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Romance / Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by Relevant123: 2:51pm On Jul 26, 2023
Which kind story line be this?

are you sure youre old enough?

Abeg naija get issues wey dey bother me like this







I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?
Food / Re: Is This Fact About Boiled/roasted Corn True? by Relevant123: 2:40pm On Jul 26, 2023
Very Valid point

Ur name though grin grin





Amotolongbo:
Nobody told anyone.
It is just a coincidence based on residential planning.

Almost every residential accessible road in Nigeria has gutter which drains water from the residential houses and and on roads. Not only corn (roasted or boiled) is sold close to the gutter in Nigeria, almost all essential goods with no shop are sold close to gutter for easy accessibility by passing buyers.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: ECOWAS Leadership Will Not Accept Illegitimate Authority In Niger - Tinubu by Relevant123: 2:37pm On Jul 26, 2023
like say you no be illegitimate president undecided undecided
Foreign Affairs / Re: Rumoured Coup Ongoing In Niamey: Presidential Guards surround Bazoum's Residence by Relevant123: 12:14pm On Jul 26, 2023
Na u be d Idiot
D guy knows what he is saying,abi na una wan fight for Nigeria ni
after all una no fight for Deborah uptill today.





honor4me:
I swear to God. The idiot just commit treason

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Rumoured Coup Ongoing In Niamey: Presidential Guards surround Bazoum's Residence by Relevant123: 12:04pm On Jul 26, 2023
Guy forget that thing,na people like you make this country d way e dey till today
Let war spring up,who cares....,because say e dey favor some tribe politically dem no dey complain.

Why have i not witnessed an Igbo man rule this country ever since i was born despite their immense contributions
to the economy of this country??

#RETURN D STOLEN MANDATE!!!!!





ecolime:

If you no pity yourself, pity your parents. You can get locked up for this nonsense you just typed.

You don't need to mention Nigeria until your innuendo is classified as an incitement against the state.

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Music/Radio / Re: Davido's Performance At BET Awards 2023 (Video) by Relevant123: 6:40pm On Jun 27, 2023
The babe on ankara smiley wink

All these loads in d name of bling bling no dey heavy them for neck grin grin grin

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