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StPete:
You will be fine. It’s better to be divorced and have peace of mind than constantly worrying what next will upset him. I hope you work, if you don’t, start searching for job opportunities cos you will need the finances as soon as the divorce is done.

With time, love will call again. In the interim, get yourself and sanity back in order

I do work and have a good career. Thank you for your words. Its so tough because he is everything to me. I go to him for every decision and he has all my savings because he is good with budget.

It will be starting again 😂 even thinking for myself. I know it sounds mad but i met him at 18 now im nearly 40.

Hello

My marriage is ending and i am devasted. I got married at a very young age and we have two amazing children. I always say marriage is my biggest achievement but that is falling apart and i dont know how i will be able to live on.

My husband is muslim and im not. In the begging this has never been an issue. We had a great marriage. My husband started getting more religious which caused some conflict for example he wont watch certain movies or listen to music. I love romatic movies and rnb songs. He also complains about dressing etc but i think we always managed to find a balance somewhat.

He expects sex nearly everyday if we dont then he gets angry and says rude things.

He wants constant attention even when we sit down together 5 hours he will still say i dont give him attention.

I dont have many friends in our town so rarely go out. My family is in another town so i call my mum and family. When im on the phone too long he gets angry and says i dont give him attention, im a bad wife ,and its better we are not together

We have some good times but once every like 2 weeks he gets very angry over something very little and says really rude things that are hurtful like i am not a good wife.

Yesterday i woke up at 6am and i had a text from a friend who was worrying about something and i responded. He got angry saying how can i wife text at 6am- making it seem like im cheating when im not which i found degrading. He has my phone password . And he always checks it. I am 100% loyal.

i said to him i will respond to my friend who needs help at any time. He said well then we shouldnt be married if you dont listen to your husband and accused me of being disrespectful When he gets angry he threatens me with divorce. This time i had enough and i printed divorce papers and completed them.

I never thought i would get divorced. I am so sad and devasted.

i love my husband but he has changed so much. i feel like he is always disapointed in me. Nothing i do is good enough and puts me down. I feel like my husband now wants a different kind of wife not me and hence he is always disapointed in every little thing. And to clarify i dont believe my husband is cheating.

My family is my whole word. But i guess thats not enough

Not sure how i will move on