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treasuress:
many people are taking trash, its like the guy is trying to teach you something, if he goes soft you wont learn trust me, if he didnt love u he would have ignored and threw the shirt away at your back, its good to be open minded, just call and apologise forget nigerian mentality simple

so u mean i offend him by giving him the gift

treasuress:
he is fed up with your cheapness, learn to spend

is not about being cheap, even if he buy me 10 naira something i cherish it with my whole life,

Jamean:
Is he your bf or husband

b.f

leofab:
op now you are saying the truth: he is angle because you are thief; how can only you get 5 shirts from a single ceremony Dem call your name organize the party?

na my friend ceremony na i suppose carry more than that

Finestlex:
Am a guy and i'll give you the best advice, break up with him.. he's still a boy, not matured. we should appreciate gifts no matter how small they are cos it's from the heart.. you sound so decent, you deserve a good man with manners

i wil have a heart to heart chat with him i hope he will tell me why he did.

iyobs7:
Is he the same guy you met in a bus that later got your name through Facebook?

no

Yomieluv:
So wrong of him..

He has attitude,and egoistic person..

Love don blind you to see all that..

i told you thats the first time

Ishilove:
Age is not a determinant of maturity

ok ma

Skillfullulu:
relatives

i dey school na

Skillfullulu:
your brother.

not an option, am not close to them.

bomasek:
Dude is a boy,date a more mature/gentle man next time.

he is matured enough to settle down.

kristina1:
He supposed to keep it atleast,he has a bad attitude,btw,did u offend him before?

NO

If she is not jealous that means she doesnt care for you

Enegod:
you didn't keep food for him before going for the wedding.... You see your life?!!!
Don't you know that an hungry man is an angry man

i was late thats why i didnt cook.

cupidhero:
Maybe the manner in which you gave him the gift made him do that,you don't just get into your BF's house and toss him a cheap shirt they gave you at a wedding and expect him to be happy. Next time package your words and gift well before you give him a gift. Who knows if you have been making yourself appear superior to him? If he is going through a tough time currently that means any free thing he receives from you that is cheap or even small will actually provoke him if you gave it to him without him asking for it.

i put the 5 shirt in my bag, when i enter he took my bag and ask me "where is my rice" he took the shirt out himself.

Enegod:
Op, congratulations you have just been dumped!!!!

if na ur plan e no work, HOLY GHOST FIRE.

Abuse of the first order

cupidhero:
tell your boyfriend to get some manners. He has no respect for you at all.

my hero thats his first time of doing something like that, thats why am even still surprise/confuse till now

missberrypop5:
I don't see anything wrong with it. That's a bad attitude. Even if he doesn't want them, he should have waited till you're out or Tell you he doesn't want them.

i really dont undertsand, though he has good attitude.

chimerase2:
op dat is a sign of telling u its ova

bros why you dey talk like this na, ok sorry say i lie for ur head talk better abeg, am really confuse

Aprime:
I take it that you hardly get him a gift to cheer about. And when you finally do, you tell him it's a free souvenir from a wedding! C'mon. .Who wouldn't walk out on you?

i buy gift for him all the time

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

if i dont give him the shirt who should i give?

He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

marieolae:
aww this is cute, but I'm taken Sorry

Ouch that hurt....

why u go just break im heart like that na