I like to predict the possible outcomes of event before the beginning. Events that has to do with humans ooi. It's so much FUN".

The only way that relationship/marriage would have worked is for me to have faith as little as a mustard seed during trying times. Se me wey never get faith when everything is "relatively" fine, where I won see faith during gobe.

Now let me give you a breakdown of the family....
Her dad is unemployed, never worked. Her mum left her dad when things became a bit rough and went to marry another man. She works, so not dependent on her daughter.
She has 3 siblings, 1 of the brother is hustling and about to get married, the other brother is a hustling yahoo boy who didn't finish school and is a cultist(she didn't tell me this, but I know how to listen). She has another sister, their last born who is in higher institution.
See, everybody, with the exception of the mum are dependent on her one way or the other, the dad is 100% dependent on her. The dad wanted to change his apartment because the landlord of his former house evicted him. It was my girl that paid for the rent and some little furniture that came along. And I'm sure she also give him money for monthly upkeep(this is someone whose dad was irresponsible to her for her whole life). The sister who is in school is also completely dependent on her sister. The brothers, theirs is intermittently.

Now, their perception of me when they saw me(she has introduced me to her family) is our saviour is here(which saviour, how much doctors dey collect for Nigeria). I have dreams and plan that I want to use money to achieve as well.
My mum, I can call her this evening and ask her to help me send money and she would(I think that's why I have entitlement mentality). So any money I'm giving to her, she doesn't need it to survive, it's just my own very small way of saying thank you for all you've done and all you're still doing for me(me wey dey tell patient make dem no eat catfish, na catfish I chop throughout my stay for house)

The babe is perfect, 100% perfect, 100% God's babe, A VIRGIN, but the family part ehnnn, omo...
I don't ever want to be broke in my life. Getting married to a doctor is going to give me that kind of financial security, but the kind of emotional support that I want, a doctor can't give me. Things that a normal human will see and will make them want to puke, a doctor will see it, smile and say, "interesting case". *In my eyes, no doctor is mentally okay*!!!
The only health worker I can get married to is a nurse, but... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 nurses have shown me shege banza, pro pro pro Max.
Personally, I would prefer a secondary school English teacher, a lawyer or a nurse or an hair stylist!!!

I have people who see me as "all knowing" cause I tell them something will happen in future and it happens.... My sister doesn't want to believe I'm that good sha😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Anyways, if I can look at people relationships and predict how far it will a last. What sense does it make for me to see mine and then shook head into something I know won't work right from the start just because everybody in my family thinks she is the PERFECT fit for me☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😁

Lastly, I've borrowed money from loan app before(not once or twice) because a family member is in need of money and is asking me. I borrowed money from Pablo that year(2023), 50,000naira, to give my girlfriend because she was not happy(she didn't ask me for money oooo, she just said she was unhappy and doesn't know the cause). If anybody from my immediate family is asking me for help and I can't offer it, it will make me hate myself, I'll be sad and mad at myself. In the end I'll just shut everyone out in a way of punishing myself.... Now, imagine this happening in marriage with a wife😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

My mum saw my post and sent a voice note explaining to me that my reason is not enough to leave a good woman.

So my question is, "is the background important or not?"

thatigboman:
how far?

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E shock me like live wire😂😂😂

thatigboman:
top 3 will be the hard one. cola will definitely be evicted but the next will be difficult. i predict sultana or koyin though

Koyin ke, Koyin will be standing next to Imisi on stage

davodyguy:
Osinwi.

Shey na government own MNET and DStv?

Confirm osinwi eniyan!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Estellie:
I’m just imagining how terrible that crocs would look on stage 🤦‍♀️

Omo, I shock when I see am😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

floss:
The reason why you’re not complaining or shouting is because your wife get sense… assuming you married a “men are scum “ lady as a wife… you would have being seeking advice here on how to drive her away without the kids noticing

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scondy:
Woow ...interesting....my shaaaaylaaa..

Touch not my anointed....

.... and do my Sultana no harm😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I've been extremely happy since yesterday because of this faith's eviction even "though" dem never pay salary😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Nkl4u:
It was very obvious

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If you say so....*in Ebuka's voice*

tioluwalasee:
In the interest of fairness, if you call a dentist a doctor in front of doctors, they can knock you

This is NOT true at all😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Nkl4u:
Faith was a top 2. It’s a pity he ended this way

I guess we'll never know!!!😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉

Nkl4u, where you at?!?!?!
Thought I told you....🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚

Godseye70:
I've to put your money where your mouth is.
Bet 50k now. Whoever places higher on Sunday wins

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Alaramamoya or 2Phat🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚







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Allnacruise:
Koyinators / Kokomelons Push ooooo!!!

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tioluwalasee:
Is anyone’s stream on Showmax stuttering? Especially the audio

As in, it was horrible!!!

Geezeem:
I am holding your hand teamie

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ultraviolet27:
so decency is now a derogatory word that the bot had to ban me for? nibayi ti bot ati nairaland ti tan afi pau bii ibon!! and seun keep doing as if you don't hear nairalanders complaints about your bots and do something about it until all members leave your platform the evidence is there on this thread that hasn't reached a thousand pages since the inception of this season!!

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You should be arrested🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Walai:
But why is all the killings in Nigeria not making big news internationally?

Internal affairs 😁😁😁😁

Manfromlasvegas:
Tifay, Isabella was never a bottomite na. I agree with the blessing by association part but bottomite, no way.

Don't mind him or her, before the end of week 2, I posted on my status that Imisi will win and Isabella will get to finals

Olatara:
Pele,
Originality doesn't win BBN.

Miss Olatara, come and see something😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and the guy that likes to argue was saying nonsense the other day

thatigboman:
Dede will win the show Doc. We the viewers will make it happen. Pls vote Dede in the finals and ask your friends to vote her too. Even Dr Faith that sat down yesterday night and talked to her seriously for the 1st time has become her fan. Same with kaybobo.
I really wanted to be a neutral, but after dreaming about Dede for 5 nights straight, I say mba, I must stan this full content girl. 23. And she's just a girl

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Delta IGBO🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

mayor1814:
"... Mo wish lati mowe bi wole soyinka but problem ti mo ni, awon sisi yimika..." - DAGRIN

U made me remember dagrin regarding that sina stuff causing distractions

"MO NI DREAM lati mowe bi Wole Soyinka...."

fitzmayowa:
Mide thinks she is fooling us thinking we didn't see them, she go see video when she comot.......

Best in giving handjob 2025!!!🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

Munzy14:
Alora kuture😁😁

Na MEN dem

It's like a gen Z singing this current song by Nelly word for word😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

LordTheus:
I'm Gen Z and one of my favorite movies is The Breakfast club (1985). I also listen to progressive rock music from the 60s and 70s. There's nothing there.

This is very different
I love movies that were made in the 80s too, Scarface, Godfather, the goodfellas, though I'm not gen Z sha
24 has 8 seasons, each seasons has 24 episodes except for the last season. How will a gen Z sit through that
24 and Prison break are the movies people in my age range watched/liked
Joanna is lying, it's either her age is not correct or she has older siblings who watched the series, not her!!!

femi4:
One hit wonder

Hope you have proper job to take care of a family

Awon kan se album kan,wan salo london
tori ni naija wan wulo mo bi kpali condom - DAGRIN

Munzy14:
If not self esteem, she should have been Queen of 10/10 without competition. She is still Female Face of 10/10.

While Koyin is male Face of 10/10.

Bright Morgan = Mr 10/10
Dede= Miss 10/10

FACT x1000000000000000000000000

Friendly25:
Please what part of Rivers is Kola from maternally? He seems particularly interested in everything Igbo for some reason.

Ahoada west local government 🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚