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Sports › Re: South Africa Formally Declares Interest To Bid For 2036 Olympic Games by Riddlemark: 5:57pm On Oct 30
Giant of Africa they will deliver
Food › Re: Which Popular Nigerian Fruit Do You Secretly Hate? by Riddlemark: 2:42pm On Oct 25
Never really understood why people love avocado.i detest it
Christianity Etc › Re: Please Do Not Depart From This World Without Accepting Jesus by Riddlemark: 8:11am On Oct 25
I had an encounter with our Lord Jesus last year and everything changed.I use to be agnostic but now I know better.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (0 - 2) On 24th October 2026 by Riddlemark: 5:05pm On Oct 24
Tottenham I believe in you.Give a reason to get mouth talk tomorrow.
Politics › Re: Soludo To Inaugurate Anambra Chapter Of Tinubu Campaign Council by Riddlemark: 8:26pm On Oct 23
Soludo tinubu is not coming back so don't waste your time.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: PSG Vs Barcelona: UCL (4 - 2) On 20th October 2026 by Riddlemark: 8:55pm On Oct 20
Psg will win the champions league again
Business › Re: Share Your Experience On How You Escaped Poverty by Riddlemark: 5:13am On Oct 09
I went to a betting shop and while I was there in 2021 someone came to play a game and the cashier played a wrong code for him.The man refused to collect the game and he told the cashier to play his game again.I had only 300 naira on me so I told the cashier to give me the game and I gave him 150.he thanked me and played the man's game for me.my ticket was eighty nine million.i did not even follow the game.it was on Monday afternoon when I came back from my private school work that I checked the game and discovered that it entered.i applied for Us visa and japad.I didn't tell anybody but all my peeps got something from the largesse
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Lies Flat On Cinema Floor To Propose To Girlfriend, She Says Yes by Riddlemark: 11:00pm On Sep 23
Stupid man which type of men are we now raising
Celebrities › Re: My Husband Beat Me When He Lost A Court Case & When MAN U Lost - Victoria Inyama by Riddlemark: 4:59pm On Sep 22
Did we force you to marry him.
Romance › Re: Men Who Don't Smoke, Womanize, What Exactly Makes You Happy? by Riddlemark: 4:30pm On Sep 21
Peace of mind
Romance › Re: Men Which Profession Will You Choose Among These Ladies by Riddlemark: 11:31pm On Sep 19
CorperKola:
I like the positioning and bodily make up of that soldier
I 'm ready to engage in friendly warfare with her
easy man
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army Unveils Special Recruitment For Skilled Recruits - Apply by Riddlemark: 3:12pm On Sep 19
Better stay at home than join that boy scout called Nigerian army.
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 8:03am On Sep 19
HopeNeverDies:
I'm 17yo , I've dated like 13 women!!!!
legend
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 8:01am On Sep 19
olioxx:
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Well I have seen too many patterns across November 6-12 people that they love solitude so much that they enter their shell very frequently.
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‎Another thing is the more deeply you feel and understand things the greater the pain, the more you overthink your choices and decisions etc
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‎Well one of my core principles in life is give your time more life. Cause time fly by so fast, you will remember when you were 19yrs old, 29yrs old and now almost 39 in a few months. Across those years did you do what made you happy?
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‎Well this is an anonymous public forum where the onus lies on you, we can only write, you know what is best for you based on your personality, financial capability, spirituality, mental resilience etc.
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‎My own take is, just enjoy the flow of life, if you will get married, once it's time, things will fall in place. And if it's otherwise, you won't be the first and definitely not the last.
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‎Dont stress too much, everything will be fine.
‎Drops pen 🖊️
thanks
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Brighton: EFL Cup (2 - 3) On 16th September 2026 by Riddlemark: 7:59pm On Sep 16
If my club no sack Carrick then it will be a long season for us.
Politics › Re: Wike: Kwara Governor AbdulRazaq Is A Gossip, He Calls My Name Every Time by Riddlemark: 5:19pm On Sep 16
Man too de Cho Cho choo tufiakwa
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 5:01pm On Sep 16
Fekumzi123:
At 39, you should have dated at least 10.
5 is way too small.
Nevertheless, it's ok to want to be alone. It is sweet, freedom, less problems, less drama.
But being alone has its own disadvantages and.... Being alone is not good for old age. You gone cry
you are a legend.What am I to do with them?
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 5:00pm On Sep 16
kelechi50:
@Op please think twice before making the decision not to marry.

Look around your vicinity and ask any older man of 65 upward living alone, what is his greatest regrets in life. His answer will tell you what to do.
really
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 4:58pm On Sep 16
Topnotch95:
FTC. Seun oya pay me my money grin

This will definitely hit front page.

Back to the matter

If you choose to not marry, that's fine. Just make sure you don't end up reflecting on your decision at old age when you might be considering starting a family and having kids. That's for that.

If you really want to find companionship with ant woman, lookout for someone you can vive and bond with easily, more of soul mate connection. With that, you will find a reason to be with a woman.

Lastly, you don't have to search for such women. Let the universe connect you both naturally ✨️

Enjoy ya life
thanks
Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 4:57pm On Sep 16
BigBashiru:
I am in the same boat as you but I'm.still trying to think it through deeply. I think I'm 90% towards marriage tho

What I don't understand though is why are guys excited on their wedding days? Why are they dancing? Why are they excited?!we the informed know a woman's "love" is conditional on what you can do for them and on what they are GAINING.

I'm thinking of only getting married to have an hier (successor) but if there is indeed a last day (according to Christianity), then what's the point of succession?

I think I'm 90% there though in terms of convincing myself to get married.

The plan is to get married just to have kids while continuing to hv girlfriends on the side for life... Il still be a good husband to my wife tho just that it won't be only her. Too many nice bannies.
true
Romance › I Generally Avoid Women by Riddlemark(op): 9:31pm On Sep 15
I avoid having romantic relationship with women.I am not gay my mama born me well.It is just that since I was young I have never understood the hype around women.I am not the most handsome but am not ugly either.All the five ladies I have dated came for me and I ended things with them because they were too clingy.I will 39 in November and everybody has been singing marriage to me but like nobody cares about how I feel.I don't want to marry nor have children but I can't say it loud in public.Money is no longer my problem but I want to live alone cos am happier alone.Pls is it normal or can anyone relate with this?
Christianity Etc › Re: My Money has been Refunded By Pastor Jerry Eze's Church says Lady by Riddlemark: 9:59am On Sep 13
mohbadliveson:
Jerry Eze.. all these end time pastors
closing your mouth would have been better
Foreign Affairs › Re: Professor Uju Anya Under Fire For Celebrating Charlie Kirk's Death Anniversary by Riddlemark: 12:57pm On Sep 12
Hatred is cancer.I can't hate a fellow human.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Lasisi Adewale Joins Spanish Club Atlético Teresiano by Riddlemark: 11:39am On Sep 11
I don't want to laugh grin cheesy grin
Fashion › Re: Dominican Republic’s Joheirry Mola Wins Miss World 2026 by Riddlemark: 7:54pm On Sep 05
Qualityoffer:
I wonder why a masquerade looking woman was chosen to represent Nigeria, upon all the manageable women available in Nigeria. That's quite pathetic.

Congratulations to the Miss World.
easy man na human being
Fashion › Re: Dominican Republic’s Joheirry Mola Wins Miss World 2026 by Riddlemark: 7:00pm On Sep 05
God forgive me but which kind owl go represent Nigeria.
Politics › Re: I Recorded Bandits Collecting Guns At Senator Shehu Buba's House - Hassan by Riddlemark: 5:34pm On Sep 05
Nothing will happen cos dey will dismiss it and end up killing the guy that leaked the secret.If you get money pls leave Nigeria.
Romance › Re: Why Men Are Tired Of Chasing Women? What Does This Mean Modern Dating? by Riddlemark: 8:56am On Sep 03
There's no gain chasing women
Sports › Re: FIFA Finally Recognizes Jay-Jay Okocha After 28 Years by Riddlemark: 3:09pm On Jun 14
Jay Jay is overrated but Nigerians are not ready for that argument.
Politics › Re: Anxiety As Shettima Waits On Tinubu’s Running Mate Decision by Riddlemark: 9:09pm On May 25
Tinubu want carry shettima handicap.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Jr. Marries Bettina Anderson In Bahamas Wedding by Riddlemark: 9:05pm On May 25
Try and make this one to last.God be with you.

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