EvergreenDiarie: In today’s emotional and honest video, DJ Mysterious sits down for a heartfelt conversation after her son bravely asks questions about his father. What starts as a simple moment turns into a deep, thoughtful discussion about family, truth, and healing.
Watch as DJ Mysterious shares her genuine reaction — balancing motherhood, honesty, and vulnerability — while opening up about a part of her past she rarely speaks about. This is a side of her you’ve never seen before.
💬 Let us know in the comments: Have you ever had to answer a tough question from your child? How did you handle it?
CodeTemplarr: are you normal atall? So coup is symmetric warfare to you?
Wooow. Many are mad but few dey roam walahi... So no one knows the hideouts of terrorists even when the army do arrest their arms, food, fuel and drug suppliers or can bug ransoms being paidout to them?
Some of you, your kidney will outperform your own brains if grafted to your medulla oblongata. No jokes.
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Glimpsetv: A little drama unfolded when a student allegedly fell into a trance during school hours and was taken to a nearby church still wearing her school uniform.
The student, believed to be a member of a white-garment church, reportedly slipped into a spiritual trance unexpectedly. Her teachers quickly intervened and rushed her to the closest white-garment church for help. Some of her classmates followed, also still in their school uniforms.
Watch the viral video and share your thoughts in the comments.
Caaz: You re not even thinking how to make it bigger past your present level,your mind is focused on how to still be a boy boy to somebody,abii nor be your mates get tech coys?
It's well with your switchbox.
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Bluntemperor: Alas, something good or fishy is here! Are you sure with just N1700- you have 2- set of Chicken 🐔 Plates Soup 🍲? Honestly,I'm just curious 🧐 o and please,can you tell me where I can do the shopping here in Lagos? I love this settings!
She dey whine us. I know this woman. Na like that she dey always do
Caaz: Budget friendly cooked with lil money. Ingredients used. cup of egusi Redoil Iru Salt Maggi(a pack)I used 2 cube) Bitterleaf (squeezed by me) FULL CHICKEN SMOKED DRIED FISH Fresh pepper
With lil money you can prepare these meal.
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Studying medicine is not for those who cram to pass, it is a must you know everything about science, not just to read and pass..
I was once rooting for medicine during my undergraduate days, nobody told me to settle for another course, microbiology...
Medicine is a course you must no the in and out of all that is required to excel, not just because you see people studying it and you want to jump at it...
What's there to read and understand in anatomy.... The preclinical part of medicine is cramming, you will cram tire
Jackanda1: I mentioned medical student because I know that medicine requires a high jamb score. I am seeking for admission into medicine. it has been my dream for some time now, but jamb had been making it very difficult. It has been more than 6 years. I had to settle for a course I do not like. I'm a graduate now and done with Nysc. However my dreams remain. I attended three times and give up. I want to try it again with the determination to get it this time. I am seeking advice from people who have pass this stage successfully.
So I am making another attempt at jamb next year. I have started studying with jamb syllables and past questions but my problems are:
1. The textbooks are just too bulky. There are too many things to study if you are following the syllabus. It is very frustrating. Too many things to study in a very short period of time.
2. Tendency to forget easily. Things I studied last month I have forgotten more than 50% of it, because of it bulkiness.So I have to go back to revise them which is time consuming especially when I have new topics to study.
3. I'm currently studying organic compounds in chemistry. And it is it is painful that I couldn't answer all the past questions on that topic. I had to go back to revise the topic. It seems jamb questions are hidden in corners of the textbooks. And you can't find them no matter how hard you cram.
4. I do not know if my brain is a little bit slow because I can spend time on one particular topic and in 3 days time I end up forgetting 70% of what I read in that topic.so Did you people go through this problems cuz I'm tired.
5. Medicine for me is a do or die. I don't intend to give up. I always see myself as a medical doctor. But jamb is jamming me too much.
I need help and encouragement from you guys. How did you do it.
Should I just focus on past questions. Tell me how you did it. if possible break it down summarize it. Even if it's a hard Way. Tell me, I need your help.
If your number 2 and 4 is true, you're going to have SERIOUS problem in medical school. Medical curriculum is vast, If you should sit down with textbooks all day without sleeping AT ALL, you still can't finish the syllabus. And ability to pass your professional exams is dependent on you remembering things you read a year ago. You just have to learn to remember if you truly want medicine
FitCorper: Hope u are not going through all this, because you want to be close to a lady? You said you’re already done with Nysc? Why not focus on the next chapter of life, get a good job, work sometime save up and further ur m.sc if u love knowledge that much. Going back in present day Nigeria isn’t worth it, especially with more people embracing herbal concoction as alternative to expensive health care. If by some miracle this method proves workable for Nigerians then that profession would lose all its relevance. Before you talk of government certifying herbs unsafe just know that the avg Nigerian don’t give a Bleep about the government.
I like your confidence, the way you displayed ignorance with confidence needs to be studied!!!
Fibroids—also called uterine fibroids or leiomyomas—are non-cancerous growths that develop in or around the uterus. They are one of the most common reproductive health conditions in women, especially between ages 25 and 50.
What Are Fibroids? Fibroids are benign tumors made of muscle and fibrous tissue. They vary in size—from as small as a seed to as large as a watermelon. Some women may have just one fibroid, while others have many. Fibroids can grow in different locations: -Intramural: inside the wall of the uterus -Submucosal: protruding into the inner cavity of the uterus -Subserosal: on the outer surface of the uterus -Pedunculated: attached to the uterus by a stalk
What Causes Fibroids? The exact cause is not fully understood, but several factors increase the likelihood: 1. Hormones Estrogen and progesterone—female reproductive hormones—fuel fibroid growth. 2. Genetics Fibroids tend to run in families. 3. Race Black women are more likely to develop fibroids, often at a younger age and with more severe symptoms. 4. Lifestyle Factors -Obesity -Diet high in red meat -Low intake of fruits and vegetables -Early menstruation (before age 10)
Common Symptoms Some women have no symptoms, but when symptoms occur, they may include: 1. Heavy or Prolonged Menstrual Bleeding This can lead to anemia. 2. Pelvic Pain or Pressure Due to the size or location of the fibroid. 3. Frequent Urination Fibroids can press on the bladder. 4. Pain During Sex 5. Back or Leg Pain If fibroids press on nerves. 6. Difficulty Getting Pregnant Some fibroids interfere with conception or pregnancy
How Are Fibroids Diagnosed? Doctors may use: -Pelvic Examination -Ultrasound Scan (most common and reliable) -MRI Scan (for detailed imaging) -Hysteroscopy (camera inserted into the uterus) -Blood Tests (to check for anemia)
Treatment Options Treatment depends on symptoms, size of fibroids, and future fertility plans. 1. No Treatment (Watchful Waiting) If symptoms are mild or nonexistent. 2. Medications These help control symptoms but don’t permanently remove fibroids: -Hormonal birth control -GnRH agonists (shrink fibroids temporarily) -Tranexamic acid for heavy bleeding -Pain relievers 3. Non-Surgical Procedures -Uterine Fibroid Embolization (UFE): cuts off blood supply to shrink fibroids -MRI-Guided Focused Ultrasound: uses high-intensity ultrasound waves 4. Surgical Treatments -Myomectomy: removes only the fibroids (fertility-preserving) -Hysterectomy: removes the entire uterus (permanent cure; no future pregnancy)
Fibroids and Pregnancy Fibroids can: -Make it harder to get pregnant -Increase the risk of miscarriage -Cause pregnancy complications like pain or preterm birth -However, many women with fibroids still conceive and deliver safely.
Prevention & Lifestyle Tips: Though fibroids can't always be prevented, healthy habits may reduce the risk. -Maintain a healthy weight -Eat more fruits, vegetables, and whole grains -Reduce red meat consumption -Exercise regularly -Manage stress
When to See a Doctor: -Seek medical care if you notice: -Very heavy bleeding -Severe pelvic pain -Difficulty conceiving -Rapidly growing abdomen -Fatigue or dizziness (possible anemia)
Nwaikpe: Some things that are food to some societies are not necessarily a discovery based on ingenuity but on situational conditions.
That is why Africans can "discover" that a leaf called "BITTER LEAF" is actually SWEET. Not because they undertook any research, but because they were HUNGRY.
xoverx: Are you so young to know that using Love Machine and cucumber will take away virginity?
Using cucumber will Love machine, nahhhhhh There is a love machine called bullet, you don't insert inside the vagina, you put on and around the clitoral hood, and your hymen will remain intact FOREVER
BlessingIsraelM: Yea right, not the type you easily lure with sweet mouth to bed. The beautiful and attractive ones are not as wise so they are easy prey. She may not find you attractive neither, get down from your high horse.
Nope The beautiful ones have been preyed on all their lives since they were in primary school, before telarche, the had it real bad, from the useless brothers in the environment to the seniors and student teacher/teachers in school, to the very old men. They were taught from a very small age their beauty would get them the attention of men, so why work on their minds. The only way the less beautiful was going to attract anyone would be by building her mind Some pretty girls have been asked out by over 100 guys/men before they finished secondary school, imagine that kind of pressure before turning 16. Whereas for others, no one knew of their existence. And they ones who noticed, they(the girls) didn't like them!!!
muyico: graduate, my late dad value education, his aims for me, is to become an engr
If by this your answer you still don't get my point, then there's nothing I can do. You finished school because you wanted to make your dad proud, it's not a broken home, the 2 aren't the same. Most children from broken homes don't turn out well(you can ready studies done on this) Please don't compare children who lost their parent to those from a broken home!!!
muyico: you no gat my points! I lost my mom February 2 this yr, 2005, I finished o level, she advised/encouragesd me, to go and learns fridge repair, I said "NO" if her mom instructed her to marry older man, she gat all right to say "NO"! Most Nigeria celebrity, they parent don't support in first place, after they become successful, they accept them back, Funke Akindele, one example, Femi Adebayo second example
Nope, this particularly girl most certainly thought her father abandoned her when he didn't come for her. And I can't even begin to imagine the things the mum might have said to poison the dad's image. Both femi Adebayo and Funke Akindele were supported. Any famous celebrity today had SOMEONE who BELIEVED and INVESTED in their career!!!
muyico: ages of 12, [my late mom advised me to go and learns fridge repair, i said no, i start working with baba onih chalk, i mean working at chalk factory, i go dere, after sch hour and weekend, that is how i sponsored myself, deborah my co worker, she be teenager den! we hustle together! my guy?? no excuse, i as long i achieved it, nobody! wey no fit achieve it
But before the death of your father, what was his plans for you Mechanic or a graduate
[quote author=muyico post=137308010][/quote]Oga it's not the same. Did your mum or spirit of your dead father encourage you to do yahoo at 15 or 16 years
Please sir, do not be unfortunate and stop being insensitive Her mum told her to start keeping boyfriend for money at the age of 15 years, a girl who was previously on scholarship At that age, we took our parents as gods, a friend told me back then in secondary school that wrestling was acting but because my dad said it was real, I almost fought with the guy. My brother and I started calling him names just because of.... I hope you get now A psychologist once said, "Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors." So you going to school and finishing HND is probably because your father encouraged education while he was alive and you wanted to make him proud!!!
Helpout12345: Honestly I like your reasoning. I am not surprised since you are a doctor.
Background of anyone matters alot and most especially in marriages. It shapens all their reasoning and perspectives to life and challenges.
This is why most people from poor Background have poor people thinking, and vice versa for the rich.
Same way most ladies from single mothers end up becoming single mothers. Men from wife beating fathers end up beating their wives.
Back to this your case, the lady comes from a background of 4 people depending on her and they are already seeing you like their "savior". I see them seeing you as a savior as a red flag. I believe this is how your girlfriend is seeing you also. This is going to be the Genesis of your problems in the marriage if not well handled.
Let me ask, have you tested the love that girl has for you Is she really in love with you as a person or with you as a doctor savior for her family Remember that women are very good pretender and manipulator when they want to marry a man. You need to first test and confirm her love and loyalty to you in this situation.
You said "...The babe is perfect, 100% perfect, 100% God's babe, A VIRGIN...". You didn't mention how much the babe has been tested and confirmed to love you. She needs to still love you as a person in addition to those good qualities for you to enjoy a marriage with her.
Once you clear this, then you BOTH might be able to work together to overcome the challenges that her family background will bring to the marriage.
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The answer to the question you asked me: "No, I haven't".
Kobojunkie: Your background and mental maturity are of equal if not more importance, and clearly, that girl ain't right for you.
Also, since you are looking for a girl without family to boot, I suggest you also ensure you wait until you have no family of your own that could pose a burden to the girl you will end up with. That way, you won't worry about ending up penniless and the girl will also not ever have to worry about needing to take care of your family members as well.
😁😁😁😁😁😁 You can never change, you and your subtle jabs. Anyways, thanks for your input. I posted this because I want to learn
duduade: Background is very very important when going into a marriage with someone... From their background and upbringing you can be able to seduce their way of thinking... Even if you observe closely through dating, courting... The way matters are been handled in extended families is a deduction of how your partner might handle una matter
Where we have people who didn't grow well but are hell bent on having a family whatever the cost it maybe
Now we have exceptional cases where families are okay but your partners are just dysfunctional
Or children of single mothers saying they must make sure when they marry they keep a family unit...
Or children of divorced parents saying they don't like marriages.. they will rather keep baby mama la or baby daddies
Or children who became orphans and grew into adults becoming selfish and all
Remember someone still posted here yesterday or two days ago .. a guy like me saying he prefers do marry an orphan... As he doesn't have the will to be comforting someone thru the loss of her parents o.. imagineooo
The saying goes ... A rich person amongst poor family members is also a poor person... Because he or she will keep on forever serving the family members... Except of the rich person is stingy and cuts away.. because how the person wan gather... Even if you are paying black tax, then you need to be cautious...
In as much as there is no manual to this thing called marriage, one has to be careful and one way one must be is by doing a background check.. i
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